condom - to use or not to use?

lol

Honestly sex without a condom feels way better
but carring a child for 9 months seems a bit painful

so thats why I require protection
safety first!

but I'm def gonna look into that nuvaring thingy I've heard of it and never looked into it

are there any side effects because the pill made me moody and I didn't want sex anymore (kinda pointless after that)

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

Listen here, just love weed and someuser, that is NOT a funny joke at all. Not only not funny, but also REALLY disrespectful towards women. And you wouldn't be defending this dopeboy character if you'd seen his posts in the Grow Lounge.

You should always
-use a condom
-take birth control seriously
-take full responsibility for your actions and even mistakes.

And BTW I am neither psycho nor a bitch; I am simply a woman who takes protecting myself seriously. If that offends you, perhaps you should consider going solo.

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Amen!:thumbsup:

It just aint worth the risk, the next time i dont use a johnnie is when im making lil buddies! Penetration aint the only part of sex, there's so much more!

Peace

Buddy

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Originally Posted by dutch.lover

Just to note; It stops your period but u still have to insert another ring after the original 3 weeks are up, cause they are only designed to stop ur period for 3 weeks at a time. I didnt want anyone getting preggers thinking the rings worked for an infinite amount of time. lol.

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Good point to bring up! You're indeed correct :)

when i turn 18 im getting a vasectomy, i hate kids and would probably end up killing mine by throwing it through a window because it wouldnt shut up.

common side effects of nuvaring (from the paper on the inside of the box): vaginal infections and irritation
vaginal secretion
headache
weight gain
nausea

i love the ring. i would recommend it to everyone (of course talk to your doctor first to make sure it doesnt interact with any other meds you may be on)

well.... today, i found out something... i had a chance to take a girls virginaty on tuesday. and in darrington, finding a virgin(that is actualy at a age were sex is considered appoprite),, is like finding a person who works at microsoft... and as far as i know, theres only one person, who works at microsoft that i know in darrington, so that means one thing, there are only a couple of virgins in this town, and i didnt get it because i didnt have one simple thing....

a CONDOM.... always keep a box handy, you never know when you may need it....

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Originally Posted by napolitana869

common side effects of nuvaring (from the paper on the inside of the box): vaginal infections and irritation
vaginal secretion
headache
weight gain
nausea

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Those arent side-effects of the ring, I think those are natural side-effects of being a woman ;)

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Originally Posted by someuser

Those arent side-effects of the ring, I think those are natural side-effects of being a woman ;)

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thats sort of mean and rude.

it wasnt meant as 'mean'.... I guess my sense of humor is a little distorted when I'm really fucking high and a little buzzed.

its alright... i just thought i would let you know, even thu now that i think about it, what i said was a bit hipocritical, cause i blame girls being piussed at me on PMSing

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Originally Posted by Maggz

Lip is the most bullshitting person ever yo i swear to Gotti. Read what he just said, claiming he was smashing at 14..pshh...LIP man you lied already about the picture of that trichome glistened plant dat you're "GROWING" lol bullshit ..stop lying lol its the virgins who talk about having SEX..like you..lmao..real people dont gotta brag and talk about it you foool lol

(said it nicest way possible btw..)

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hey, i like to brag about having sex... and im not a virgin, rember, im the guy that turned a girl into a whore... and im not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing(it either says my dick is huge, and after me she couldnt get enuf, or its saying my dick is tiny, and she was trying to find some one to fullfill her needs i take it as im huge, and she couldnt get enuf, if not why would she have stayed with me for so long?)

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

but you're not claiming things to the level that this guy has been doing lol... smashing at 14? come on.

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Originally Posted by Kryzco

lol

Honestly sex without a condom feels way better
but carring a child for 9 months seems a bit painful

so thats why I require protection
safety first!

but I'm def gonna look into that nuvaring thingy I've heard of it and never looked into it

are there any side effects because the pill made me moody and I didn't want sex anymore (kinda pointless after that)

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It really depends on the specific types of pseudo-estrogen and progetin and the levels of them, when it comes to making you moody. the pill made me really moody too but so far the ring has been much better (i have been on it for 6mnts now). There aren't any other side effects tho- they're all similar to the pill. Oh, and my doctor told me that the ring is supposed to raise up your sex drive a bit too- something about the way the hormones are taken (oral vs skin).

Condoms don't always work! I am the result of a broken condom, No Joke! (Yes, for some strange reason my mom told me that, probably just to try and make me feel bad or something)

the pill doesnt always work either (but its probably only ineffective when people dont use it properly), I work with a girl who is 24 and has a 3 year old...she had been on the pill for a couple years when she got pregnant.

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Originally Posted by intrepidus6

Condoms don't always work! I am the result of a broken condom, No Joke! (Yes, for some strange reason my mom told me that, probably just to try and make me feel bad or something)

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Why do parents tell their kids shit like that? My friends mom told him that his brother was a 'mistake'...so what does he do? tell his brother of course! strange...

Its hard to go from no condom to condom, definately not anywhere near as good, but its important to use them in most situations.

yea, tomarow, if my ex girlfriends mom isnt working at the store, im gonna go buy a box, and if she is... i guess im gonna go buy a box....

(and this mom thretend to run one of her doughters ex boyfriends dick threw the deli slicer) wow... this will be scary...

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Originally Posted by Kwali

Best way is to goto the clinic together show your both clean, and fuck your brains out with out a condom while shes on the pill. :thumbsup:

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How romantic :stoned:

Yes and make sure you wear the condom at all times. I made the mistake of having sex without the condom and then using it. Now I am with a man I wanna be with forever and not to long ago I find out I have HPV. Just cause I didn't use the condom part of that time now my man has to live with my mistake. The wierd thing about HPV is you can have it for years and never know you have it and over half of men and women in the world have HPV or some other form of a STD. So think of this next time you have random sex this person I barley even know might have an STD and even if I use this condom I am not 100% protected. Even while using the condom you are at risk for HPV or another STD. Just some Knowledge.

yeah i dated a girl for a couple years on the shot, and i stopped wearing rubbers, and when i use them now, i dont think i can even get a nut, and they break alot, and choke the fuck outa my dick, condoms suck, but i guess you gotta wear em cause its better than some huge warts on your shaft

Its ideal to start dating a virgin, get her on the pill.
no stds. no condoms.
you win.

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Originally Posted by Mean Green Charlene

Its ideal to start dating a virgin, get her on the pill.
no stds. no condoms.
you win.

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Actually, even though any who read my posts in this thread know I'm not a big fan of the condom, just cause she is a virgin doesnt mean she is safe bro. You can still get various STDs from IV drug use as well as 'tainted' legitimate medical procedures.


I dont think there is anything such as 'safe sex'.... I think it should be called responsible sex. What is 'responsible' is relative, in a way, as it all comes down to how much 'risk' both people are willing to accept. As long as both parties know the risk and neither of the 'parties' are withholding information about a medical condition that could affect another through sex I feel comfortable.

I do feel bad for some of the younger generation 'brain washed' into thinking unprotected sex = high chance of a STD. This just is not the case. Yeah, if you go bar hopping and find yourself frequently bedding dirty bar hoes your risk is pretty high... But on average I dont think the majority of people out there are walking around with STDs...

Now with HPV, I dont know how much of a risk it is to men. I do know that there is a vaccination now for women so the point there should be mute these days... Atleast for the girls. Not sure if the HPV vaccination works for men or not....

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Originally Posted by someuser

Actually, even though any who read my posts in this thread know I'm not a big fan of the condom, just cause she is a virgin doesnt mean she is safe bro. You can still get various STDs from IV drug use as well as 'tainted' legitimate medical procedures.

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the two girls ive been with are both "good girls" first one didnt smoke pot, the one im with now does smoke pot, but thats it. so theres no worry from stds from needles or whatnot.

just be smart,&dont pick up hookers ^__^