GF wants to break up cuz i smoke.

If she can't accept you for who you are and what the values of cannabis equate too, then I emplore you to take initiative and say that If you don't like it then dump me. When someone attempts to censor something, they are assuming their opinion is infallible (undoubtable) This is not justified, therefore move on if you must, find strength and insight from the wisdom weed and although you may be sad now, you shall heal. The cycle that is life happens somewhat like this: Good....Bad........Good.....Bad, you see, there are good and bad, some things are worse then others, say your girlfriend breaking up with you or someone being raped etc. Do not fear being a single, free, individual.

She's seeing how far she can change and control you.
If you quit for her, things will only get worse and she will desire you to do this, that, and just about everything for her. That's my 2 cents, tell her to fuck right off and that she shouldn't have got with you in the first place knowing full well you smoke cannabis if she didn't like it.
Although I did read a success story about a guy giving up pot for his lady, so it could work out for you...

It is my observation that mixed relationships (toking and non-toking) are usually shakey and prone to fail. Sorry, but although she is hot, I don't think this relationship is going to make it. - Granny:hippy:

It's only been a month. you got her, you'll get others. Let her go. First she's telling you not to smoke, then it'll be who you can hang out with and it'll end with her telling you sex once a month is normal. Don't do it man... find yourself an herb friendly gal!!

El Fantistico :smokin:

if she wont even belive u it does sound like an accuse. no one is perfect i bet there are things about her u dont like. tell her to accept you or move on

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Originally Posted by 420MissHighTimes420

tell her to accept you or move on

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Nah. Turn the tables. Tell her "No more sex until you bring me some weed!"
And it's got to be good weed too. No schwagg or b'ster.
That'll teach her.

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Originally Posted by blazed620

My fucking girlfriend..who I've been dating only for a month or so..says she's been thinking, and that she wants to break up until I quit smoking pot. I told her if she was really serious then I would stop now...and never smoke again....she won't fucking believe me, and she keeps saying she wants proof. But passing a drug test cud take months. And i don't wanna not be with her till i pass a drug test. Geeez....seems like shes just using this as an excuse to break up with me..i hope not..i really like her, and she seems like she likes me a lot too

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She sounds like a nice Missouri-girl.

What did she do before she dated you?

I'd try to mix it into her world.

My girlfriend said the same thing but I wasnt too big of a smoker back then and I quit but then after I told her about all the crazy good times I had when smoking she wanted to try it and now 4 years later we are in love more than ever and smoking more than ever too.....hope everything works out between you and your girl. :jointsmile:

tell her to buy u visine or fuckin kick rocks and get down with some oregon blueberry.


whats up ore cal brother?


DONNY:stoned:

There is always 2 sides to every story. Some of the guys I know in my world, that after they blaze, their worthless!! They get all lazy, dont want do anything except play games. IF, I was a girl, and was around that everyday, well phuck, I'd want a change also.

Talk honestly and up front to her to find out her exact reason to dump the relationship. Maybe it's not the weed, but the side effects.
If she will not elobrate, then maybe, it's time find other ladies in your comfort zone.

I'd talk or walk.