test the waters is in reference to me going to the site, not the men, right??? lol
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test the waters is in reference to me going to the site, not the men, right??? lol
i don't need a guy with a car. my current boyfriend doesn't have one. we make do. what i meant, though, was that my ex was 26, lived half an hour from where he worked, and I was the one who had to drive him to work. i'm 18, i have my own car, pay for my own gas as well as other expenses i have, and HE had to rely on ME. i don't need a guy with a car, as i stated before, but it's kinda of stupid to not have a car if you live on your own in los angeles, because you really do NEED a car to get around. it got annoying when i had to pick him up to go on dates, end up picking up the bill because he got shit tips the night before, and pretty much had to depend on his 18 year old girlfriend (no, i was 17 at the time, same conditions of gas, my own car, and other shit i had to pay for...) to have a good time and stuff. it was lame. i don't think it's stupid to want a guy who can support himself and not depend on me to drive us everywhere. you can pretty much ask and heterosexual female, and from my experience, they'd say the same thing. don't give me any misogyinstic bullshit about it, nor any femenazi crap, either. i consider myself a femenist, but the idea of being picked up at home after getting ready for my man doesn't bother me in the least. you really have no basis for calling me 'stupid' other than your lame attempt to make me seem materialistic.Quote:
Originally Posted by trapped in a dream
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No, I was actually talking about testing those waters, but I was joking.
If the reason why you're insecure is because of your hearing, attention span, homosexual tendencies, nervousness, just anything, try to meet a girl where she can be warned of your deficits beforehand.
Like a computer. I'd suggest one of those phone services, they have them free in my area, but I can hear you know, "What? What was that? Sunday? Sunday you'll come see me? No? What? Oh. Someday you'll come see me? "
i cant even hear on the phone dude i cant hear at all... when i was with Monique, i had tried talking to her on the phone a few times, and she has a voice i can hear fairly well, but on the phone i might have heard about 10% of what she said. :(
and the internet sucks ass man, it fucking sucks :(
im just destined to be alone i guess...