Ugh, BOYS piss me off.

The absolute best way to determine how a man will treat his woman is by how he treats his mother. If he respects his mother, he will most likely respect you.( I'm not talking about mamas boys. Thats a whole new thread!) If he thinks his mother is a controlling bitch,well..... be careful!
I am glad to see men pipe in and say " I'm not like that!" Thats nice. And remember:

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Originally Posted by happiestmferoutthere

The absolute best way to determine how a man will treat his woman is by how he treats his mother. If he respects his mother, he will most likely respect you.( I'm not talking about mamas boys. Thats a whole new thread!) If he thinks his mother is a controlling bitch,well..... be careful!
I am glad to see men pipe in and say " I'm not like that!" Thats nice. And remember:"Behind Every Bitch Is A Man Who Made Her That Way"

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The worst men in the world usually treat their mothers fine. They can also treat their spouse or partner well, also. What they do the rest of the time, to other people, DOES matter.

Your attachment, "Behind Every Bitch Is A Man Who Made Her That Way" sums up a lot of what I see as the problem. Blaming men for a general nastiness in females is par for the course today.

If anybody is to blame, it's usually the parents because they didn't raise their daughter right. The same is true of boys. Proper training of the young used to be considered necessary. Now, the parents are either too busy, or too ignorant, to do it correctly. Because there have been several generations since society started changing for the worse, behaviors and traditions have gone downhill - and it affects everything.

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

Womens issues........NO MANS LAND here! Birdgirl knows that avoid this area like the plague.......I figure you ladies can do very well without our influence in here and there are some issues that I'd just as soon stay WAY away from.

As for the thread........men, women, whites, blacks, etc........you'll find assholes in each one of the divisions. Don't let the few speak for the rest.

I read some of the crap in sexuallity on how they told their bitch blah, blah.....must be real hard to talk back to a porno on the tube because they sure the hell don't have a real woman. I'd have to agree with Triumph the insult dog, "The last time that they saw female genitallia was during child birth".

The Sexuallity Forum has such potential for exchanges of ideas, gathering usefull information, etc... It's a shame what actually goes on in here. I would just LOVE to come in here and do some hardcore moderating BUT I don't think that would fly to well. LOL....never know what the future hold in store though.

A male dominant site + majority age group is under 20 = walking hard ons with big mouths and probably no action. Listen to the ladys boys.......that's if you EVER want a date.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

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P4B, I was thinking those exact same things but if I would have said what I was thinking somehow I would have gotten an infraction. You stated that so well but is that really any surprise to us?

To those who say I'm generalizing. Yeah, I guess I was; but I posted this in the women's forum for a reason.

I obviously am not including the men who treat women right. Don't be ignorant.

If you're a dude and you got mad at this post..you need to think about WHY you're mad. Are you one of those guys I was talking about? Do YOU shit talk your lady behind her back? Do you throw her around, call her names, what's YOUR deal? Do you think you're a God?

I know there are nice guys out there..I think I might have found one today, so I'm a bit more hopeful.

I apologize if I've offended anyone, although I don't know why I would have unless you're a women-basher.

Thanks for all the responses to everyone though, I always appreciate replies.

Ironically i just done watching superman returns...


I wish i could have his powers :-O

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The Sexuallity Forum has such potential .... It's a shame what actually goes on in here. I would just LOVE to come in here and do some hardcore moderating... LOL....never know what the future hold in store though.

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Yup. It gets out of hand pretty fast when the testosterone reaches critical mass! *FOOSH*

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

A male dominant site + majority age group is under 20 = walking hard ons with big mouths and probably no action. Listen to the ladys boys.......that's if you EVER want a date.

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Word. Tell em Psycho... And a 'date' is different from a one night stand with a girl who has shit self-esteem probably brought on by these EXACT attitudes towards females... it's a GREAT self-fulfilling prophesy. Thanks, fellas!

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

After reading a few threads that began to piss me off, I must vent.

I am extremely tired of the degrading of women..EVERYWHERE! I don't understand why men automatically assume they're the stronger sex. A dick between your legs makes you a better person then me? I don't think so. I've met so many boys and men that just deserve to be SHOT for the things they do and say, especially towards women. I've met bitchy girls as well, but Jesus Christ, at least they can admit they're twats. I'm tired of boys walking around like they have an S on their chest, thinking they're invincible.

A girl flirts, she's a slut. A girl rejects you and she's a bitch? Nice.


Sorry if this doesn't make sense, as usual I'm a bit stoned. Maybe not stoned enough lol!

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Stop dating boys. Try dating a man. Have the self respect to wait for the right guy, or... you get what you settle for.

I was actually thinking that the title shouldn't be MEN and I shouldn't be using the term "men" when I mean BOYS. ^^ Agreed.

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

After reading a few threads that began to piss me off, I must vent.

I am extremely tired of the degrading of women..EVERYWHERE! I don't understand why men automatically assume they're the stronger sex. A dick between your legs makes you a better person then me? I don't think so. I've met so many boys and men that just deserve to be SHOT for the things they do and say, especially towards women. I've met bitchy girls as well, but Jesus Christ, at least they can admit they're twats. I'm tired of boys walking around like they have an S on their chest, thinking they're invincible.

A girl flirts, she's a slut. A girl rejects you and she's a bitch? Nice.


Sorry if this doesn't make sense, as usual I'm a bit stoned. Maybe not stoned enough lol!

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I can explain this simply as a typical man, not perfect at all, and well, just being a man. =)

The dating world is very frustrating at times, and you want to bang a hole in the wall. Just like you are doing now, men do the same thing. People on both sexes sometimes vent these frustrations extremely. I'm guilty of it at times in moments of anger.

Let's take an example. A girl rejects you. In essence the simplicity of the sentence doesn't explain the intricacies. Men can be right & wrong in this situation.

Let's say this girl was honest, told the guy she wasn't interested straight up. If the guy gets mad at this point, well it's his problem.

However, let's say this girl stringed this guy along. Acted interested, kept talking about going out, then out of nowhere, no call, no nothing. At this point, it shows such a lack of respect and courtesy. No doubt it makes me pretty angry, wasting time to plan it and not even get a cancellation call. You claim it's not to hurt feelings, however that's what the hurt feelings stems from, stringing them along because you weren't honest about when the interested stopped.

The way I see it, there are two sides to the story. Either person could be an asshole or bitch, even tho by nature, they're not.

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

To those who say I'm generalizing. Yeah, I guess I was; but I posted this in the women's forum for a reason.
Do you think you're a God?

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It's all cool.....by the way, I'm a mod not a God. LOL

By the way, ever make it into the doc? Hope all is well!!:thumbsup:

Have a good one!:jointsmile: