SO mad @ friend and need help guys

Thanks for that useless help beachguy. Is there a problem that I value friendship?

He was a really good friend until I started selling,then he became my 'drug buddy' and nothing else.(forgot who put it that way but thx).

gromorebud, I would love to kick the livin shit out of him, but the only thing that's stopping me is his cuzins, hes got some big people in this town that can do alot more to me.

Im not saying that I dont have some big people behind me but its just not worth fighting him over 3 5buds I havent got, like fuck its 15$. Still the grass runs for 200$ an oz up here, not cheap.

trivium the same thing kind of happend to me the only way i could solve it was just not smoke with him, maybe if youre going out sum night to a bar and your not smoking invite him and only hang out with him when there is no weed involved.i know this might not work but maybe its better than nothing.
good luck!

as for the "drug buddy, that was me and i had the same thing happen and i got so fed up with all the free loaders that i just quit selling all together, now i know who my true friends are, if you still want to sell then don't mix business with pleasure, as the saying goes "gas, grass or ass, noone rides for free"
peace
JD

To be honest it's all a joke!!
For fucks sake man get over it , so some dick say's " I'm not your friend" you're going to lose sleep ??
It's playground stuff man.

hello

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Originally Posted by Trivium

Thanks for that useless help beachguy. Is there a problem that I value friendship?

He was a really good friend until I started selling,then he became my 'drug buddy' and nothing else.(forgot who put it that way but thx).

gromorebud, I would love to kick the livin shit out of him, but the only thing that's stopping me is his cuzins, hes got some big people in this town that can do alot more to me.

Im not saying that I dont have some big people behind me but its just not worth fighting him over 3 5buds I havent got, like fuck its 15$. Still the grass runs for 200$ an oz up here, not cheap.

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What beach means is this:

When you talk about things, you have a tendency to talk about yourself. Let's say one of your friends just talks about himself, his accomplishments, what not, it's kinda boring right?

I'm not saying this like you intend to talk this way. It's just miscommunication of your thought processes.

I have the same problem, just be observant of yourself and so you can see yourself doing this.

hey, i'm kinda in the same boat but reversed. one of my best freinds sells herb and they fronted me like a week ago, but my check was less then i expected and i had to pay other bills first, rent, phone...... ect now my freind wont even call me and talks shit to our mutal freinds saying i'm a free loader and a bum.

unfortunatly you need to take your freind aside and talk to him about this. start haning out with him and not smoke weed unless he presents money. if he starts being a bitch about it call him on it, like you said he's your buddie and you value the freindship.

Yah I think he aint my buddy no more, so Im done with him.


But thcbongman. How do you deal with the thoughts, I have so many thoughts and I dont know what to say when to say it .... gah so much shit runs through my head man is there some kid of med for this>>>>

man i exactly know what u talkin about and how u feel the only difference is i dont sell shit...but then again most of my friends wont come see me less i have some weed or anything to get them hi man....aint that a bytch..like they wont come chill just to talk have a drink or something...but thankfully i got some real friends that will hang with me whenever wherever so i just neglect them and let them do whatever they want to...but since u sellin shit...man u gotta get that money...nuff said i guess

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Originally Posted by Trivium

Yah I think he aint my buddy no more, so Im done with him.


But thcbongman. How do you deal with the thoughts, I have so many thoughts and I dont know what to say when to say it .... gah so much shit runs through my head man is there some kid of med for this>>>>

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I know exactly what you are talking about. Does it seem like your entire thinking is like a slideshow? Thoughts that flows to another in rapid succession that you can't seem to control?

You have to try to be calm and relax your defenses so to speak. Don't be consicious of what you say, just say it. Not saying it won't change your view and thoughts on something. Might as well say it honestly. Don't try to be someone you are not, because all it ends up with fakeness all around you. There are going to be people who like you for who you are, and people who don't like you for who you are. It's the case for everybody. Try to get interested on new hobbies, activities, books, media. That'll help you keep your thoughts fresh and slowed down.