likem, thanks for the compliments ... you're my biggest fan in Oklahoma ... so I'll tell .......Quote:
Originally Posted by likemclever
The reason that I know as much as I do is that I've made lots of the typical man mistakes ... all well intended at the time:
1) Putting my job over the family relationship
2) Using sex as an intimacy replacement
3) Controlling .... solved all family problems by myself
The root of these types of problems are typically lack of communication, They can be worked through in lots of cases ... (Some problems like cheating or physical abuse are deal-breakers).
There was a point when my wife said that sex was boring for her .... but what she meant that the relationship was boring her. I had 10 years invested in the marriage and 2 small daughters ... and OUCH ! I thought that I was doing things right ... luckily, we used the opportunity to work things out.
So the answer is ... no, I'm not THAT good in bed LOL, .... We have learned to communicate and solve problems together, 27 years married, although years 7-10 were especially difficult, and seemed like a million years.
That's my story ...
DonnieD
