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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Blogs have finally proven a purposeful use to me now....rough times man, but with your loss you know have a new lease on life and knowledge that will be very ueful down the road...set up a new grow room, find a new stoner girl, and be ready for it again...i applaud you and would smoke you out like CRAZY if i knew you in person for the work you did...having hte balls to walk the sheriff in to your grow room that was htere 5 hours ago..solid work my friend, solid
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Man that's some fucked up shit. This is exactly why besides online no one is knowing about my grow op. That is just some fucked up shit. I hope things go your way one day and she gets repaid in the name of God. How do you use man's law to get some one arrested for growing God's plant that is like a gift from him! Damn this killed my high :p..
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
wow man.....jsut think....if she would have just called the cops and told them about your grow instead of just putting it on a blog.....you'd be in jail for a LONG LONG time
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
you got to move and start the biggest growing operation where ever it is you live. dude and all you need to get to never have this problem again is those cool doors in the movies that have the secret switch and a section of the wall opens to reveall the biggest operation ever...i love those doors.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
That story was a very good read. I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that, but just think of how worse it could've been. You are lucky for checking her blog.
Best of luck to you in the future, as far as women and growing go.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Robert De Niro's character had a great line that applies here I think.
A man told me once: you want to make moves?
Don't keep anything in your life you're not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
as said by stone cold steve austin D.T.A.
DONT TRUST ANYONE !!!!!
BACK UP PLAN IS KEY TO A SUCESSFUL GROW!!!! MUST HAVE ALL BASES COVERED.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude,,
good job on not sluffin and cleanin up RIGHT AWAY,
and im glad u didnt get caught! that would've been FUCKED UP
and man, thats one sketchy asss bitch, i wouldnt kill her, but i would hope someone did ahha no offense, but she tried to put u away....and for long time too lolz looks like she didnt give a dam
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
daaam nice close one.
next time if this happens make shure everything is ready so it all goes smooth..
and dont ferget the pipes this time:rastasmoke:
well still nice nice job u should get back at your wife somehow...
o yea try to find a girl that wouldent really care if you grow but that u like also.
like theres this gurl i know she likes getting stoned to so shes my first pick:rastasmoke:
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
it would have sucked greatly if you did all that and the popos didnt even do anything... better safe than sorry I guess...
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
If you paid for your lights with anything but a credit card I would print off the blogs ASAP and then hire a lawyer and sue her for slander and libel. I think libel is for printed material and if you print it off, she can't edit her blog and deny it. Even if you used a credit card I would take her to the cleaners in civil court and divorce court (which I know is another civil court).
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
damn nice story man...good luck with everything.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
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Originally Posted by ericwt
There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.
where in postland does she luve? do you know? i could have some people take care of things. narcs will narc again and again until the problem is fixed.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Thanks again for all your kind thoughts.
I am not interested in revenge. Quite frankly it is not my way.
She never mentioned my real name, just a nickname I was known by. She has since changed her blog. Although anyone can figure out what she is saying.
She still talks about calling my mom and telling about the grow. Like that would do anything as I own my own house. All she wanted to do is create chaos in my life. It worked.
But I am thankful that I made it through that time. Divorce sucks.
But I am going to be the better person and let her go and live her life with no interference from me. She no longer smokes weed so I doubt she will do this to anyone else.
I wish her well. As long as I do not have to see or hear from that bitch again.
She is someone elses problem now.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Hey Ericwt
That's an amazing story.
I wonder how many growers will go through that someday.
I have about 24 hours to dismantle my grow and clean the house... I consider myself very very lucky to have that much advance warning...I suppose you were also very lucky to stumble across her blog... that feeling of impending doom.
I'm glad you are safe.
Stinky
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Great story...can you say Dumpster Diving. LOL
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DAMMIT@ FUK
What thE FUCI
WHY? Why do people have to be like that!
Thanks and GL.
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Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Hey Ericwt
That's an amazing story.
I wonder how many growers will go through that someday.
I have about 24 hours to dismantle my grow and clean the house... I consider myself very very lucky to have that much advance warning...I suppose you were also very lucky to stumble across her blog... that feeling of impending doom.
I'm glad you are safe.
Stinky
Wow, Thanks for the bump Stinkyattic!
This is an important topic. It was a painful story to write down and post on a Cannabis site. I also in a way relive the experience when this topic gets commented upon. Very good for my own healing in this matter.
I think you would be surprised how many people have gone through this experience. I know of some overgrowers that it happened to.
What scares me is that more than a few will experience the same thing that we have, and some will not be as lucky as we were.
They will wake up one morning with police pointing guns at them, asking them to get on the ground. They will experience getting hand cuffed. They will experience what it is like to get finger printed. They will enjoy the joy of having their freedom ended. They will learn what it is like to have their houses and cars confiscated. They get to experience loosing their children, their jobs or their businesses.
They loose everything.
You were smart Stinkyattic. If this guy is that out of control it is only a matter of days before he gets busted for some thing. Then he would sing like a bird to save his own neck. Enjoy growing those Peppers! I grow them too.
It is funny there are a few that have scoffed me when I post in the growing area of the forum. I always speak of a friend that grows. The funny thing is that it is true. I still don't grow weed in my house. It will be a while before I will be able to grow. Likely I will have to sell my house and move to another area before I can ever grow weed again. But my Peppers will rock your world and mouth on fire.
I had I think 7 mouths of being dry. It sucked bad. Then I set up other peoples personal grows. I helped them set up the area and paid for the lighting and the genetics. They use their own place and I guide them and check on the plants. My split is 1/2 the harvest. I never sell and neither does the partner. Works for me.
But one thing I still cant understand about my ex wife how did she turn into a vicious vindictive person. It is still beyond my understanding.
But I am a lot happier now and am making great progress in my own spiritual journey.
Cover your ass, all you growers out there.
The less people that know you grow the better. Trust your inner feelings and if your relationship starts to go to hell, best to act quickly and dismantle the grow. Don't give your enemy ammunition. If they can use it against you and they are pissed, it is just a matter of when they will do it.
God, all of this for a plant that does good things. Well at least it makes life interesting.
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AMAZING story!
Honestly....Damn! I'm at a loss of words.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
OMG! what a story!
Man, she moved to my neck of the woods =/
You made me think of what i would do if someone came unexpected, thanks for the kick ass warning. I have some work to get my break down time in check. I'll be starting tomorrow!!
peace :stoned:
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One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?
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Originally Posted by MotleyCrueBoy24
One question. How did your family take it. Did they know about your relationship with the god given plant? Or was this their first news. Did they believe her? If so, did they shun you from the family?
My mom called me after she talked to my ex. This was a few days after my visit from the local sheriff. So for all practical purposes I was not growing at that time. So I invited her over. She came and I even offered to take a drug test. She of course said that would not be necessary.
I suspect she knows I smoke weed. She also knows that I do not drink. I think the whole incident actually made me and my mom closer. I showed her my ex wife's blog that said things about me that my mom knew were not true.
The truth is without her and my family I would have never made it through that whole mess. I mean it sucks having to kill your plants and loose your grow but the whole divorce matter really devastated me. To be betrayed by your closest friend changes your view of things. The being dry and not being able to smoke was nothing compared to the feelings of betrayal. Then there is the cost of divorce. I almost lost everything financially. I am now just getting back on my feet money wise.
One day soon I hope I can be honest to my mom about weed. I feel it is getting closer. But right now I am okay with her not knowing or asking about it.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
I am saying nothing about you. But when I am completely independent I will straight out tell my parents that I smoke weed. Knowing my bitch ass mom (who I dearly love and WAS a pothead) she will call the cops. HAHA.
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Originally Posted by ericwt
Thanks for all the replies. The whole experience was more surreal and strange than I could ever write about. I had about 4 hours sleep in about 3 days before the shit went down. As anyone who has experienced the frustration of divorce knows, it is no picnic.
To answer a few questions:
I did not go into detail about the fighting as it was not important to the message I was conveying. Regardless, I wanted my marriage to work and I was not the one who gave up. I still love the little bitch. I imagine what set her off was when she made me mad and at that moment I knew it was over. I stated to her that I was going to replace her with a 19 year old girl and I left.
Why did I dump the lights? Remember no one that I knew, except my ex, that I was growing pot. At that point and still I know no one who smokes that I trust. I do not even know anyone to buy pot from right now.
I just hope none of you have to go through what I went through and I was lucky. When I find the 19 year old girl she will smoke pot with me but will never know that I grow pot if and when I do.
I tried to go into the ex'es blog and delete it but she had changed her password. I also tried to call her and calm her down. She would not answer her cell phone.
There would be a thousand ways for me to get revenge on her, but that is not my way. She now lives close to Portland, OR so that is across the country from me. Let someone else deal with her as long as it is not me.
The events happened in June of this year. My divorce was finalized last week.
She has nothing on me know.
Between my stash and early harvest I stayed stoned for about 3 months. Pot helped me keep from going nuts.
If your significant other knows you grow make back up plans now in case your relationship goes to hell. Remember I thought I would be with her forever.
Where would you stash your lights and grow equipment? How long would it take you to disassemble your grow room when you are panicking and stoned? Do you have seeds and stashes all over the house? Are there stems here and there in your house? Where would you hide your green if you new the Man would be knocking at your door?
Plan these things ahead of time. Try to make your relationships work but realize you never really know what someone is going to do if they get real pissed.
I lived through the experience and that is why I am here posting about it. I advise never telling anyone you are in a relationship with about your grow. If they already know about it...Plan now or regret it later. But it is ultimately your decision and it it your freedom that you are playing with.
If this post even keeps one person from having to go to jail then I am glad I went through hell. No one should go to jail for a harmless plant.
ericwt
hmmmm...
yeah
close call
but maybe you should start growin again?
just keep it on the Dl from even anyone you have a relationship with.
i know thats nearly impossible,but just try.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
I read this a while back. I see that it popped up again, so I'll leave a few words.
It sounds like your ex wife never even loved you.
You don't go from loving someone to wanting them in prison, and trying to do so. It just doesn't make any sense.
That is so wrong.
But its all over with now.
She's can ruin someone else's life now.
What doesn't kill is only going to make you stronger.
Sorry to hear about all this (your ex-wife, the destruction of your grow op), but there is one thing to remember...
Nothing lasts...
Your good will always turn to bad.
And that bad is only going evolve to good again, that is if it already hasn't.
Stay on your feet, all I can say is that things will be golden for you sometime in the future (if it isn't already). I can't say when it will happen, but it will happen...
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wow great read, i commend you my friend :rastasmoke:
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OMFG!
Hell hath no fury, like a woman scorned.
You are the luckiest guy ever.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
that sucks man! do you have any pics or movies you can get her back with?? its called... revenge and sometimes karma. sorry to hear that happened, you did an awesome job covering it all up though!
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
That's crazy.
But yeah, he couldn't use the pipe as evidence anyway since his warrant (I assume) was for a grow op. Then again, it is the US.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Wow what an amazing story! and sorry to hear about your relationship man, really too bad, but I bet freedom never felt more real until you were hours away from losing it.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
Probably wasn't the best idea to post any of that... considering your situation. sorry about your family though... that's rough on anyone.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
I read this back in December, but since it's resurfaced I'll just say that feeling that something wasn't right is what saved your ass. Just imagine what could have happened if that never crossed your mind. You had a guardian angel looking out for you that night man.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
This might be an odd decision but I really think I might end up being single and never getting married unless laws change. Don't mean to be selfish but when the people are gone the Cannabis still is there to satisfy me. I probably wont ever have any one living with me.
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
damn that stroy hurt............when I first read the title I was like all at once?
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
wow dude thats harsh...i cant beleive someone would do that shit
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
For real I am kinda shocked like does she have no brain???
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How my ex wife screwed my Grow Op.
im very sorry that she did that
i cant imagine that occuring in my life
because most females i hang out with or date accept it and juss kinda ignore it or smoke themselves
but i did read the part where u said she quit
just outta curiosity what made her quit?
also if u are considering growing again u should probbably move
once again
im sorry
especially that ur dry if i lived in that area i would smoke u up if i could