Friends with Benefits-Over

Check with your advisor and see if you can roll your "benefits" into a new "plan."

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Originally Posted by JD1stTimer

Wow, 20" that is a hardliner stand you're taking there... I say just get to know the person well enough and if she's not that type of person then go for it and don't freak out about what other people do. If you're already in a physically intimate relationship before you find out what her behavior is like, then who's the one who's violating your standards? Is that... umm... a mirror I see in front of you? The point is, if you apply your standards to yourself it would be almost impossible to be in that situation in the first place.

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Well, I wouldn't ever put myself in that position to begin with to violate my standards. I'm a guy but I wait a while to get to know a girl I am DATING before doing anything. And that's for a lot of reasons, so I get to know how she is with that stuff, and to know what she has been up to etc.. I have no problem if a girl was dating the guy for a while and did, no prob that's normal. But I wouldn't touch a girl that just does guys for "personal needs"... no thanks.

As us guys know we can take care of needs on our own if we have to, so can girls. I mean I don't trust guys, and most of my friends would fuck anything that walked so I know how a lot of guys use girls, and girls do it to. I don't want to be left with what a bunch of guys left over... as cold as that sounds.

You are certainly free to create your own standards for who you will or won't have a relationship with, but that does sound a little judgemental.

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Originally Posted by Hilder420

I just dont understand why it has to be so cut and dry when it comes to a woman being in charge and acknowledging her sexuality. That does not make me a slut.

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it only makes you a slut if you personally decide you want to call yourself a slut...what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. I absolutely love with a passion a woman who acknowledge's her sexuality.

and about the topic...I have friends with benefits...then sometimes I have a g/f...depends on the barometric pressure...either way...I don't think it matters...from the very beginning of mammalian life we've been wired to put sex above all other natural urges. Our bodies are hellbent to breed. Dolphins and primates have the special ability to feel good when doing so. any other attachment to sex is purely societal. How many people, what kind of sex, which hole, what gender, how long it lasts is all societal and simply how you view sex and nothing more. Everyone will view it differently depednign on too many variables to cover. I like the instict version. The version without societal binds. The one where I sleep with any consenting adult without qualm. I can be in a relationship. I've been in a few. But that's not all I can do ;)

Well, almost everything was meant to breed.... right... but I have respect for myself and would hope the woman would as well.

but respect is purely opinion. I respect myself and the female by not fighting my natural desires.

we'll see who's saying that when the girl your having sex with can't fight the desire to screw another guy...while she's screwing you as well.

If you fuck her, you have to share love. I'd be pretty disappointed if that little twerp stole her from me.

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Originally Posted by geonagual

Hilder..if your a slut and you can count the number on one hand...I am not sure what that makes me.LOL

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It makes you the Pillsbury Doughboy.

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Originally Posted by Twentyinches

we'll see who's saying that when the girl your having sex with can't fight the desire to screw another guy...while she's screwing you as well.

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This is something I'd like to see. (I'm not sure, anymore).

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

If you fuck her, you have to share love. I'd be pretty disappointed if that little twerp stole her from me.



It makes you the Pillsbury Doughboy.



This is something I'd like to see. (I'm not sure, anymore).

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What the hell does that supposed to mean? I am 205 today...

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Originally Posted by geonagual

What the hell does that supposed to mean? I am 205 today...

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Doesn't the Pillsbury Doughboy only have three fingers? I don't know what that means.

Happy belated birthday, but, can I ask a question? Are you aiming to break 200? Trying to take weight off is a hard thing, especially if you've been eating your whole life.