I cant hold it in I have to blurt this out

lol try loosening that choke hold n the magic might happen ;)

lol nh im jking, yh id be pissed of aswell.

Everything happens for a reason tho (i like to say this when i dont have a good answer lol)

I'm a big fan of adoption. There are a lot of good kids out there who arent going to get all the love they need because no one was there for them. If you and your husband are even slightly open to the idea I think you should look into it further.

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I'm a big fan of adoption. There are a lot of good kids out there who arent going to get all the love they need because no one was there for them. If you and your husband are even slightly open to the idea I think you should look into it further.

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Adoption will always be a option, and I would love to adopt and have my own children as well. Having a biological child means a lot to my husband. He is a only child and grand child. His ants and uncles never had children of there own. He wants to carry on the family name. If we cant have one of our own his family blood line will end with him.

I think its starting to get to him, he is now starting to blame him self for me not being able to get pregnant. I keep telling him that it has nothing to do with him its all has to do with my malfunctioning ovaries, and whacked out hormones. Infertility is something that can take a toll on a couple.

It definitely does take a toll. For me, not being able to successfully carry a second pregnancy to term and having miscarriage after miscarriage was very rough, and it was rough on our marriage for a time. Such heartbreak.

If I heard of a young teenaged couple who might be facing a pregnancy and could, with luck, be encouraged to do right by that child and give him/her to a qualified family, are you yet to the point, Dro, where I might be able to say "I might know someone who you should consider"? I think I may have a distant lead on somebody I could say that to here in Texas. But you and Mr. Dro need to have some heart-to-heart discussions about that long before I get so presumptious. Can you tell I am just dying to put a baby into your arms??

I'm going to move this thread into parenting, if that's OK with you, sweetie. The other thing I wanted to tell you is that, for many couples, negotiating the adoption process is as emotionally challenging as the monthly disappointments in fertility. Hopes go up and then are dashed in that world, too, as you probably can guess.

hiya

let me start by saying that i,m in the very lucky position of being a dad to 3wonderfull boys,, but befor they came along we were told it was going very hard for my wife to carry full term,,this broke both of our hearts at the tine

but we have a saying in ireland,,that god has spoken befor any doctor,,

we never gave up trying,and low and behold our first boy came alond,within a year along came our second little man,4years later we had our last fella,

what i,m trying to say to you is dont give up trying,and enjoying trying..
i firmly belive in positive thinking,and i will think positive thoughts for you..

hope all goes well for you..:) :hippy:

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It definitely does take a toll. For me, not being able to successfully carry a second pregnancy to term and having miscarriage after miscarriage was very rough, and it was rough on our marriage for a time. Such heartbreak.

If I heard of a young teenaged couple who might be facing a pregnancy and could, with luck, be encouraged to do right by that child and give him/her to a qualified family, are you yet to the point, Dro, where I might be able to say "I might know someone who you should consider"? I think I may have a distant lead on somebody I could say that to here in Texas. But you and Mr. Dro need to have some heart-to-heart discussions about that long before I get so presumptious. Can you tell I am just dying to put a baby into your arms??

I'm going to move this thread into parenting, if that's OK with you, sweetie. The other thing I wanted to tell you is that, for many couples, negotiating the adoption process is as emotionally challenging as the monthly disappointments in fertility. Hopes go up and then are dashed in that world, too, as you probably can guess.

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Thanks a lot BG Ill have a chat with him, and see what he says. I really appreciate the thought a lot and it is something that is always an option and something that I would want to do even if we have our own children.

Thanks a lot for all of your encouraging words everyone. It can really make me feel like shit when I think its my fault about our inability to conceive. But you guys make me feel a lot better about the situation. I love my cann.com family.

Hi ye Poor you....

I was told 10 years ago that I would never have children but here I am ten years later the proud exhausted parent of three boys. When they told me I cried I never particularly wanted kids but to have the choice taken away was awful.

Everywhere i went I seen pregnant women. But them I let go of anxiousness and gave myself over to fath if not children what else!!!!
Then on the morning of a series of more tests they decided to do a pregancy test and it was positive.

Now I have three fabulous boys aged 8,7,3 Kaelib, Max and Noah
Keep the faith

That's great nibbler. I love hearing stories like that, gives me some relief of my stress and tension. I seem to notice pregnant women a lot more too . But I guess its like when you buy a new car and then you see all kinds of them just like yours.