how to make a move.

yeah man, got right for the leg, inner thigh, just rub it... my brother had testicular cancer and he has no nuts.. so feel special!! lol but i guess i kinda know where your commin from with it, do you think that could be the real reason why your nervous tho??? cause J (my brother) im talkin to right now (19) has the same problem with girls he hasent knowen for awhile. but he says it pass's once you get into the girls charm there will be no more time to even think about being nervious. so just dont worry about it and have fun, maybe ull get road head on the way home or something i really dont know how this girl is but cross ur fingers that you dont get blue ball. and about the normal size dick/looks small sometimes but bigger other times while not hard. i get that all the time. but we want a report on how the night goes! so good luck and have fun.. but be safe. later.

...You guys with girlfriends are lucky, you know that?

no matter what happens all is as it should be

JohnnyCutCorners, Did you know there is a surgery you can have done where they will give you another ball? I saw it on Dr. 90210 today. They put a silicone ball on you. I am sure it cost a small fortune though and not sure how safe it would be.

Yes I do that naamah. I have thought about this prostethis testical were they insert the 2nd one. I have to wait another year to have the surgery done and I am not wiating any longer to get laid.

anyway we didnt get to go to the movies becuase i have to work all weekend and on monday wich sucks.

you could just rock the fact that you have one ball so much so that people get jealous of it.

haha no shes cool with it, I told her my other g/fs had no problem with it considering i havent had one and from what you guys siad she shouldnt care. and she doesnt.

is it normal to be nervous when your going to lose your virginity?

EDIT :: even if you havent done a single thing with a girl other then make out with her.

edit again i havent made out with her , but other girls i have just not any farther.:(


there's also sometimes where i get so nervous talking to her that if we were going off to go have sex some place, i think i wouldnt be able to get it up. shes asked me numerous times over our MSN conversations on web camera to show her my dick and I dont want too because I cant get it hard and it looks too small..

Dude, you'll know the right time to do it. I mean you should, like tell her she's hot then lean in and kiss her. Something like that. If she's more refined and you barely know her, tell her she's cute. Whatever. Generally from there on it's all electricity and you should be making out all night. Of course be confident and make sure to compliment her now and then, but don't be like overly persistent to where you're like constant just to where you are obsessive just pamper her a bit. Remember approach it with confidence. Alot of guys have trouble with that.

Alot of your problems probably stem from a mental disorder that deals with lack of confidence. I've struggled with similar sexual complications as well, not the exact same situation, but very similar which I think may have alot to do with your dilemma. It's probably nothing to worry about. If you just relax and stop thinking so much about sex you'll probably get over it. Generally relying on the problem is what causes the stress and health related issues. Although I could be wrong. It could be your partner, your body, various things, but for most young people it's nothing. Hope that helps.