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^^I mostly agree, but damn, you're having problems if you're desperate enough to go to a prostitute. Thats what men evolved hands for! There was no black obelisk rising above our monkey ancestors as we developed tools! Our hands were created for our tools </sarcasm> :thumbsup:
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Originally Posted by TallCoolOne
I can't form an opinion, because you haven't given us enough information. What were the circumstances? Who was it with? Did he care about her, or was it a fuck? Was it once or many times?
...and even if what he did was very wrong, one of my least favourite phrases is "Once a cheater, always a cheater." That is complete and utter BULLSHIT. For some people, yes; others grow and evolve, or had a momentary lapse.
Also, don't forget, monogomy is biologically unnatural for men, and instincts must be fought to conform to the society ideal of a relationship.
It's been my experience yes,once a cheater always a cheater....as to leaving...depends on you...are you willing to put up with it or not? And for how long.I'm very sorry.That really sucks and hurts like hell.I hope it gets better soon and good luck to you on whatever decision you make.:1baa:
Dude what planet are you from....I've had absolutely NOTHING wrong got along great always laughing and having fun....then the night I told him I was pregnant he screwed someone else.....It was his baby (had to prove that too) so don't be layin the blame of someone elses actions on the girl.If he was that unhappy....he should've left first....period.Cheating is BULL shit!! No reason to play games on anyone's heart. What I don't get is the guys that say "I love you with all my heart" then go out on you anyway,when there are no problems..It doesn't make sense.That tells me they obviously don't have a heart and don't know what love really is.... Love is trust and honesty and faithfulness.If you really love someone then you don't SEE anyone else and others should see couples as extensions of each person.My friends boyfriends and husbands are extensions of them and I have the hardest time even judging cuteness of them(when asked...).I don't see individuals....anyway, that's my 2 cents on it...Quote:
Originally Posted by Justinrg
Why didn't you weara condom? What gives you the right to lay down the pregnant thing on him so suddenly? Women act like all men fucking owe them something if the got mistreated by one man, and then blaming all men for being stupid and cheaters. I for one have never cheated just because if I don't like a bitch I tell her. Simple as that. Why let the relationship go any further?
Men cheat when they don't want to be in a serious relationship. It is human nature to mess things up so you don't have to commit so again if you didn't know this what fucking planet are you from?
That is english!!! LMAO!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by dean0000
Figured it out the hard way....as far as blaming all men...I blame HIM....I bought condoms and he refused to wear them and refused to pull out....again,I don't understand what his problem was....He knew I could get pregnant...when I brought it up he said" we'll cross that bridge when we come to it"....well yeah he crossed it right out the door....;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Justinrg
Thank you all for your advice. He is gone. It took all day but it is done.
I don't need that shit im my life!
Time to get high!!!!
I have to say, if you let him not wear a condom (as in giving your consent, even if grudgingly) you are just as responsible as he is for the pregnancy, though I absolutly agree he is a douchebag for the way he reacted to the news. I am sorry to hear about all you are going through, I wish you luck. I also urge you to refrain from smoking (though I know it is truthfully none of my business.) while pregnant.
Though there are no proven negative consiquences, it still isnt a risk you should take. Is 9 months worth of smoking really worth risking the baby's health?
I really wish you the best, and urge you to keep in touch with the father, if only for the sake of the child. It really is important.