how do you end an argument?

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Originally Posted by robert42

Abuse?

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Not nearly. But I'd like to use your next quote.

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Originally Posted by robert42

its if they happen more and more then u worry and get ready with a u know.... crazy crazy stories

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Those are happening, more and more. Except, we won't grab a knife. I just get less and less words in.

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Originally Posted by sophiastarchild

I just had this problem this morning. Unfortunately lately we both yell until one of us leaves or we can't take it anymore, followed by uncomfortable silence. However, I am working on simply ignoring my husband when he pisses me off.

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The future looks bleak, dear sophia. Especially, for your husband. That works with me (ignoring me), but that's when what I say means the most because I wasn't cut off.

world is spinning round
sun is shining bright

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Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush

I am trying to just ignore it and let him cool out, but I can't stand it when someone is mad at me. I always want to talk about it, talk until it's dead I guess.

If I leave him alone I am afraid he will just stay mad about that one stupid thing forever.

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100% match (blink several times (please))

That's the biggest difference between my partner and I. Every single part of our personalities are the exact same way (exactly the opposite). She holds it in, I blab it out. Sooner or later, I'm gonna talk myself senseless, but, once again, she'll cut me off.:cursing:

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Originally Posted by justinsane

world is spinning round
sun is shining bright

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The World is flat
JustinSane, you're not right.

scarlett i feel yeah
im a nice guy and when my lady gets in a rage i flip out.
i feel like if she is in a bad mood and wants to pick on me i just match her anger.if ive done nothing wrong and shes tripping then its on her.
if your man is just a grouch and youve done nothing to provoke him then fuck his ass.ignore him and he will come back and apologize.
when someone is angry and your not it makes them more angry.

I always ended an arguement with my past boyfriends by walking away....staying away for awhile and then they come running back. But now that i am older and much more mature than that since the last time i dated anyone i feel that was a mistake, you cant walk away from a problem, and wait it out, and what if none of them came back for me? Im sorry i can not be much help with ending arguement with your guy, but if you need help on ending an argument with a friend let me know. Best to you, scarlett! Peace! :)

When I get into a fight with some one a care for alot I just say "fuck it" and smoke a blunt lol. Usually they appologize to me then we're all cool again like it never happened.

Been married now for 6 years. Believe me we have had a few disagrements but not once had a fight. Both of us in brevios relationships did the fighting and screaming and what it get us nothing. We eventualy moved on. When the Wife and I first started to see each other I told her of the past and how did not want to go down that road again. When we have a disagrement we discuse it and in end we might not agree but at least understand. One will win this round but is not a relationship a thing of comprimises. Win some loose some. I end we show and treat each other with respect. Can not do that by screeming at each other. Mind you been a few times we had to give each other space to cool things down. lol. And it is fun after it all over.

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Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush

When I get in fights with my beau it always feels like the end of everything. I don't know how to end it, I don't know how to act or feel.
What do you do when you get in fights with someone you love?

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Use a ClubHammer [5 pounder] That should sort out most problems for you.