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No worries bro its common. Like previously mentioned, just practice tearing that thing out and putting it on when youre alone, then masturbate with it on so when the time comes it doesnt feel so new. Hey then you dont have to worry about cleanup either.
But yeah its just a mental block, dont sweat it. Practice and get some of that confidence up so when the time comes... you will too :p
if we're talking about alternate birth control methods, i find that using her cycle is pretty good. like, the first 5 days after her period finishes before she ovulates there shouldn't be any way you can impregnate her, even if the sperm stays inside her for a few days. cycle lengths vary from girl to girl, but typically it's like 13-14 days between the first day in the period and the day she ovulates.
Make her put it on with her mouth.
Or use this thing
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGE3UrJBNCs[/YOUTUBE]
Jesus Hitler Christ, that is an amazing invention!
hahahaha hell yeah!
Wow...I need to get one of those...pronto...:cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hardcore Newbie
thanks for all the support. i feel better now, i talked to her about it and she said the same thing... lol and i need one of those.
well ive my share of all this and its not fun. Neither usin a condom or havn anxiety probs, i used to be like that but i found the girl that i am meant to be with and i have no problems wut so ever, im not at all shy about myself around here. The smart way is to wear a condom, if u dont u better fukin be responsible enough to take care of that kid, if not ill kik ur fukin ass.lol theres to many peice of shit dads in this world today. People wanna pull that dick out and use it but not take care of what they created. Its bullshit that goes on in this world today. And Pregnancy scares are crazy, i found i just quit worryn bout it. makes time go faster and easier.
Yeah, I have the exact same problem. I think part of it might have to do with how constrictive they are. I mean, they're pretty tight, and it's essentially squeezing all the blood out of my dick. Maybe I should try slightly bigger ones, but they only seem to come in one size. Plus, by the time we get around to the point where I need to put on a condom, I've been standing at attention so long it's harder for me to stay there. My girlfriend is going to be going on birth control pills in a few weeks, but not solely because of my problem. Sex without accessories is just a whole lot sexier, for both of us.
my girlfriend is also getting on birth control in 1 week... but don't forget that those take like a month to start working, or something like that. there's about a month delay, i believe.
they told us in health class that the pill is only 92% effective, meaning that after one year of sex 8% of people who only used the pill as a contraceptive resulted in pregnancy... does this sound right or is this health class propaganda?