My dad died

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Originally Posted by robert42

please dont take offence but for someone who just lost their father you shouldnt make jokes about another guys dad, its a bit iffy to me.

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I kinda need to agree, seems a bit cold if you ask me.

Maybe even a little too cold.:confused:

i lost my father, and then when i finally got a step dad 5 years later he died.

life is full of tests - its how you react to these test that show the character you are.

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

holy shit ij ust found out something weird
ok see if you can keep up... my mothers sister (aunt) lives in jersey and works in a school district up there... ok so when she had to come down here a school wide email went out explaining that her brother in law michael (insert last name here) died in (insert town here ((i like my privacy))) and a woman that works in that school... her daughter lives in the same city we do... and she had a baby at 11:00 thursday july 13th... same time my father died... named michael.. same english name as my dad... hebrew name chaim... same hebrew name as my dad. thats weird right ther. my father was reincarnated.

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That IS something, isn't it? Kinda reassuring, too. Life goes out, but new life comes in at the same time. The cycle of life. Be interesting to see what that baby grows up to be like, won't it?

When the grandmother that I was closest to died a little over 20 years ago, I was very pregnant with my son. His soon-to-be arrival was one of the family events that helped to serve as a distraction to the grief. I could have done without all the hundreds of distant relatives touching my stomach at the funeral, but they seemed to find reassurance in the idea that life was replacing itself.

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

holy shit ij ust found out something weird
ok see if you can keep up... my mothers sister (aunt) lives in jersey and works in a school district up there... ok so when she had to come down here a school wide email went out explaining that her brother in law michael (insert last name here) died in (insert town here ((i like my privacy))) and a woman that works in that school... her daughter lives in the same city we do... and she had a baby at 11:00 thursday july 13th... same time my father died... named michael.. same english name as my dad... hebrew name chaim... same hebrew name as my dad. thats weird right ther. my father was reincarnated.

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That's beautiful. Both the newsletter and the baby.

When my brother and his friends hold Kaddish, I'll ask they include your dad in Prayer.

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Originally Posted by tootsie roll

That's beautiful. Both the newsletter and the baby.

When my brother and his friends hold Kaddish, I'll ask they include your dad in Prayer.

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thanks alot

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

thanks alot

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Anytime hon.

:)

I'm off to bed. I'll remember you and yours in my prayers.

................and pumpkins dogbaby Dylan.

today im just generally fucking pissed and annoyed

one more day till shiva is over

Hang in there haze..........

ay man im tryin my best
lots of people are here for me
even this girl i kinda like... she lost her father a few years ago
i like this support