Gay freind!!what do i do?
Child, you blew it! A person's sexual preference is their own business. You don't need to be blabbing it around. Being high is a piss-poor excuse! Every gay I've known, has been willing to take no for an answer (in prison, it might be another story). I have had several friends who were gay, both male and female. I don't claim to understand being gay, but there is something wrong when loving someone is wrong, a sin, immoral, etc (as long as they are adults, or at least of similar ages, anyway).
Your friend, if he forgives you, is still your friend. What he does in bed has little to do with you, once you make YOUR preference known. 99% of what a person is, has NOTHING to do with who (or what) they fuck. Are you willing to lose a friend over that 1%? It's sad if you are willing to do that over something as trivial as sexual preference.
Lighten up, child, and accept others as they are. The world is NOT run according to your perceptions. - Granny:hippy:
Gay freind!!what do i do?
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Originally Posted by Storm Crow
Lighten up, child, and accept others as they are. The world is NOT run according to your perceptions. - Granny:hippy:
thank you.
Gay freind!!what do i do?
you have to eiather stab him in the heart with somthing made of wood or cut off the head
Gay freind!!what do i do?
hmm.... maybe i'm wrong in saying, but i think you should just suck it up and deal with it, it's kidna fucked up to tell people that, whether you trust whoever you're telling or not... that's teh type of shit that can ruin lives... i've seen it happen, my best friend is gay, and when he came out in high school his life was living hell for a good while....
doesn't get much shit now adays, but back then he was at the point of suicide...
you literally may very well have wrecked the dude's life... i think you need to tell him you're sorry at the very least and it was never your intention for the outcome that happened... then spend the rest of your life making it up to him.. it's not like breaking a bowl or soemthing that you can just replace, everyone knows now and the damage is done... it's time for you to step up and start trying to make restitution...
Gay freind!!what do i do?
you really fucked up. there is probably no good end to the situation now, you cant be friends with him again, not the same, you telling everyone he was gay before he even said as much to you let alone the entire school isnt something that will blow over in a day. my advice is this. you are fourteen, move on, apologize, thats really all that can be done on your end.
Gay freind!!what do i do?
seriously though, I was friends with a gay person, he said it was hard being just friends with an attractive guy..i never really cared about the fact that he was gay. As far as telling other people hes gay, that should'nt matter, people have to find out sometime..if hes offended by you stating facts than thats his problem. If you become friends with him again just make it clear that you are 100% strait.
Gay freind!!what do i do?
Why would you tell?! Im sure if he wanted people to know he would have told. At your age he'll be torn up in public school. Thats horrible. You could have ruined his whole school life now. What a schmuck.
Gay freind!!what do i do?
When your young being gay is a big thing, but when u mature you learn it aint such a big problem.... But if i was your it would be really hard to rebuild your relationship with ur friend... i would watch my gurl and get a new bro man.
Gay freind!!what do i do?
yea who cares dude, you may have just lost a really good friend due to your immatureness. I dont know why when people see gay people they always think OMG THEIR GONNA HIT ON ME EWW, WTF why would we want to hit on you???? you really think we would try to get with straight people , why would we set ourself up for that kind of failure? come on now... and you know if he tryed to be ur friend again i feel bad for him its only cuz hes lonely. But if you were any kind of a friend you would apologize and try to get past it. FUNNY how their was no conflict before and all of a sudden you find out hes gay.. haha and you try to say your not homophobic .. come on now.. be real with yourself..
im female.. and i prefer females over males any day.. BUT if theirs that hot man oh man i cant say no lol:thumbsup::stoned::stoned:
Gay freind!!what do i do?
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Originally Posted by sailboat
1. grow up. if you cant keep thoughs to your self whilst stoned, dont smoke.
2. if he's never told you he was gay you had no base to say anything anyways.
3. get off thinking he wants to be with you. after that dick move you pulled, i'm pretty certain if he ever did want to get with you (which im sure he DIDNT) he's probabley so over it you can kiss even a friendship goodbye.
as for the other kid,
i feel bad for him, thats pretty messed up, and dont hide behind weed.... you probabley were dying for an exucse to say something.
and don't say your not homophobic when clearly his sexuality is your biggest cause for concern. though i have no statistical evidence in my experience, it's the homophobes who are certain every gay person has a crush on them.
from a gay person (me!)
we dont.
nobody likes jerks
I'm not going to lie to any of you cause there is no point.
I'm in no way homophobic(if that's how you write it)but i'm sorry to say that i don' want to hang out with a gay person who's attracted to me.
And yes i do have a bases to saying he's gay but i'm not going to get into detail.
I'm truly going to say that i know i made a bad move...
I live in france and not everybody at school knows.Quite a few people know but not everybody!
The reasoning for me rejecting him, if ever he wanted to be freinds with me again,goes further than him being gay.
He's never going to get pushed around at school cause he aint a pushoverand he has got freinds he's not alone he's just not my freind.
tRUE I DO NEED TO GROWUP and i'm aware of it and i made a big mistake but apart from apolagizing there is no soulution.
Peace and love:rastasmoke:
