choking and hair pulling

It's called breath play, and it's not actually about choking the snot out of somebody. It's about control and trust. There are subtleties involved. Like, I like pain. But I don't want someone to randomly bust me in the mouth. The skillful application is what makes it hot. The stimulation of nerve endings. The mindfuck.

Geo has a grasp on what she's into. (no pun intended, but it's there, so I'll roll with it). Geo demonstrates a level of maturity and sensuality (and maturity regarding sensuality) that is surprising in one so young.

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Greenjeans

It's called breath play, and it's not actually about choking the snot out of somebody. It's about control and trust. There are subtleties involved. Like, I like pain. But I don't want someone to randomly bust me in the mouth. The skillful application is what makes it hot. The stimulation of nerve endings. The mindfuck.

Geo has a grasp on what she's into. (no pun intended, but it's there, so I'll roll with it). Geo demonstrates a level of maturity and sensuality (and maturity regarding sensuality) that is surprising in one so young.

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Mrs. G...I am the same age as you..haha

Why did I think you were like 35? Anyway, it's still surprising. Most guys (if the ones that post on cdot are any indication) are not very hip to sexual subtleties at your age.

I don't get into choking or hair-pulling. Pain's not something that works for me in the bedroom. My husband is a lot bigger, stronger and more muscular than me. I trust him because he's gentle. I think I'd be frightened of him if he weren't, even if it were just a part of the play.

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Originally Posted by higher4hockey

it is like a question like what would you do in combat....you never really know until that very moment and you do what it is that you do.

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I find this to be a very interesting comparison.

My girl likes to be choked a little bit, she just likes the pain. I dont have no problem with it.:thumbsup:

My hair is very long so the hair pulling kind of goes with it. He's not really "pulling" it as much as holding on to it. Either way, it's gentle and I like it.

We haven't tried this choking game yet. Maybe I'll read up on it unless anyone wants to give details.;)