do you know how many CC's of sterile saline it takes to perform a proper scrotal linflation, do you know what shibari means or how to tie a half shank, would you know how many volts is safe for a 45 year old heavy smoker, can you snap a whip 2 inches from someone's ear, do you know how to perform full heat mummification, sanely guide someone through age regression or sensory deprivation, do you now how to safely perform breathplay, how to insert a catheter, how to take someone to the absolute edge of what they can take...and then push them further. Do you know how to evaluate someone at a glance, how to tell on the phone what someone wants, what they need and how they are like from a five minute conversation.
I don't have sex with my clients ever, and to suggest so is to seriously disrespect myself and my position.
I have invested thousands of dollars and thousands of hours of my time learning how to do these things and so many more. I have spent so much money and creativity on instruments and dungeon furniture. I run my own business, accounting, promotions, web design. I change lives for the better on a weekly basis..... and what do you do, but sit here and critisize me.
Shame on you.