Girlfriend might be pregnant!

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Originally Posted by Button Basher

Ain't that the truth. :D

Feeling a lot better. Thanks guys, i'd send you all a blunt if I could. :)

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Howdy BB,

I'm glad that you feel better..but it ain't over quite yet..so hang in there,we're all rooting for y'all. I understand that you're caught between a rock and a hard spot..and I need to git busy and start prayin for y'all..you need all the help you can get. Let this be a lesson for you and stop treating sex so casually,it does have consequences that you must face-one way or another. I hope that your gal is just having female problems,because if you really love each other,a child is the single most precious gift that you can share together,that and un-conditional love for each other. I can rest in peace,knowing that I brought a most wonderful daughter into the world,there's one good thing that I have done in my life..and I became a father at 19..I put aside my wants and began providing for my family.

I re-read my earlier post,and I must agree with slip,that I was being somewhat harsh and judgemental,I apologize for that. I do tend to be somewhat too judgemental at times,but dang it..I got 46 years of livin life behind me and I don't want to see y'all younguns making the same mistakes that I've made..I have to remind myself though,it's our mistakes that make us who we are and sometimes we have to learn the hard way,but if your smart,you'll try not to repeat the mistakes that caused you grief..and you'll be that much stronger..when ya git to the other side.

Have a good one ....:)

Button .....

If you ask for advice on a message board, you gotta expect all kinds of opinions (and judgements), so try not to take it personally. The fact that they took time out to write means that they care.

As someone above said "unprotected sex is fucking dumb". That is correct, but we've all done dumb things. I've been in the exact situation, pulling out (real smart) and having some bleeding and a late period. In my case no pregnancy. That was 30 years ago, and I wasn't ready.

I wish you the best, and you seem like a caring and responsible person so both of you will handle whatever comes. If this does turn out to be a false alarm, be sure to learn from the scare (I did).

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Originally Posted by muncheemama

Bleeding doesnt mean pregnant. chill out. Sometimes it just happens, maybe you were getting too busy under that duvet. its scary, but i dont think youll be doing "warming up" anymore, nothing pulls your head out like a good old fashioned pregnancy scare....It happens to us all...

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god damn im smart.... :)

Aaaw, you guys... :)

I'm glad I read this thread again when I was lean :D . Tomorrow is the day! I'll let you know as soon as I do.

Thanks again for everyones help.

Thought i'd update this in case anyone was curious. Basically my girl took the test and apparently "it didn't work"!

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Good, that's good ¬.¬ ! She got it done at her college so she's gonna take matters into her own hands and do a home test. My spider sense isn't tingling anymore, I think it might be alright, particularly as she hasn't shown any other symptons of pregnancy. Just have to wait and see. ;)

I would suggest your girlfriend see's a doctor just to be sure she's not pregant. And if she is you both should do what you feel is right, if you are not ready for a child & cannot provide for a child then maybe a abortion is the right choice. I have gone through an abortion with my girlfriend, its not plesant to say the least but we both were not ready. Do what ever you think is right. Good Luck.

Button I say you and your girl need to cccccalm down. Just wait for her to have her period but if she is stressing the fuck out (and I know she is) it will more than likely delay her period. Every time I'm under alot of stress my period might be as much as four days late...so cool out. Chances are that she is NOT so just take a deep breth.

seriously who cares bout being pro-life or not. and who cares if you abort your baby that you will no longer be considered as "pro-life"

is it supposed to be "pro-life" to give the capital sentence, which is death, in the half of the states in USA?

it seems ppl call what they are when its arranging emsleves. yes BB made a fuckin dumb error, but he cant afford to have a baby. thats it.

Thank fuck for that, nothing to worry about. Everythings cool in the southern front. :eek: :cool: What a trip!

Adidas, Maryjanemama, Torog, muncheemama, likemclever, Jekl, mellow mood, donniedarko, you guys are the shit. Thanks a lot for helping me out with this, you did more then you think.

I guess that's ONE fetus Krishna Rajanna WON'T be stirring into his pot noodle :cool: ! (gross)

Thanks again you lot.

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Originally Posted by Button Basher

Thank f*ck for that, nothing to worry about. Everythings cool in the southern front. :eek: :cool: What a trip!

Adidas, Maryjanemama, Torog, muncheemama, likemclever, Jekl, mellow mood, donniedarko, you guys are the shit. Thanks a lot for helping me out with this, you did more then you think.

I guess that's ONE fetus Krishna Rajanna WON'T be stirring into his pot noodle :cool: ! (gross)

Thanks again you lot.

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Howdy BB,

I say...thank God..I'm glad that you didn't have to make a decision about whether to abort or not. I think that given this scare,y'all should try and figure out your future together..do you want to git married,do you want children-and if so,when ? These are questions that need to be asked and pondered upon.

Have a good one !:)