Neem oil.

k got my camera back today and the plant seems to just kinda be hanging in stasis, ive been misting it with water on a semi regular basis hoping that id be able to wash off atleast some of the neem/water/soap mixture. Heres the quick picture i snapped of it, im pretty sure that the damage in the pictures isnt mites anymore...well atleast the spotty dmg.

You've got scarring, but it's okay. Stop misting wiht water now because you risk rot. I see SOME neem damage but it isn't severe- it's those darker, twisted leaves- just give it time.

You just made my day, thanks stinky ^^