what is so hard about using a rubber, I don't get it
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what is so hard about using a rubber, I don't get it
Well said!Quote:
Originally Posted by notanovice
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Originally Posted by Torog
I NEVER said anything about even considering an abortion. I DO NOT, and will not EVER support abortions. Which is why I find myself in such a hard place. SECONDLY, the two children that I already have were NOT mistakes. Yes, I was married when I had those children, and yes, I DO support those children. As a matter of fact, they are here with me right now and I love them more than anything else on this planet. I realize what a stupid thing I have done and what the consequences might very well be. Don't take me the wrong way. I am not someone who just goes around making babies and not taking responsibility for my actions. I was basically putting my story up here to share, so that maybe other people could see what happens when you DON'T act responsibly. Yes, I had a few harsh things to say about the situation, but I'm only still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do about it. ALSO, just so you know, I would NEVER EVER EVER be out drinking and driving. (that was for the comment on killing an innocent family while out getting trashed)
Torog, I totally understand your comment, and have nothing to make an arguement about. I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place now, and it's all my fault. Well, I hope you guys learned something here.
Adoption.(SP?)
Wow so many people actually assume she's telling the truth....she's less than what about a week late, a completely normal biological occurence. Id honestly just say to her "Ok , 1. prove its mine(demand DNA before you'll help out if its even true), 2. Prove your actually even late".....Sorry I've dated psycho's (thankfully not fat and ugly ;) ) , and they try this trick all the friggin time. Entrapment of a man so that you can control him (they usually believe this is the only way they can control and keep a man and usually because of their behaviours it is....).
Id seriously tell her to fuck off until she's showing if you despise her so much. With all due respect to her and yourself you have no legal obligation to anyone for just having sex with them (the pregnancy has to be proven ladies sorry your word isnt enough too many crazies out there, you should test us too before you commit to our crazy asses ! ;),the courts recognize this and so should you )
Oh and Torog its nice to see your particular brand of fundamentalism crop up makes me smile mah man ;). Mostly smiling AT not with ;) but I love ya all the same.
men!!! carry rubbers and prevent this
jsut think about the childs sake.....it would be the right thing to have an abortion because the child is not goin to want parents who hate each other....and never see there dad or mom.....also by having this child u would probely jsut fuck up its life...so it might not be better to bring the child into he world at all.....if she is even pregnant......or if u say this girl is as bad as see says i wouldnt want here to be part of its life so u could take care of the child yuorself tho i doubt se would let that happen.
if i had the option of just taking the child myself, and never having to see her face again.... then yes, i'd probably do that. my only other option would be adoption. i will not be responsible for murdering a child. i couldn't live the rest of my life and sleep at night if i did that. i'll just wait it out and see what comes out of it. if she really IS pregnant... then i'll start worrying.
this thread made me fuckign laugh my ass off. Especially-->
fuck that. deny deny deny
you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.
or
just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support
haha =P
-sdffa11 (holy shit that was funny)
Apprarently you have never witnessed the many many fools who appear on Maury's paternity shows who follow the same logic you do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Completely Stoned
The act doesn't fool anyone except maybe yourself. And when people are defensive, it makes their intelligence come off to others as extremely low, even if they are highly intelligent beings. Being defensive or "deny deny deny" is probably the worst advice you could give or take, IMO. Unless your dignity isnt of much value to you.
Listen, whats done is done. Im sure she doesn't feel much better about the situation, if you look at it from her point of view. A possible pregnancy from a man who is divorced, already fathered 2 children and views her as a fat ugly bitch? Sorry to be harsh, but I think you need it: It doesn't sound like she baited much of a fish either, and if she's smart, she would hope she isnt pregnant by someone who is so blatenetly disrespectful of others, and someone who lacks self-respect because he will screw those he finds repulsive in altered states.
I would check your attitude. If she is pregnant, and its yours, viewing her as you do will only make the situation for YOU much much worse. I understand you may be being unkind as a way of coping with a very stressful situation, but fuck, be a man with some dignity. You're not some 15 year old punk, dont act like one. Own your mistakes, and if you do view her as the nastiest bitch who ever roamed the land, then keep it to yourself. You gain NOTHING saying such nasty things out loud, and you lose respect of those who hear it (whether they agree or not) and you'll lose respect for yourself, because only people who lack character behave in such a childish way.
If she's pregnant and its yours, wouldnt you be happier with yourself knowing that you said from the beginning "I'll do what a man is supposed to do" while maintaining your self-respect and dignity during this stressful time? Cuz the end result may be the same (pregnancy, and its yours) whether you throw a tantrum like some little punk, kicking and screaming, cursing the heffer who mothered your child to hell, and/or resenting the child because of its mother. None of those behaviors says "man" to me. And I would bet you'd rather be a man than some defensive, unkind, bratty piece of shit person who likes to think of himself as a man, without bothering being action-oriented to be one.
If your going to make adult decisions (i.e.-sex) , then your going to have to deal with adult consequences. Sorry dude, but have no pity for your situation. Moreover, you'll be lucky to get out of this situation with your life if she is the "Skank" you say she is. Anyone who has sex nowadays without wearing a rubber is a fucking moron in my opinion. I would'nt care or worry so much about weather or not she is pregnant; as I would be about if I had contracted something that would kill me or cause my cock to fall off. ALWAYS WEAR A ROOT SUIT!!!!!
next time u get horny jsut do this and u wont think bout fuckin a skank again
id get drunk again and kill her and eat her body to get rid of the evidence and as for you sons fetus body you dry it and hang it above your bed and dance around singing random sylabyls and eat a pound of yellow cocaine and shit on the world
lots of things can cause her to miss her period. was she sick recently? even a cold, also if she was worried about missing her period a lot, that can even delay it. so maybe she was worried that you got her pregnant and was so tense waiting for her period, that it stressed her out a lot and that's the cause of her missing it.
You seem to be bad mouthing this girl pretty hardâ?¦â?¦.uglyâ?¦fatâ?¦bad motherâ?¦.slut. Itâ??s part of YOUR personal responsibility to either not sleep with these so called â?¦.bad womenâ?¦..or you could always WEAR A CONDOM.
What do you think she feels like right nowâ?¦..
Weeee��.I get to have another illegitimate child by a man I barley know�..who has no intention of being a father to his child��.
Man that sounds like a fucking blastâ?¦
Hah, I didn't get through one word before I laughed at your post, carrielikemclever.
... ;) ...
i dont fuck a fattie unless its winter...the big ones keep you warm in the winter, skinny ones cool in the summer...never completely huge though, just large body parts (tits, ass)
oops ... all i can say
Omg, ousted that was the greatest thing!!!!!!!! I agree 100% with everything you said!! Are u a guy or girl? Either way u r really intelligent:)
Howdy w4,Quote:
Originally Posted by w4terb0ng
Well thanx for setting things straight,you are to be commended for having the courage to come forward and admitting yer mistake..good for you sir.
Also,you are correct to point out-that drinking and driving is a horrible thing to do,and it can't be said-often enough.
As for a practical solution to yer dilema,you need to establish paternity..and then go from there,if you are indeed the father,I'm confident that you will do the right thing. There's a price to pay,for all of our actions that result in a bad situation,accept that fact and then work on what will be best for your child..why should a child be made to suffer the sins of the father and mother ? The child is innocent....
If I were in yer shoes,I'd seek to gain full custody of the child,so that he/she,will have a good and loving father,who will place their needs and wants,above their own wants and needs,that you treasure yer children,is great and wonderful. I don't know if yer a person of Faith,if you are,ask God for help and to that end,I will pray for God's help in this matter too.
I believe that you have learned yer lesson..hold yer head high-you could be a father again ! Children are a blessing and a miraculous gift from God,rejoice in that and work towards a good future for your child and yer other children.:)
Have a good one !
haha thats it t3chyo think positive! :D
:o Wow, thanks, that certainly made me feel good. And Im a girl. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by theprettiestprincess
Darn, I was gonna ask u to marry me:( jk ;)
lesbianism at it's finest... ;)
haha
theres only one aoluion to your problems friend.....FLEE THE COUNTRY
Howdy Y'all,
I would like to point out,like likemclever said,that w4 and others,have said hateful things about the gal in question,appearance. Making fun or light of,other folk's appearance,is a very immature thing to do..But for the Grace of God...there go I.
The physical shell of a person,is not what folks should be judged by,if they are to be judged at all..but rather,the content of their characters and the soul inside the shell. Shame on those who judge by appearance alone ! Shame on me-when I slip and do it at times !
Have a good one ...
WTF! Ever hear of condoms? Youre fucked if she doesnt want an abortion and since you are the male, not man or it wouldnt have happened in the first place, you have no say in the matter. Damn, everybody knows ugly chicks look better when youre fucked up! If its not a decent steady piece, stay away from it. Now you need to start on a testing regimin, you never know what you'll catch. Your dick might not explode on entry, but it might 6 mo. from now.
I'm sorry, Mrs. LadyM, this had too many sexual references in it.Quote:
Originally Posted by ladyM
:cool: I'm blind. Still.
Awwwwwwwww, I meant to post that in the funny quotes thread, so Robert can see it.
you are an adult having unprotected sex with someone you don't know or like or are attracted too....
why did you have sex with someone you where not attracted too in any way?
why did you have unprotected sex?
...I will never understand men...
So you just used this chick for sex when you where wasted, didn't talk to her about birth control, didn't track down the morning after pill or even care about her well being until you heard she was late and now you are mad at her?
You mad at the wrong person.
you know you where taught better- I hope this comes out ok for ya'll
Amen!Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
Saying that pisses me off.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
What about women? They never have unprotected sex? :rolleyes: I know some girls I went to school with way back when. Lets see, 1 of them gave up custody of their daughter, unknown father.
Another one has 3 kids now, all unknown fathers, all different fathers.
And, the other one I knew personally (not THAT personal). She had a baby boy named Jacob 4yrs ago now. She tried killing herself, now dad has custody. She now has a baby girl and is now pregnant with another...2 unkown fathers, 3 kids, all seperate dads.
So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.
Of course they do, but if men dont take the extra step to be careful either, then surprise, she's pregnant, and like fools men claim that they were tricked or are being trapped by a woman, its fucking laughable men's ego's sometimes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou
Sure are, and dont assume otherwise, wear a rubber.Quote:
So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.
everyone makes mistakes, but stuff like this past the age of 22 is just ridiculous.
I don't get why chick would have unprotected sex with someone who was hammered that she barely knew. Something is going on there, so if you must be with a chick like this know that she already has questionable judgement. This is why you talk about birth control, and if you're too wasted to talk about it before hand you should talk about it the next day and if there isn't any, then the little morning after pill will cost ya about $30. You get it, you say goodbye, you get tested for std's and you staple a little note to your cock that says "NEVER AGAIN WILL I LET YOU LEAD ME INTO THE VALLY OF FAT CHICKS, PREGNANCY, THE UNWASHED, BAD LAYS AND STD'S. YOU HAVE BUT ONE EYE AND CANNOT SEE THE WHOLE PICTURE"
My ex roommate would tell guys she couldn't have kids, but that was a lie. She took pregnancy tests all the time and would lie about having miscarraiges and shit just to get the attention of guys like this who didn't really like her but fucked her anyway.
ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.
I think its great that you want to make a responsible decision regarding this possible child. If I were you I wouldn't just make assumptions about her behavior, I would give her the opportunity to do right, and if she doesnt, then you can feel justified fighting for sole custody without visitation. Making assumptions could, in the courts eyes, make it come off like you have a personal agenda like wanting her out of the picture cuz you personally dont care for her, not that you're looking out for the best interest of the child. If your interests are completely 100% about your childs best interests (a good way to make that point would be offering an agreement for her to have visitation rights because you recognize how important of a role a child's mother is) then custody might lean in your favor...and if she is someone who might make an ass out of herself with defensiveness, dysfunctional personality, abrasiveness, or whatever, if you stay composed and maintain your dignity, you wont have to utter one negative word about her. If she's really as bad as you say...they'll know it, you wont have to say it. No amount of words, examples or passion on the subject will change a judge's impression he gets from the person themself. So to make her have the worst impression, you need to give the best impression of character and dignity you can possibly muster. That alone may eat at her and she may blow up right in the court just because of that, because she might have expected you to be nasty and fight on her level...its much more annoying (when you want to be right, that is) when someone is composed, then when they are running their mouth off trying to be right, too.Quote:
Originally Posted by w4terb0ng
Anyway, much luck with it all, keep us posted! Hey, maybe she wont even be pregnant, and all this worry was for nothing...except maybe a good lesson in safe sex. :)
10-4
ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLRIG HT. no babies being made. i am fortunate enough that it turns out this chick wasn't pregnant. WHEWWWWW!! LESSON LEARNED. now it's time to smoke a fatty. :D thanks for your input everyone ... good or bad.
you fucking psyco