oral pleasure is a females perogative and obligation to her other halfQuote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
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oral pleasure is a females perogative and obligation to her other halfQuote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Yeah well, good for you. From personal past learning experience I have learned that guys tend to LIKE the taste of girl parts. Or at least I know my boyfriend does...just in case you wanted to know. I could go into more detail of why I know this but I really don't think you guys would want to know.Quote:
Originally Posted by dryst
Either way, I still think its totally different. Please, drink your own semen, then get back to me on that.
Obligation? *sigh* I am glad your not my boyfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by dryst
if ur sighing at that...i to am glad im not ur boyfriend :D
Um... you just said 2 contradictory things in the same sentence...Quote:
Originally Posted by dryst
Hells yes, that's my perogative.
It's definietly not an obligation.
You know the little head-shove?
I've gotten out of bed and never looked back on a couple exes for pulling that shit.
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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen
You go girl.
Well alright, I'm gonna get a little personal on you guys..shit it's the internet why not. Growing up, as a young child, I WAS MOLESTED/RAPED whatever you call it more than once....basically forced to do sexual things that weren't right and I as manipulated into thinking that it was what I was to do.
So for a man to tell me that it is my fucking obligation to swallow his semen, I get pissed. You can't tell me what to do, I will do things if I WANT to do them. I don't want to be forced to do anything.
Sex and things that have to do with it is a very lame and touchy subject for me, and I am so glad I have a boyfriend who is there for me and willing to work with my issues, even though at times it may be hard.
I don't think any man should think that it is a womans obligation to perform certain sexual acts upon you just because you do it to her.
Some women might feel that it is an obligation, yes...good for them or good for you, whatever. But as for me...it's on my terms biotch-and any man who wants me better fuckin' deal with that.
i didnt contradict myself...
it is an obligation...ur viewing the subject from a womans point of view....which most women tend to do...
ive given the head shove to a few, its sheer reaction..:p the whole dry heaving thing is kinda gross though...woman gotta get that gag reflex under control...
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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen
well im sry that happened to u....u dont mind me asking by who?...
now i dont wanna hurt ur feelings or anything...but your opinion isnt very unbiased... im just saying...ahh fuck it..im just pissing all the girls off...
Your right, my opinion is bias-and it's really too bad...I wish I didn't have a tainted idea sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by dryst
Anyway, it was by my grandpa and my baby sitter and her little brother. Grandpa was a far seperate occaision than the baby sitter and her brother. Yes, both of them. I imagine the same thing happend to them too so it was only natural for them to do it to me and my best friend. Too bad though really, messed my whole life up forever...probably theirs too. I only just recently came to realize that my grandpa was doing pervy things to me...and all along I just thought it was normal...
It really sucks, really..it does. Sometimes when sex is talking about in certain ways I get a really awful feeling all over my body and I just want to throw up. I hate it..and my boyfriend doesn't understand...and he never will..and no one will.
It's probably high time I went and seeked help about it, really. Maybe I too could think of sex in a different light....rather than a dirty one.
double post
I don't like it when women want to talk about their feelings. Leave that for the therepy session honey. :p
I tell my boyfriend everything...hes the one person I want to talk to first when I have something going on in my life. I am glad I have him there to listen to my feelings, and although he may not understand-or ever want to be open about his feelings-EVER, I am really glad I have the one person I care about most there to listen to my problems and my feelings.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou
..and trust me, I have a lot of fuckin' feelings...I am a psych major after all.
what was ur grandpa doing to u?...i dont wanna brg back any memories or trigger a flash back or anything...im just curious, u dont gotta answer if u dont want to..:/
Hey... don't be surprised then when your woman just up and leaves you. She PROBABLY tried to talk about it at some point....Quote:
Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou
My grandpa wasn't very extreme, the only thing I can really remember in fact is that he would touch my boobs and tell me that when I was older I wouldn't let him do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by dryst
Other than that I really don't know what else he did, thats just the only thing that I can remember and realize now that it was wrong. There very well could have been other times, I know hes a creepy pervert. I love him, don't get me wrong...hes a very nice and great man...and I don't think he even thinks about that stuff anymore...but I know he did it, and he may have done more.
...I once walked in on him masterbating to a porno movie-that was lovely. Luckily I snuck out before he could see me.
I have all kinds of shit in my head that fucks me up man...i'm one messed up little girl and I thank anyone who can deal with me and my brain.
If I'm in a relationship with a women who I truely care about, talking is not a problem. I just mean in terms of people who you just meet at a party or something, who drink too much, start crying and telling you their life story. That's what I meant. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Ooooh. yeah, that's wicked irritating. I was a bartender for 9 years... frickin tell me about it!
hey! bet you couldnt do that..Quote:
Originally Posted by fasterspider
Well i hate knowing the fact that girls poop,,,,, once i was chillin with my friend and his fuckin hot ass sister and he convinces her to talk about her poops, i had to leave.
I know a lot of girls that are very open about their poop. I think it's fuckin' awesome and I think their fuckin' hilarious.
I myself am not open about that kind of thing...only to my boyfriend and best friend(who is very open about her shit and always has been)...but then again..we are open about everything...
lol i know i didnt even know it was possible for women to poo untill i was almost 18...Quote:
Originally Posted by JohhnyPotSmoker
Personal baggage on a general thread
THEY GO TO THE PUB YET THEY HAVE NO MONEY
I think you should respect that someone is able to talk about their experiences openly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Skrappie
Was that in reference to me?Quote:
Originally Posted by Skrappie
i belive so...but ignore it, i think it was couragous to tell complete strangers something as personal as that
Yeah....well, it's easy to tell a bunch of stoners on a message board! However...the older I get the easier it is to be open about it and realize that it's really not something to be ashamed of or embaressed by and it's just life.
If you don't want to know...you don't have to read. :)
You know, I think a lot of people just don't realize how common that is. Increasing the awareness level towards shit that so many women have gone through and eventually have to learn to live with, deal with, and get on with their [our] lives is really important.
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Originally Posted by stinkyattic
That is absolutly right. 1 in 4 people were sexually molested as a child, and that is just what is reported. It is extremely common, which is another reason why I am okay talking about it because often times I am not alone. Don't mean to bring anyone down.....it's just a part of life sometimes...
It was in reffrence to you, but only as a light jest. It was just a downer to read on a very light thread ya know.
Keep in mind that you wernt the only one molested as a child though, and am i in no way saying that you should be ashamed to talk about it.
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Bear in mind it is not just a womans issue. That bothers me when its treated as such.
I don't know if I would say I "like" the taste, it doesn't bother me though.Quote:
Originally Posted by TallulahGreen
Edit: Sorry to post this so late I'm just goin through the thread stoned and replying.
i think my girlfriend was by her dad...
she always freaks out when i try to do a certain something to her...its weird, of course i never push it but her dad would be the kind of person to do it...i asked her and she says she doesnt know, and she brought it up with her mom (their divorced now) and the mom got really upset anf was like why what happened...so i dunno...kinda fucked up...
I don't like how some girls think that everyone else has to do what ever it takes to make them happy. I don't like it when all they do it bitch, I mean really, I dont care. I don't like how they think they dont need to know anything and can just get by on their looks. good SOME girls really piss me off. (I don't have very many female friends)
I have friends who were sexually abused when they were little. Its really sad that some people can do that to anyone let alone kids
A lot of girls are moochers.
You admitted to your own bias due to what you've been through. And I don't blame you. But dont you think its only fair? that the depth in which i am willing to put myself out for a girl, that she should go that same length for me. Im sure you girls would feel rather insulted if we came up every 10 seconds to spit out all the fluids we ingest from performing oral sex on you.Quote:
Originally Posted by TallulahGreen
young bitches are usually so goofy, and i hate that. i knwo ALOT of broads that are just so ridiculous goofy, do the dumbest shit you could ever think, thats all i hate bout women. oh and heres a good quote to remember
"if she dont suck, then we dont fuck, id rather make a buck, drive a fat ass truck, grab the 9, 2 clips and run em up"
menstration...now THATS annoying. haha
no idea. true thatQuote:
Originally Posted by TheGreenFog
They spend all your fuckin money, then when it's gone they dump you.
Fuckin prostitutes.