I am being tortured... slowly busted....
i know how to handle parents. Ur dad reacted the same way mine did (but mine didnt stay like that for long :() the best way to deal with this and be 100% honest. However, you CANNOT just jog along with what ur parents are saying. This is VITAL, you do all the talking, listen to what your parents say and then make a valid point.
Tell ur parents about the DXM, it isnt illegal witch will help, BUT MAKE SURE U TELL THEM THAT UR GIVING UP (AND DO) BECAUSE YOU HAVE DECIDED ITS BAD FOR YOU.
NEVER ARGUE WITH WHAT THEY SAY, tell them you dont agree, but stay emotionless, and for gods sake, dont get angry
Be assertive, but dont push it.
Make decisions in front of them, you have got to lead the conversation you have to do 80-90% of the talking.
Dont promise to do somthing when you know full well you wont do it.
the two golden rules:
BE 100% honest, nobody can fuck u for honestly and u sound MUCH more convincing.
DO NOT CHANGE YOUR OPINION, make a game plan and stick to it.
Your parents are people too. Act like an adult and an equal, and that means taking responsibility for your actions, if you make a mistake, say sorry. If you disagree with somthing they say, be poilite and say you disagree (then back it up with a strong arguement)
Hope u followed all that but trust me, i'v been busted by LOTS of people, and u haven't met my dad...
I am being tortured... slowly busted....
Should have never admitted to anything. No evidence, no proof. Enough said.
I am being tortured... slowly busted....
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Originally Posted by Satovan
Should have never admitted to anything. No evidence, no proof. Enough said.
No SHIT. It was ALL HEARSAY... from what I understand people were talking shit about you. You could have attributed to stupid kids, and parents believing their stupid kids.
But now that you've already come clean, Yul1 is right. Don't try to fight propaganda with propaganda. Your parents are smart enough to call BS on that.
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Originally Posted by Yul1
You have to slow down or else you will always have trouble from your parents, friends, school, work, police , health, money, mental stability etc...
Now if you cant slow down you are already in trouble because you are addicted and should do everything possible to get to stop, especially te DXM which is junk.
Be well, fix your life and have fun. You'll find you wont need as much stuff to get thru the day and you parents wont freak out as much for sure.
Now get to work ;-)
