Kinda messed up....BUT

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Originally Posted by WeedyBoyWonder

Your claims that I got "smacked around as a kid" are totally unjust, uncalled for and potentially offensive to people who really did get beaten as children. You also say to me "your still a child yourself" but I'm not the one coming up with posts like yours, thankfully. You maybe an adult by age, but by attitude your still very much under developed and I certainly pity you for that.
I never got psychically disciplined as a child. My parents thankfully had alittle more common sense and taught me what I did wrong with words, rather than unnecessary pain.

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Cant you take what i say with a pinch of salt? Well i hope it doesnt offend anyone else - it was only meant to offend you.
And I got beaten when i was a child - if someone said it to me i wouldnt be offended.

Your opinion is yours, but you cant tell me im wrong, because an opinion is never wrong. It's a personal thought.

I'm certainly not underdeveloped because i beleive in REAL punishment. Theres a BIG differnence between discipline and hitting children for no good reason.

I wouldnt expect you to understand though, because as i said, your still a child, physically and mentally. You might be knowledageable in some areas, but you've got no real experience of life. I mean, have you even got a full time job?

Kids today lack manners, respect for their elders and authority, when I was a kid if my old man caught me shouting at an adult in the street I would have got a good hiding, nowaday kids know that if anyone including their parents lay a finger on them then they can take them to court for assault.
I am all in favor of bringing back the right to give them a good hiding and bring back corporal punishment in school, it never did me any harm.

Cheers

NCM

I got my ass beat all the time when I was a kid, and I deserved it. When I was really little, I know telling me I was gonna be in trouble wouldn't do anything, telling me I was wrong and explaining it didn't work, I was a little brat who wasn't to be reasoned with. Now if the belt was brought out, or dad got a broom handle, then I would know when I crossed the line. I turned out okay and know not to set people off. So I'm in full support of a bit of physical punishment, because sometimes it's the only thing that will make someone understand. Nothing speaks louder than pain. :jointsmile:

IMO, kids should get the shit beat out of them if they do shit like that. First of all that was just plain rude and even at that age I knew that not to do that kind of shit. Theres a difference in being stupid running around when your little (sneaking out, ect.) and being racist and rude. Those kids deserved what was coming to them. Any parents who lets there kids run all over them or lets their kids run all over somebody else probably needed better parenting themselves.

The way i see it - those kids get beat, and learn a lesson or they do it to someone else and get their faces blown apart or hands chopped off. Because that kinda thing might piss someone off. It'd certainly piss me off. It's for their own good.

ahahah lol, pay backs a bitch.

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Originally Posted by WeedyBoyWonder

I never got psychically disciplined as a child. My parents thankfully had alittle more common sense and taught me what I did wrong with words, rather than unnecessary pain.

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no offence you sound just liek the lady in my post above,,,,EXPLAIN TO THE CHIL WITH WORDS ? og for fucks sake friend what time and age are you living in? kids dont give a shit about why you think they cant do this or that kids want to do what kids want to do,

my sisters two boys for instance,

she yell and yell at em to get theyre shoes on so they can go home,

the kids sit there blatantly blanking their mother and continue playing,

i (standing on the stairs) see this instantly walk over grab each kid by the back of their shirts,

ME: OI DONT YOU HEAR WHAT YOUR MOTHER JUST SAID OR ARE YOUR DEAF?

KIDS "YEAH" BUT I WANAN PLAY WITH THIS..ROBO....

ME "NO YOU GET UP NOW (LIFTING THEM BY SHIRTS) AND YOU WILL DO AS YOU MUM TELLS YOU!

I DROP BOTH KIDS IN THE DOUBLE BUGGY AND STRAP EM IN...............INSTANTLY THE 2 KIDS ARE TRYING TO UNSTRAP THEMSELVES


now do you think the kids will listen u come with that bullshit "oh cmon honey please we need to do this"????

no the kids will continue to try and get out,

now instead of the weak n soft approach i outright shouted this at em.

"MIKE, ALFY, YOU BOTH BETTER SHUT UP NOW AND SIT IN YUR BUGGY OR IM GOIN TO GIVE YOU SUCH A SMACK BOYS!


.....theyve felt me smack em one made the error of kicking his mum in the mouth as she was strapping them in once, maaate did he never do that again,




you give a child a reason he/she cant do things he/she will sit there weighing up what youve said to there own instict of just doin what they want,

you inforce your rules properly there less likly to be broken

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Originally Posted by chisme

no offence you sound just liek the lady in my post above,,,,EXPLAIN TO THE CHIL WITH WORDS ? og for fucks sake friend what time and age are you living in? kids dont give a shit about why you think they cant do this or that kids want to do what kids want to do,

my sisters two boys for instance,

she yell and yell at em to get theyre shoes on so they can go home,

the kids sit there blatantly blanking their mother and continue playing,

i (standing on the stairs) see this instantly walk over grab each kid by the back of their shirts,

ME: OI DONT YOU HEAR WHAT YOUR MOTHER JUST SAID OR ARE YOUR DEAF?

KIDS "YEAH" BUT I WANAN PLAY WITH THIS..ROBO....

ME "NO YOU GET UP NOW (LIFTING THEM BY SHIRTS) AND YOU WILL DO AS YOU MUM TELLS YOU!

I DROP BOTH KIDS IN THE DOUBLE BUGGY AND STRAP EM IN...............INSTANTLY THE 2 KIDS ARE TRYING TO UNSTRAP THEMSELVES


now do you think the kids will listen u come with that bullshit "oh cmon honey please we need to do this"????

no the kids will continue to try and get out,

now instead of the weak n soft approach i outright shouted this at em.

"MIKE, ALFY, YOU BOTH BETTER SHUT UP NOW AND SIT IN YUR BUGGY OR IM GOIN TO GIVE YOU SUCH A SMACK BOYS!


.....theyve felt me smack em one made the error of kicking his mum in the mouth as she was strapping them in once, maaate did he never do that again,




you give a child a reason he/she cant do things he/she will sit there weighing up what youve said to there own instict of just doin what they want,

you inforce your rules properly there less likly to be broken

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SPOT ON! It's not cruel, it's not wrong. It's called bringing up a child. They learn things the right way and they turn out as better people.


So, goodluck weedyboy - you'll need it when it comes to you having offspring of your own. If that ever happens.

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Originally Posted by dominionxp

no kid deserves to get beaten for something so stupid as that. ADULTS SHOULD understand that the KID is young and likes to fuck around. THE MATURE ADULT WOULD LET THAT GO!

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what to point where your kids are running around telling strangers to fuck off , let them off so next time they do run in the road and get knocked over? A MATURE ADULT WOULD KNOW SMACKING A CHILD ISNT FOR SELF PLEASURE!!!


jesus christ do u think id smack my child because i like hitting younger weaker persons then myself? NO ffs
your child thinks it can do what it wants without any kind of punishment it will do that ANYTHING IT WANTS!!

funyn thing is you know them kids u see on tv really young ones throwing bricks at police cars and writting graffitti everywhere.......normaly you find theyre parents dont smack.....funny that innit



wot im trying to get accross here is if you tell a child not to do something,,.,.next time he/she will think parent said no but i really wanan do it.....ill just do it whats mum/dad gonna do ? shout at me? oooooooo

now if that parent smacked his kids when they did wrong the child would think.....mum/dad said no......if i do it they smack me.......ok im not gonna do it.


its simple. i learned it from experience, im not offended by anyone saying they were disiplined as a child !! well done to theyr parents for caring enoutgh. mine sure did. and i thank them for it

I think you miss understood what I said chisme. I didn't get physically disciplined as a kid, meaning my parents didn't use pain to teach me a lesson. If I was being alittle bastard of course I was sorted out and put in line, for example if I wasn't putting my shoes on when told I would be forced over there and be made to put them on, that doesn't involve pain and being hit about.
If we look back at the original topic, my first post was simply stating that if these kids had been brought up to have any respect for anyone, they wouldn't be shouting racist remarks out the window and be generally little fuckers.
I never really said much else, apart from laugh at LIP.

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Originally Posted by LIP

No no. They deserve real punishment. If they associate bad behaviour with unbearable pain they wont do it. And no, it's not about keeping the children in fear. But they need to know what is right and what is wrong, and if they do wrong, they pay the price.

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