Blushing - Help!

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Originally Posted by cannabis campbell

your manager a man by any chance?

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No, a woman!

Ok thats really weird then because if its a man that its understandable, ermm you every fancied women?? (only joking).

Maybe its just because your nervous, paranoid?

Try and be more confident in yourself :).

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Originally Posted by cannabis campbell

Ok thats really weird then because if its a man that its understandable, ermm you every fancied women?? (only joking).

Maybe its just because your nervous, paranoid?

Try and be more confident in yourself :).

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Its easy to say that but I just cant help it when my face goes hot, its not something I can control. Maybe I'm paranoid or something, maybe its the weed :(
Edit - the sales director is a guy, a handsome one at that which makes is excruciating when I blush when he's talking to me

Edit - no idea

Also sensi how did i manage to get an email from you if i dont have you on my msn???

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Originally Posted by SensiRide

Its easy to say that but I just cant help it when my face goes hot, its not something I can control. Maybe I'm paranoid or something, maybe its the weed :(

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Maybe, maybe not, Maybe its the weather??

because you only started getting it.??

but blushing is so cute!

Lol I dont think thats preventive...I dont think it's a problem, it actually looks nice to me hehe.

It could just be nerves sensi, Like you say when your asking for a day off things like that

The flushing response can mean a lot of things from exitement(if accompanied by pupil diliation) to fear, yeh I know extrem ends of the spectrum.

A fear of blushing can make you blush more often as you more conscious your gonna blush so you make it happen....If ya get me.

Try taking a few deep breaths and trying not to worry about blushing and it might stop, eh I know its as involuntary as smiling.

Jus trying to help

Peace rips

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Originally Posted by SensiRide

So I've only started getting this problem in the last year or so and its really embarrassing.
I cant stop blushing - it just happened there when I had to ask my manager for a day off, I could feel my face going bright red and she was looking at me like 'wtf?'
It happens when the new sales director guy talks to me, it happens when I'm having arguments, it happens at interviews, it happens all the time and I dont know how to stop it! Anyone else have this problem or know how I could overcome it? I hate the feeling of my face going really hot :(

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Drink more water
relax and don't feel guilty about anything
It looks like it only happens when you speak to persons of authority.
Just know when you talk to them that you are as smart or smarter than them and that should help you relax.

I'm sure it's just a nervous thing, but talk to your doctor to rule out that chronic blushing thing...