why do people like to be treated like shit?

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I cant wait until our species has evolved past this. Well... the REST of our species.

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You can jump start it by seeking out women that don't play mind games, and then impregnating them all. Or just one, many times. ;)

If you don't want a woman to lose respect for you, you don't necessarily have to be a jerk. Just show her that she doesn't have you wrapped around her finger. Even silly stuff can do it. I kind of enjoy messing around with my girlfriend now and then. Stuff like stealing her cookies when she's not looking and baking. :)

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Originally Posted by friendowl

myself included sometimes

have you noticed that when you are with someone
and you treat them good they treat you bad.

its fucked up but thats the way it is ,i guess

the woman who i do truly have strong feelings for
is a bitch.she gets me more angry than anyone else can
i literaly fantasize about choking her to death and at the same time
she can make me feel better tahn anyone can
im treat her good.other ladies notice and comment on how
they wish their man would do what i do
but my bitch plays headgames cause they work

when im hooking up with someone who i only want sex from
i am the asshole and they love me to death
girls tellme "i love you"
and i respond fuck love that shit gets people nowhere
i do what i want without consideration and it works
they treat me better than the girls im nice too

why is this

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Women don't want a pussy, if you act like a pussy they will walk all over you, if you are a dick most will love you to death. This is essentially what Leykis 101 is based on. I can't answer why it is this way, it just is.

Don't ever take crap from anyone, girlfriend or not. The minute anybody pisses you off or walks on you in any way, end it right there. What you should be asking yourself is why you are allowing some girl to walk all over you, you obviously don't really care about her if you are fantasizing about strangling her, that's borderline insane buddy, so stop pretending you care about her when really you just don't understand love itself. The simple solution to your problem is what I said, Don't take crap from anyone. If you live by that rule it won't happen, but if you make excuses because she is your girlfriend, then you are fooling yourself and you are to blame, not her.

I never deal with games or any of that shit, the minute a girl starts giving me problems or tries to play some game I avoid her. That fixes the problem right away. So in the words of Leykis himself, dump that bitch ;)

what do you think nailhead
that im some stupid ass sucker for love
hell no homie

real love only comes from your children and sometimes your parents
anything else is jsut sex and games

let me ask you this
do you got any kids
have you grown up without both parents

the only reason i put up with my bitch's attitude is for my daughter
my bitch will keep my baby girl away if i leave
she knows itll hurt my lil girl and she'll do it anyways
one day i know i wont be in this situation anymore
but i aint dumb.i aint going to mess up the wonderful relationship
i have and possibly fuck up my lil girls future cause daddy wasnt around

tom likus is cool and he got game
but he aint on my level
all he got to worry about his himself and his dick

i got kids who look up to me for guidance
if i were to leave id be a weak fool

I have no idea why girls like to be treated like shit, but this is why the only guys who get laid are the dickheads who don't deserve to ever get laid in their lives. This is the single greatest universal injustice out there. Well, that and laws against toking.

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Originally Posted by Nailhead

Women don't want a pussy, if you act like a pussy they will walk all over you, if you are a dick most will love you to death. This is essentially what Leykis 101 is based on. I can't answer why it is this way, it just is.

Don't ever take crap from anyone, girlfriend or not. The minute anybody pisses you off or walks on you in any way, end it right there. What you should be asking yourself is why you are allowing some girl to walk all over you, you obviously don't really care about her if you are fantasizing about strangling her, that's borderline insane buddy, so stop pretending you care about her when really you just don't understand love itself. The simple solution to your problem is what I said, Don't take crap from anyone. If you live by that rule it won't happen, but if you make excuses because she is your girlfriend, then you are fooling yourself and you are to blame, not her.

I never deal with games or any of that shit, the minute a girl starts giving me problems or tries to play some game I avoid her. That fixes the problem right away. So in the words of Leykis himself, dump that bitch ;)

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Nailhead, you hit the nail right on the head. :thumbsup:

Great thread BTW...I just got home and I am tired as fuck..but I want to comment..

I get what your saying Owl..kids need their fathers..period..and if she is like that, you gotta have some kind of plan in action..I know I would..never let anyone outsmart you..always think and plan ahead in everything..and gain as many outs as possible..cause I would hate that shit hanging over my head..

To Nailhead and BA.....you gotta be fuckin kidding me..
you think Tom Lykus is some kind of a fucking genius
that is some 50 year old fatass guy living
i hollywood..he has been married 4 times..he dont know shit..he is just going to die a lonely man emotionally..if you just wanna fuck chicks and move on, playing them the whole time..what do you get..sex and that is about it..
I have listened to him too many times sitting in rush hour in LA..
BA your married..Tom would tell you your a dumbass for being married..thats 1
2nd..he would say your woman is after your cash and probably tell you your pussy whipped..
and 3rd) he say why are you strapped down with one chick when you could be shagging numerous ones..
4) he would call you a loser..

(That is Tom Lykus) not me^

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Originally Posted by geonagual

Great thread BTW...I just got home and I am tired as fuck..but I want to comment..
I get what your saying Owl..kids need their fathers..period..and if she is like that, you gotta have some kind of plan in action..I know I would..never let anyone outsmart you..always think and plan ahead in everything..and gain as many outs as possible..cause I would hate that shit hanging over my head..
To Nailhead and BA.....you gotta be fuckin kidding me..
you think Tom Lykus is some kind of a fucking genius
that is some 50 year old fatass guy living
i hollywood..he has been married 4 times..he dont know shit..he is just going to die a lonely man emotionally..if you just wanna fuck chicks and move on, playing them the whole time..what do you get..sex and that is about it..
I have listened to him too many times sitting in rush hour in LA..
BA your married..Tom would tell you your a dumbass for being married..thats 1
2nd..he would say your woman is after your cash and probably tell you your pussy whipped..
and 3rd) he say why are you strapped down with one chick when you could be shagging numerous ones..
4) he would call you a loser..

(That is Tom Lykus) not me^

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I am not familiar with Tom Lykus at all. I was only responding to what Nailhead wrote in his own words.

We repeat our traumas.

You guys who think women only love guys who're dicks or who behave like dickheads must be going for some real loser-gals. Ladies who value and respect themselves will go for guys who treat them well, men who respect and value themselves, too, and won't be walked on by their ladies, either. Admittedly, there are a lot of women who don't have any respect for themselves and consequently almost magnetically attract that worst losers in the room. They do indeed go for the dickheads. But find a healhty, well-adjusted woman with confidence in herself, and she'll always go for a guy who treats her with respect and who has respect for himself in return.

Thank God most of y'all who believe in the dickhead-attraction factor don't have daughters. For those of you who think this way who have wives or girlfriends? Those ladies have my sincere condolences.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

You guys who think women only love guys who're dicks or who behave like dickheads must be going for some real loser-gals. Ladies who value and respect themselves will go for guys who treat them well, men who respect and value themselves, too, and won't be walked on by their ladies, either. Admittedly, there are a lot of women who don't have any respect for themselves and consequently almost magnetically attract that worst losers in the room. They do indeed go for the dickheads. But find a healhty, well-adjusted woman with confidence in herself, and she'll always go for a guy who treats her with respect and who has respect for himself in return.

Thank God most of y'all who believe in the dickhead-attraction factor don't have daughters. For those of you who think this way who have wives or girlfriends? Those ladies have my sincere condolences.

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I can almost feel the shit storm falling down on me already but I have to say I disagree with you birdgirl. I think "Well adjusted" is code for refined. In a "well adjusted" relationship I don't get drunk, kick in the door and start calling her a whore, etc. Instead it is the little, refined fights. Even as simple as "Your not wearing that are you?".

I think it is in men's genetic makeup to procreate with many women and we therefore feel some resentment against the institution of monogomy and we tend to take out our frustrations on our women.
Women are not without fault though. I think women need, at thier core, to feel they are in a secure relationship with a strong (Emotionaly, mentaly, physicaly) man and they tend to test it by being bithes sometimes. Weather it is the loud mouthed putdown in the supermarket or a refined "dig" durring a candle light dinner.
Human nature is human nature. We can bemoan it and we can try to change it but we ignore it at our own perril.

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