Question about the pill...

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Originally Posted by Gen

Do not take the pill!!!!!!! Ever. This is very dangerous for young women. They're finding the pill is associated with cancer, etc.

This is the natural way to prevent pregnancy I tell women. This has worked for me for many years. Day 1 of your period up to day 5 you are safe. He can ejaculate inside you. Day 6 through day 15 you will ovulate and sperm can stay alive for several days dangerous days to avoid pregnancy. Only have sex during these days with a condom. Or he withdraws before he comes. You will not get pregnant if you follow these rules. After day 15 you cannot get pregnant till you start your period again.

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ever heard of pre-cum? Pulling out before the guy comes is not always effective and you can get pregnant from that.

Yeah, I know there are sperm in preejactulation. Not enough though.

I dont agree wiht the "he pulls out" shit.
even if you get jsut s teeny bit on your vaginal opening you cna STILL get pregnant. and pre-ejaculate fluid also contains trace amounts of sperm that CAN cause women to become pregnant.

either use a condom, or BC, or both.
..or just have ONE partner. i dont get whats with this "I've got five bitches" thing. its lame.
My finacee and I ahve been together 2 years, and I have NEVER made him wear a condom. he lost his virginity to me, so obviously I had nothing to worry about dealing with STDS. I get tested at the gyno once a year.

as for the weight gain due to the shot. its a MYTH. I've not gianed wieght since on it. I'm not ohnestly THAT active. yes I ride horses, but my body has been adjusted to that for over 10 years.
..if you can get off your ass and WALK for 30 minutes daily 3 times a week, I dont see what the problem is.

there, 2 things I hate the absoloute most, wait no..three.

-People with boyfriends who "pull out" and think its "safe"
-LAZYNESS
-people who think its OK to have multiple partners, or have a partner and NOT have them tested before sex.

..call me a prude, or whatever the hell you want. but responsiblity is a key factor in having sex. yea, it feels GREAT, but its not really suppose to happen until your an ADULT. I see all these teenagers running around advertising themselves (especially the females) hell, american eagle might as well sell shirts that say "Cum Dumpster" on them.

..seriously.

but yea, the shot is the way to go if your not a fatass already.

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Originally Posted by Gen

Women who take the pill for long periods of time can become infertile. It takes years before they can become pregnant again.

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not true:
your more likely to get pregnant right after you stop taking the pill.
but that was just advice from my gyno.

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Originally Posted by Gen

Yeah, I know there are sperm in preejactulation. Not enough though.

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also not true:
I got pregnant from pre-cum.

Every one is different so maybe the rythm method works for you. But there is a reason they dont teach the rythm method in high school health class any more.

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Originally Posted by Gen

Women who take the pill for long periods of time can become infertile. It takes years before they can become pregnant again. .

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How long is "long"? My wife was on the pill for 8 years before we decided to have a baby. She stopped taking the pill, we waited 6 months(I used condoms) to make sure everything was cool, and then she got pregnant the first month we tried. Maybe I just have super sperm or something:p

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Originally Posted by zephyrinne

If taken correctly according the instructions, at the same time everyday.. the pill is over 99% effective. If there are absolutely no worries about STDs, then you will be just fine having sex without a condom and even ejaculating in her, that is IF she is perfect with taking those pills.

I've been on the pill for about 4 years.. I've never had any preg. scares. I'm far from perfect from taking these things too.. I'll miss a day here and there. And at the time of my relationship, my boyfriend and I would have sex and he would ejaculate in me half the time. Still, no worries at all. So the pill is extremely effective in preventing pregnancy.. :)

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i wish my wife were that confident in the pill.... :(

my sperms eat birth control pills for breakfast

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Originally Posted by friendowl

my sperms eat birth control pills for breakfast

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as long as it's not eggs...

I got preganant from pulling ou method the day before my period exactl.y..then i had my period..walked around preg for eight weeks not knowing till the first 6...so ANYTHING can happen

were you on the pill lizka?