why do girls play hard to get?

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Originally Posted by lateralus

I didn't read the thread, but don't show a girl any more attention than she deserves. Chances are you're not the only one giving her any. They revel in it. You've dropped the signals/game/whatever, so my advice is stop the attention, and if she misses it, she'll seek it out from ya. Don't want to be just another guy hitting on her, do ya? ;)

Otherwise move on.

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yea play it cool. act like you dont care.

cos ur butt uggly :(

This just makes my marriage even better! Those games, by both men and women were stupid and immature. If shes still playing the game at 21, you need to consider whether shes ever gonna shit or get off the pot! I was never much for games to begin with, I knew what I wanted and went for it. Sometimes to my sorrow, but I think thats probably beside the point.

The question is really how long are YOU willing to put up with it? Sorry, some of us just grow up faster than others and games are really just immaturity shining through.
A few of my friends are still playing that game and are still 'single' and their in their 30's. Maybe commitment just isnt a part of their genetic makeup, maybe its fear of the unknown, who knows.

More to the point I think is that some women are so afraid of being hurt they dont realize when they have a good thing untill its gone. If your really stuck on this girl, dont cut her off completely, but back off till she comes around.

I guess I just needed to vent at first, I'll be married 17 years on Dec 27 this year, and even after all these years Im still IN love with my husband, I cant imagine my life without Ken and If I'd have played silly games with him, I would have lost him for sure. Not all men are willing to put up with the hard to get thing.
I doubt this has helped any, but I needed to say something on the subject anyway.

i like it when they play hard to get, makes the "getting" that mutch better.

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Originally Posted by Ammie

because we like that attention u guys give us when we do it :D

u make it to easy so we play along ;)

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SoOo TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup: :rasta:

hey ganja, is that you in your avatar?........ HOT HOT HOT :D

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Originally Posted by teknodppr

Hey i dont know if any of you remember a post i had a while ago about asking out a girl, but this is kinda a follow up.
heres the old post http://boards.cannabis.com/showthread.php?t=6297

anyway i just decided not to try and hookup with her for a while and see how things went. i found out pretty much everything i needed to know about her. i know for sure that she likes me now by how she acts. its good that i didnt ask her out at the time because she would have probably said no. lets just say that she caught all her prev. bf's cheating on her and she is very skeptical about going out again. i pretty much showed her that im not looking to get into her pants cause thats not what kind of guy i am and eventually asked her out. she said yes, but we havent gone out yet. she is playin the hard to get thing. she wont give me her number, although she is always leading me on. for example, the first time i asked for her #, she wrote it down on a piece of paper with all sorts of diff. color hearts, then she wouldnt give it to me and would laugh about it. back to my original question, why do girls play hard to get? because they want to see how much you like them...........probably.......or mabe its because they like making you go crazy. ive never really been in that much of a relationship, but how long have girls played this game with you guys before they gave in?

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why do girls play hard to get?

The original question. Very simple answer.Women like to be in control. The second they don't have their man wrapped around their finger, they go find another sucker who will. Women MUST have the feel of power, in control. They find it funny and get kicks playing hard to get. They know some of us guys will keep trying until we get that girl. Find a girl who won't play games. Leave the game players for the players.

Sorry, I have to answer this.

I play hard to get because when I show interest in a guy he pulls away, it seems guys perfer girls who don't want them..sort of like a challenge.

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

Sorry, I have to answer this.

I play hard to get because when I show interest in a guy he pulls away, it seems guys perfer girls who don't want them..sort of like a challenge.

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how old are u^^??

Girls are so hard to get because they are instinctively in love with beauty.

It's hard to be a beautiful man.

edit: Whoo, GanjaASD. :stoned:

AHHHHHH WHY PLAY THESE GAMES THEYRE TOO CONFUSING

16.

oic

Well, I find it more attractive when guys play hard to get. Like, if a guy is slobbering all over me and acting desperate, there is no challenge but if he acts disinterested, it makes me more interested in him-I dont know why, its just sexier. I certainly dont like to act like a slut, its nice to be a lady and play a little hard to get, it builds the tension and I think most guys prefer it that way than just getting pussy handed to them on a plate - I mean, anyone can get laid, but you want to put in a little effort then reap the rewards at the end.

this thread is hilarious....just remember guys......girls can make you do crazy things just make sure you find the one who means it

ps.21 and still a virgin? my god some people have self control....unless your ugly

A cat went for a walk. The cat had to pass some railroad tracks. When the cat pasted the tracks a train came flying by and cut off its tail. The cat turned around and went back to find its tail. Another train came by and the cat lost its head. The moral of this story is don't lose your head over a bit of tail. ;) Old story but it has meaning.

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

It's hard to be a beautiful man.

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Not for me. Hahaha

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Originally Posted by MudFu

A cat went for a walk. The cat had to pass some railroad tracks. When the cat pasted the tracks a train came flying by and cut off its tail. The cat turned around and went back to find its tail. Another train came by and the cat lost its head. The moral of this story is don't lose your head over a bit of tail. ;) Old story but it has meaning.

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Well, I have a variation to the tale. In a cat who's willing, and able, to grow, when he goes back to find his tail, he'll find two. ;)

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Originally Posted by flamingskullballs

the "game" actually comes from our instincts...when you see animals during mating season, they do the same thing...the girl is trying to lead you on, and in the end, see what guy will fight for her most...like how bucks fight with their antlers...in the end, its all about primal instincts...your trying to get the best female, and theyre trying to get the best male..only its the males that gotta try to get them, the females just gotta lead the most males on...

theres a lot more instincts in us then we believe...you can see it when driving on a long highway or freeway...you wont see anyone else driving for miles, and then a bunch of people....the herding instinct...

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