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i think you should make a stand and tell them your not quiting and there wasting there time, tell them to read up! shit thell probly never understand but why should you bend over for them its you life! if the would send you to jail, well thats just bad parenting!
IF I were you i would do what I did in high school... you just have to pretend like you don't smoke at all... you just have to make an excuse to stay the night with your friend. Like say, ok im going to go stay the night with johnny.... then when you leave... smoke before or while your at your friends house... stay the night.. then change clothes the next morning.. your parents will never know.. and you will still get to smoke... its a win win... also, my parents found out hte other day, but luckily im in college... so my dad is like a 70's stoner... so he basically didn't even talk to me about it and just asked how I could let me sister and mom know I do it... my mom cried and stuff and was talking about how it was illegal and I was like mom is safer than cigarettes and alcohol both. I was like be thankful that im not doing either of those. And she was like yeah but its illegal. And I was like yeah, but do you know why its illegal? No I didn't think so. The government is retarded and makes drugs illegal that should be legal. So my advice is just start "staying the night out" a lot and smoke with your friends.
lol dude if u fail a drug test and they take u to the cops the cops will be quite ritley fucked cuz they cant do shit to you lol!
failing a drug test is rightful means to search the house maybe but jail time? nope
also failing a drug test cant go on your perminent record.
and dude..my rents uesd to freak and say i was ruining my life and i was going to be a failure, and then time after time they just got uesd to it, live TV violence, not they know im high and just dont wanna deal with it. i told them "ill quit for a period of time to pass a test and show you im not addicted, i do decent in school, im in advanced plaement classes and get b's, plus im one of the best athletes at my school, (which is saying alot cuz it has a population of 5,000+ students) and that im not ruining my life at all, i do it for my own reasons and im not ashamed of it at all"
usually the convos were like this
"kevin your ruining your life by smpoking pot"-rents
"how so"-me
"its bad for you"-rents
"its better than ciggs, better than alcahol, safer than asprin, and you use all three of those"-me
"but its ILLEGAL"-them
"it wasnt illegal before the 1930's, so did those people have more rights than me?"
"its still illegal"-them
"its illgeal on unjust grounds, and many states are legalizing it in their own ways along with other countries"-me
"its illegal"- them
" i smoke weed and im not going to stop, prohibitian cant last, its taking away a persons inaleable rights, george washington grew pot, was he a failure?, revolting aganst unjust laws is what this country was founded on, what about harriet tubman saving blacks on the underground railroad, it was illegal, so was she a failure?, what abou martin luther king jr, he went against what was thought to be right, was he a failure? civil disobediance is what that all is, what we are made of"
"its illegal"-them
notice their compelling arguement...
I agree, the cops cant do much to youf or haveing a positive drug test for pot, but in this case i would try my best to pass drug tests and keep trust with your parents about you not smokeing pot, seeing that most parents dont know shit about marijuana and think its a terrible thing thats gonna mess your life up , its best for you to play it low till your atleast in college. peace :)
koshea, that is exactlt what my parents do. they just have one line... "its illegal" ... and that ius their only argument. after showing them all kinds of proof that it is safer then legal drugs, she still just kept saying... "its illegal"... so im gonna take frenchinhale's advice, just get high at friends houses and stay the night. thats after i pass a few drug tests though. well, looks like i will be sober for the next 2 or 3 months while they test me regularly. at least i have something to look forward to, cuz after going that long without a smoke i will get so insanely high once i get back on the joint. thanks guys, your really helpfull. peace.
This is what has worked for me...
Stand up for herb smoking with intelligent aruguments, or at least with negative refutations (think Socratic Dialog style). Then prove your statements emperically. If you are getting shit done (solid schoolin, makin money at work, shit like that) then they don't have half a leg to stand on against you burn'n ;)
lol if it wasn't illegal i bet noone would give a fuck =/ but a lot of things are illegal yet we do them on a daily basis
Only advice I got ya dont wanna hear an ya already know- :confused:
yea, from now on i should just point out to my mom everytime she doesnt stop at a stopsign, or doesnt buckle her seatbelt, and that its illegal and more dangerous to get in an accident with no seatbelt then to smoke a joint.
u guys forgot my house my rules? or are my parents the only ones that still u that