Damn, I have too many good opportunities to move out (even if i could), just a really poor situation, will be glad to move out at 18.
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Damn, I have too many good opportunities to move out (even if i could), just a really poor situation, will be glad to move out at 18.
If my parents were against weed I'd be fucked; as it is, my dad lets me pinch a bit of his stash if I need it.
I'd say cut back, only toke away from home and never go back stoned.
hey.......
I can't believe what I'm going to say.... I seriously can't...
My mum woke me up today...and told me how dissapointed she was.... then she told me she found my "stuff"... which consisted of a bullet pipe...some papers...and some seeds. no pot, but still.
I was speechless for some seconds...then I started to talk... then suddenly she lost her compusture and started crying .. "what are you doing with your life? I do everything so you can have a future" etc etc... I felt like some big shit...I still do...I feel like shit.
I told her it was "a kind of legal thing...made of strawberry" but I bet she didn't buy it.... and told her I just wanted to "experiment" and that have only done it a couple of times....
She took that stuff...I don't know what she is going to do with them....I hope she throws it away.... I fucking hate myself right now.
The first times I got caught when I was younger and my parents chewed me out about weed I remmeber the first thing I did was sit there and think about how wrong I was and how much of an idiot I was. That's not right though. Your parents just really care about you and they get dooped by all the stories about weed=death and they over re-act. Don't let your mom crush your spirit.
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Originally Posted by Catt
I dont know why you hate yourself. You havnt done anything wrong. Just because your mother doesnt like the fact you prefer smoking an almost harmless plant than drinking poison doesnt mean your wrong. Your right. Your making your own decisions in life. Dont get upset because shes upset. She's only upset because she doesnt know anything about what she's banging out about. Try showing her some facts - educate her about it. Dont let her think shes right when all her arguments are obviously going to be bullshit. I cant get my head around how you feel bad. You're [hopefully] not a child, so it's your life, and your decisions. As far as i'm concerned, if you want to smoke weed, that's the right decision.
man......my mom then comes ....and acts as if everything is alright...as if nothing happens....she acts as always...I cant look at her in the eye...but still..Quote:
Originally Posted by LIP
No..Im not a kid...Im 19...I hope thats not kiddie..
Shes.... obviously...trying to act normal or something.... I still feel uncomfortable... I live under her house...thus under her rules....but she have not said anything about toking issues... I kinda said It was some lega shit....strawberry thing or something.... this she has the seeds...pot seeds...
Well dont do anything about it. Your an adult - you can do exactly what you like when you like. If you want to smoke a plant, do it! Just smoke it outside [like you probably already do] and she cant complain.
If she figures out it was weed give her all the real fact about how good it is, and about EVERYTHING the government say is complete bullshite.
Be straight up with your parents. Tell them that you are not only not going to stop smoking, but you celebrate the fact that you smoke. Well, that might be a bad idea. But people shouldn't be shady about pot. It isn't like your a crack head for smoking pot. We shouldn't live in fear because of it. Get some information, and show your parents the reasons why you smoke that don't involve the high. How there is proof against it causing cancer, possibly preventing it, how it helps insomnia and depression.
But seriously. I don't believe in lying to your parents. Your parents trust is way more important than any punishment you'll get from them is bad. Sure you are in a shitload of meeting and stuff now, but maybe you can pull your parents to your side of the horizon.
~Justin
Thanks for the replies. I know that my parent's trust is a very important thing...I don't want to ruin that, but still I couldn't admit it was pot what I was smoking, I know what that little word can cause to people like my mother. I guess she can find out what those seeds are from though...heh.
The thing is, I'm not a regular user actually... time to time I buy a 1/2 and smoke that in a period of time...I kept my pipe and papers to use them when I needed it.
Im trying to give the impression that it was a little phase...to "experiment" .. I actually told her I wanted to experiment, to see how it was... so hopefully she will think I just smoked a couple of times for "silly juvenile sake" and wont do it again....
Though I toked 2 ago...and I will smoke whenever I have the chance.... the difference is... not in my house anymore.
Well... if you dont drink and go to the AA, then you will learn a lot of reasons to never ever drink. And, for me, its a very good thing. As you can see for yourself, booze can destroy the live of people, and brings absolutely no growth, mental or spiritual, as weed does.Quote:
Originally Posted by kingkong.bomb
Weed is not like booze. So you can keep your smoking/growing dreams, cause if you only smoke you will never become like this poor ex-drunken ones...
Only drink booze if it were Green dragon! ;) :thumbsup: :stoned: