should i tell my parents?

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Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.

fuck i hate doing big things in person...i like how the net can take some of the edge off

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send them an email :p

i say have a sit-down with them. but then again, some parents react differently. my mom knew i had been smoking, but just finally started calling me out on it. and lately, i've been telling her things that i always tried to hide. but then again, i didnt open up to her until she found my court order in the mail. but from experience, i'd say its better you tell them in an open conversation than because they found out you have to go to court.

it's gonna go down in person, only to my dad. i came close to telling my mom over the net when i was arguing with her over pot and alcohol (of the two, which would you prefer me doing? "i'd rather you drank because weed's illegal" they're both illegal for me! "well weed is more legal than alcohol) but i could tell from how the argument was going that if i told her she would totally flip so i'm gonna go with my dad

yes tell him, and please tell me how it goes, im thinking of telling my parents too.

I have a feeling this may have already been mentioned and/or considered.. but tell him when he's high, if you are afraid he's going to flip out sober.

Another way to tell him would just to break all the tension and formality (hopefully) and just be like, "Dad, I want to smoke marijuana with you. Are you okay with that?" He may surprise you and say yes.

^ thats an awesome idea, or be like dad, i was wondering about pot, is it cool if i try it wiht you to ease my curiosity. or something of that sort. say something like "its better to try it in the safety of my home wiht a parent right?". thatl fly i bet.

he doesn't smoke in our house. he blazes at my best friend's house (our dads have been best friends since before we were even born) and i don't know when he's high. it's hard to tell with him unless he smells like it (which is rare)

solution:

keep your mouth shut until they say something. If they ask you about it... only tell the truth.. but if they don't say anything then you're probably fine.

unless i decide it's imperitive i start growing, i'm going to keep my mouth shut

good idea.

make sure hes a bit drunk but not to smashed and then tell him face to face straight up and see how he reacts tell him its only a weekend thing

i'm subtly telling my mom that i do :D she's so fucking nice when she's in the upper part of her bipolar-ness

I FINALLY DID IT!

here's how it went down. Today, after school, i IMed my mom and said "mom, i don't wanna sneak shit behind your back..."blah blah blah. she was way against it. But, she didn't say a word to my dad. Then, me and my dad went golfing, and when we were done we drove up to the canyon. we found sort of a road tucked away from the main paved road, my dad got up and got out and i said "what are you doing?" he turned around and said "i'ma smoke a fucking bowl, whaddaya think?" and i said "can i have some" and he said "you can't get high with me till your fuckin 18" so then i got out too, watched him take 2 hits, then he passed it to me and i was like YES! so i hit it and it all went good. then we went cruisin listening to Bob Dylan, Muddy Waters, and Pink Floyd. it was fucking badass. i feel fucking great.

come on y'all were asking me how it went and now i tell you and no response? what kind of fucked up shit is that?

ur A FUCKING asshole for toking with ur dad. i am jealous cuz i got caught and my parents cant come up with any good reasons for me to stop other than its illegal. i disproved all of their other arguments. and they both admitted to tokin when they were in college. fuck. i think im gonna lay low for a while and its gonna suck.

me and my dad are don't ask don't tell,he's caught me twice,one in the act,the first time he had my stash waiting on the table when i got in and taked with me,the second time i was tokeing up in my room,got a call and he could smell it,now i smoke it in the house all the time,and he doesn't say anything.maybe in a few years i'll smoke with him,maybe not

thats amazing that some of your parents smoke

i recently found out that my dad smokes but i havent asked to toke with him or anything because that would very awkward

howd u find out

Lucky bastard. My dad doesn't want me doing it. Even though I have PROOF he does it. I even found a tiny nug on his carpet in HIS room. But he always gets mad at me for doing it... not like grounding me forever, but not letting me have my allowance for a week or two... Oh well.. better than being grounded for 3 months, like my friend... ;)

Anyway, I'm glad for ya... maybe when I turn sixteen... things will change for me. :)

first of all i think this thing is retarded. like its just such a pointless thread to be discussed. you probably would never tell them even if most of us said you should

dude...did you read my latest post about it? i did tell them. fucking dumbass

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Originally Posted by Matt11

first of all i think this thing is retarded. like its just such a pointless thread to be discussed. you probably would never tell them even if most of us said you should

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feel a little stupid? :p btw,i forgot to mention my dad smokes,my mom used to and she lets me smoke,and she sent me money to buy a pipe for my birthday,it seems like a lot of suburbanite baby boomers smoke pot,and they're interesting people too,full of stories,mostly about getting stonned and doing something funny

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Originally Posted by KronicKing

feel a little stupid? :p btw,i forgot to mention my dad smokes,my mom used to and she lets me smoke,and she sent me money to buy a pipe for my birthday,it seems like a lot of suburbanite baby boomers smoke pot,and they're interesting people too,full of stories,mostly about getting stonned and doing something funny

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your probably the luckiest man on earth.

Dam your lucky.