advice needed

i ment to put this in there but forgot to

the reason i didnt ask her out before is because she has always been confused about her feelings shes had a bad child hood and a rough past and she seeks affection from people (not sex shes still a virgin and is saving it for the right guy) she just wants people to care about her. i asked her if i was like that she told me at first it started out like that but after she got to know me i became more than that to her and i know thats the truth

so i wore my heart on my sleeve and asked her out but shes still too confused

OK I am sorry if I seemed to belittle the whole thing before, but
'just like spiritually closer i would say. But then a guy she used to like comes back from college and she hung out with him to see if she still had feelings for him and he touched her against her will and he forced her to touch him so she stopped talking to him and got depressed'
I have heard this story before and know how it goes 'you help her through her hour of need-getting close to her and thinking she is close to you, she leads you to believe she cares for you-then she goes back to the abusing cunt'.
I do not know why but I guarantee you that is what will happen.

shes smarter than that

Take her on a drive down I-90 a ways and then turn off, park, talk to her, then start crying.

i wish it was that easy i cant drive im old enough to but like i suck at it so much that i feel that everyone would be safer with me not on the roads so i do everyone a favor and not drive

and i cant cry i dont know why i cant i just cant

dude your problem sounds very similar to the one I had in high school. It was actually almost the same situation really. We were good friends, nothing more, then she said there might be something more. Instead of making a move, I sat back. Now she's got someone else and we barely talk anymore. Dont miss out or you might spend the rest of your life wondering what if??

...we also got drunk together one night, then she jumped on me and we went at it, yet still nothing now...DO IT.

too late she goes out with him now and i think our friend ship is on the rocks

well shit son, let us roast a bowl then..

Lol, get her on the rebound!!!

You're next, right? Send her some dead flowers with a note attached saying that it came from her current boyfriend.

nah im just trying to get over her right now if she ever decides she likes me again then maybe, but i dont know she hurt me pretty bad