Flirting

People always tell me that I flirt all the time. I don't even notice it. If I knew what I was doing, it would help but I'm just being myself.

So I guess the key thing is to be yourself....

But to try answer your question....
It all depends really. On what kind if people you two are.

There's different types of flirting, different types of people, different types of enviroments. there's too many variables to just explain flirting perfectly.

If it's the first time meeting her, don't flirt too much. she might think you are a "player". And I think it's better to hold back on all the foward stuff because she might think you are too "intense".
if it is the first time then just make her remember you. You have to realize that you might not be the first or the last to give her that kind of attention, that day.
so when she goes to sleep, if she thinks about any of the guys that "flirted" with her, make sure it's you.
so the next time you contact her, she knows who you are.
If you are a funny person, go for it. Try to make her laugh... that helps a WHOLE lot. Infact, it's really important but some guys aren't naturally funny and you might sound cheesy if you aren't.
One thing is for sure, flirting shouldn't be disrespectful and it should make her smile...
at least i think so.

try to sound smooth and confidant BUT NOT TOO MUCH!!!!!!!
just don't sound nervous.

flirting on the phone is different... you have to speak up and be clear. her asking "what?" all the time can't be smooth, imo.
a little sexual flirting i think is okay on the phone. just a little... save it for the........

FIRST
DATE
this will make you or break you. she will start an interest in you, if she hasnt already or she will lose ALL interest and will start acting very shady afterwards.
think of it like this.......
a night for both of you to show WHO you are and see if ANYTHING can happen between you.

then again, it all depends because you two might want something strictly sexual.. which would make things a lot easier.
or you two are persuing a relationship. which will make her analyze the living shit out of you. lol
so in any case, don't say or do anything foolish.

It's very simple, really. Just maintain steady eye contact, and smile. That's all I ever did and it always worked perfectly. ;)
The opposite is true too- if you want people to leave you alone, scowl and don't make eye contact.:wtf:
I went out with a guy once solely because he kept appearing wherever I was and staring at me with a besotted look- now of course they would call such behavior Stalking!

For me, flirting is more than just a way to earn a date with a girl that catches your eye.. its a way to make women smile.. if I see a lady thats obviously having a bad day, I love giving them a little flirty attention to pick their day up. The smile they reward you with is the most beautiful thing on the face of this earth, regardless of what she looks like.

Flirting is all about being confident, being curious, and being interesting. The key to it all? Body language. Facial expressions, gestures.. subtlety is what I aim for, but if the conversation makes me laugh, Ill let it out for a minute, no holds barred, why not?

I have spent a bit of time in front of a mirror, analyzing my different facial expressions, trying to figure out which ones were more appealing, but that can all go out the window when you are confronted by a woman that turns your world upside down. If you can maintain a cool, calm, and smooth demeanor in front of even the most gorgeous of women, and you meet a girl that, for some reason turns you into a blubbering idiot... GRAB her, lol. Just a piece of advice :p

"You seem to have lost your pogo, want to jump on my stick?"

There you go. :jointsmile: