"Wait till she is legal...." Well, none of you stoners say that of an another lady, and her name is Mary Jane.
Life is short, live it fast. Dont get caught.
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"Wait till she is legal...." Well, none of you stoners say that of an another lady, and her name is Mary Jane.
Life is short, live it fast. Dont get caught.
This thread reminds me of the MTV-made movie about statatory rape.
lol eternal you are right
anyways.. shes way mature which is the only reason im considering it.. ive just been talking with her a lot, a lot more then the other girls i considered liking and are of age.. shes just hella chill
So if you indeed go out with her and vow not to bone her, what if she wants you to go down on her?
What then?
Hopefully this girl is really chill, and is cool with it. Otherwise, you are falling in the pussy trap.
Otherwise what's wrong with just being friends? Whatever you do, be careful and know when to hit "EJECT."
some nice advice but i must add my bit,what does she think of you first off,if you both get on well make each other laugh i dont see a problem with going for it,female 15 year olds are much more mature than 15 year old boys so shes probably on your level.take it easy she will be 16 soon,and as time goes on you will never notice your very small age difference.in my experience age should never matter if you belive you have met the right person for you,i met my partner 3 years ago and we have an 11 year age gap(she's older)but we love each other care for each other and look out for each other.i just wouldnt want to be without her.so good luck hope it all goes well!!
wouldn't be the least bit suprised . but it sure the hell aint crispi .Quote:
Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
learn to read a lil better son !!! crispis never done a day in the clink in his life.
crispi
Seriously, what is the difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old? Nothing, there is just a useless tabu in there. If you were 80 and she was eighteen and you two would get married the day you both meet, then thats just fine by the law, but now that there is a three-fucking-year age difference, that makes you a rapist. Just like the fact that you smoke weed, makes you a dangerous junkie. My advice is, dont ever base your beginning moral point to what the law says, since we all know its shit.
Come on, seriously. A a drug-frenzied pedophile raping little girls? While the actual rapists dont get all that much worse treatment?
lol I dont even know wt u said!Quote:
Originally Posted by Eazy
lol no eazy ur nt a wigger are you
Surely the law should be second to both your feelings. IF ytou both feel you should have a relationship then go for it imo. Maybe its ont such a big deal here in england i know 15 year old girls who are dating 24 yr old men.
We need an ebonics translator.Quote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
A bit insensitive are we?Quote:
Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
In NJ, that would be legal, as long as both partners are over 13 and within 3 years of each other it's not against the law.
To what? 15 year olds or sex offenders?Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
We aren't talking about a 30 something or even a 20 year old dating a 15 year old... we're talking sex between 2 kids in high school... yeah. they are young, yeah, 15 year old girls are pretty vulnerable to the wiles of 'older' men, even older meaning like 17, but the 17-15 relationship or even 18-15 doesn't make you a sex offender and the laws were not written for them... but for old nasty dudes doinking lil girls. So since we are talking about high school sex, and you are calling another user who got caught in the technicality of that law a sex offender or pedophile or whatever, yes, that makes you insensitive.
thanx stinky u rock ,
i know who my friends are here .
G/B sis .
crispi
Awww I never get tired of looking at that pic of your Neo!! What a cutie!!!
I personally would wait until she's 16. Just stay friends until then. Even if you turn 19 and she's 16, it looks better than if you're 18 and she's 15. Chances are it won't matter anyways, but you never know.
im not trying to be an asshole dude, but even if your not banging her, it will look real sketchy.Quote:
Originally Posted by nikweiser
you have to lick it....before you stick it! chachacha!
hahahahQuote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
the thing is, to the post about whoever said it would look sketchy, it really wouldnt look sketchy in person... but since you guys dont know what i look like, how tall i am, all my features etc.. compaired to her.. it actually looks like were the same age to any random person to see us together:stoned:
anyways, appreciate all your guys responses.. im not just gonna jump for it but wait a lil bit... with keeping touch everyday haha
Very uneven territory you're walking on here since she is 15. I did the same though, I dated a girl who was 15 and I was 18. I didn't go near her once in a sexual way till after she was legal and both myself and her felt comfortable with it. We started seeing each other about 3 or 4 months away from her 16th birthday. Nice girl, didn't last long though I soon remembered how much I love my Ex/Current girlfriend.
Regardless of my point. Either you are a registered sex offender or not. Thats all I'm saying. And I am still on the hit it (but don't get caught) bandwagon. Crispix said something that would lead a person to believe that if the charges 'stuck' he would be on a list of registered offenders.Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
If you are caught then you are considered a sex offender. Then you can kick yourself for nailing a 15 year old when you knew better. Then people openly know that you are a sex offender.
I say be with her. :)
My boyfriend is 18 years older than I am and we are perfect for each other. Remember that the laws can be very different in every state. In Indiana its 16and i'm turning 17 next month. My parents don't like it/don't know, but they can't do anything legal about it. :) I say go for it and if you're really paranoid about the sex thing just make it between you and her and don't tell anyone else. :) Or you can wait. :)
peace-
16 year old girl and a 34 year old.Quote:
Originally Posted by autumn tourniquet
Doesn't that look weird when you go places together? How do you introduce yourselves as a couple?
We really don't look that odd together, actually.
When we introduce ourselves, we don't mention age.
em as in short for Eminem? like on that song where he says "kiss my black ass" LMAO!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Eazy
Your asking for trouble!!!
i wen tout with my first love ... and so far my last when i was 15 and he was 18 and it was fine for a long time about 2 years ... but shit happens but id say go for it its only 3 years
ya i must ask the same...Quote:
Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
that is definatly weird
yeah i think thats just fucked up... this dude was prolly banging whores before she was even born... hes old enough to be her fucking dadQuote:
Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
The only way he could be my dad is if he had me when he was 17 or 18.
If I were a year older than what I am now it'd be fine with everyone, and I find it sad that no one can see past the age difference. :/
Plus, you don't know the details of the relationship and hes not a pedophile its legal and just because hes older doesn't automatically make him stalking children....
But whether you know it or not, or however mature you feel, you're vulnerable at that age.
Do you have a good relationship with your father?
Are you looking for a male role model, or some sort of affirmation from a father figure?
And no matter how YOU look at it, he's creepy for going along.
What do you guys even talk about?
How do you have mutual friends? When you are older you are going to realize how mutual friends end up being SO MUCH a part of a healthy adult relationship.
Dude if it someone that you really care about, jus wait.
that still doesnt change the fact that its straight up creepy...Quote:
Originally Posted by autumn tourniquet
Well that is slightly pushing it, but not completely. As you state, it's legal where you are. Many 17 year old girls can be quite mature and look the part of someone older in comparison to their peers, so much so they are "older".
I would much rather see a 17 year old marry some 30 some year old than another 17 year old. Two 17 year olds will more likely have a rough start, even with family support. An older partner can offer financial security and understanding, experience, and an overall maturity. And the younger partner is less likely to be burnt,etc.
I wouldn't call someone going after a 17 year old a pedophile. Now if he/she is hitting on some 12-15 year old that's another story and worthy of prosecution. It's really not creepy in many circles. I have seen many so called "trophy wives" who are 19-20 and whose husbands are 40 or more. In reality they seemed to work quite well together.
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Originally Posted by autumn tourniquet
my grandpa has 17 years on his wife... my girl only gots a year on me:) & im better off financially with any1 im pretty independant, i pretty much sleep at home & take showers thats about it
Just because trophy wives are a reality doesn't make it 'ok' or socially acceptable.
i dont think it's wrong, i never dated anyone my age when i was under 18 and still don't now. so i dont have a problem with it, i think you should just be really careful, depending on the statutory rape laws in your state. even if you're not doing anything, somebody could say you are and you know how the law fucks men over in these type of situations.
you might as well fuck her if she wants to have sex yo
thats my opinion tho, im 21, ive banged 16 girls, and i do bang the occasional 15 year old, but 16 is legal where i live