Country girl seeks answers

At 16 you think you're grown up already, you think you know everything. Has anyone ever heard of a paradime shift? It's where all of a sudden you wake up and see the world from a totally different perspective, it all feels different and suddenly you think you understand it all now, but in most likelyhood, you will have several paradime shifts in your life. I think it's all a part of learning lessons and growing wiser. My mother just passed away in April from cancer. I believe her death has caused my paradime to shift and look at the world from a different viewpoint.

Is that a cross on your neck? And your asking guys on a message board if you're fuckable? lol I found that kind of funny. And yes, y ou are.

I'm sorry to hear about your mother...
I'm going through one of those paradime shifts right now. I think it's a combination of many things. I feel I am a much better person now because of it.

Christianity has a fucked up viewpoint in the world. I used to be a Wiccan. I then married a preachers son. I became a christian. I am very spiritual, but I do not believe you have to go to church every sunday to go to heaven. God accepts me and all my faults, ecspecially sex, drugs, and rock and roll. He may not like the things I do, but he still cares for me. I have lived an extremely hard life. Like right now, I do not have a mom or dad, all my other relatives are long gone. I just got done spending 3 months with my mom watching her die. I do not have all the answers on my faith, right now is a fucked up time. But I know there's someone up there watching out for me.

on boards like these youre bound to get some douchebag comments ;)

dont sweat it.

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Originally Posted by nuggetgirl

ecspecially sex, drugs, and rock and roll.

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That's what I like to hear. ;)
Alright, time for work :( . Catch ya later.

So is anyone here from Iowa? I get to talking to some of you guys, and I wish I could actually hang with you ya know? If there was someone here from close by, I would toke it up with you.

Waaaaaaaaaaaay far from iowa here. :)

I was born in Kansas tho haha!!! :eek:

Man that sux. I need to get off here and make some pipes, I have orders to be filled.

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Originally Posted by makor01

on boards like these youre bound to get some douchebag comments ;)

dont sweat it.

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If you were referring to me, screw you. I have my opinions and I can chime in when I feel like it. If she wants to post that, then I can speak my mind about it. Plus, I've never met a christian in my life who does stuff like that. It was interesting to hear her view on it. Plus, I dont' see you being the most productive poster on these boards.

I used to live out in the city, in europe and when I lived in North Carolina, but I live out in the country now....nothin but potatoe fields, and I love the piece and queit, and theyres not many cops around to fuck with ya, the ones that do are assholes though. But the only thing I hate about the country is in a small town if you grew your hair long your a hippie stoner fuck who does nothing but drugs (according to these people when I had long hair), but all in all, stay in the country, :p

HAHA nice edit =) anyhow...next topic =) dont hijack her thread

It is true, I put it out there, he made his opinion. I'm just a different kind of person I suppose. I'm kinky, not too many men have met a kinky woman.

What, did you see the sentence ending in you.... I didn't want to be hostile :)

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Originally Posted by Creeper

and theyres not many cops around to fuck with ya, the ones that do are assholes though.

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that is so true, we have this one cop here named Trapper.
And everybody is always like Trappers gonna get cha. He's like Barney Fife on crack.

I used to live in Oklahoma and my friends and I kenw a couple cops. It was always funny when one would pull up while we were skating or something, then thinking we were screwed, just to find out the cop just wanted to chat with us. I've run into a couple Houston PD here and they're dicks. It's no fun dealin with 'em.

I just got a 348 dollar ticket for no insurance. It sucked!

is all u get a ticket from no insurance i thought they could take your car, i ask cause mine just ran out

I'm not sure, states differ on law. Here you get a 348 dollar ticket, and have 30 days to pay it. When you go to pay it though, you must show that you got insurance.

dmv and insurance sucks a big one. having a dui doesnt help. but damn 348 they aint fuckin around thats 3 months inurance for me.

I love living in the city and i would never want to live in a rural countryside.
"In the city there's a thousand things i wanna say to you" not sure why i posted that, probably because i'm listneing to that song right now and i'm too lazy to go back and delete it.

Yeah, I got a dwi too. Where you from rhino?

charlottesville VA home of UVA though i lived in the country. i live in charlotte nc now and i miss the country. i cant piss outside i cant let my dog out without leash and i cant have field parties. so i think i need to move back plus people here are so uptight and in a hurry. i like the slower down to earth atmosphere that the country provides.

Hey nuggetgirl, I am from iowa, near Creston (dunno if you know where thats at) anyways, im only 16 so obviously theres an age gap there haha.

I know I come in Late...

I grew up In the City I completed My Trade and spent a few years(21) Living in the city.
I know Live In the country(past 8 yrs) and I can gaurentee you Its Miles Better In the country..

I have returned to the city only once and realised as soon as I arrived there why I left.

The Noise Of the City after living in the countrly is almost unbearable for the first couple of nights Back But I soon got used to all the noises and it was good to catch up with my freinds..

Im Happy in the sticks..:)

Hey, I looked on the map and creston is really close to me, like 45 minutes. Do you got a good hookup on smoke? I'm looking for some nugs, not just commercial mids. Anyways....holler

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half of these young men are so horny they can't pass a crawdad hole without catching wood...lol

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Hahah Del.

Oh, well living in San Francisco...I love the city. I was born and lived there, moved up to oregon, now I still work and live down there for about 4 months of the year. There are some districts which one wanders into with caution or can get a little nasty (hunters point), but I love the city. :cool:

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Hey, I looked on the map and creston is really close to me, like 45 minutes. Do you got a good hookup on smoke? I'm looking for some nugs, not just commercial mids. Anyways....holler

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hmm... normally all i can get is commercial mids (compressed, dark green, about 1 bowl will fuck ya up). 80/ half oz. :( sorry I cant help you out there.

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Originally Posted by nuggetgirl

Howdy everyone, I was just thinking how much different life would be if I lived in the city. I live in the middle of like 500 acres of cornfield in a spooky 100 year old house. The closest town is population 55. I have a huge yard. I have alot of questions for a city person, like, when you go outside does it bother you to have people around? Or to hear cars going by at night. Do you ever have problems finding parking spots? Is there really gangs that stand on corners? Is there certain areas you won't drive down? Maybe I am a gullible country girl, but I'm just curious. I come from a place where there's not even a cop. There's no shootings, nokidnappings. I'm a pretty good looking 21 year old girl and around here I'm not afraid to walk anywhere alone. If you put me in the ghetto, I'd be dead in like 30 minutes. The thought of a place where I had to be afraid to walk down the road kinda makes me sad. Anyways, any questions, just ask.

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I would trade my life for your life in a heartbeat. I was born and raised (and still live in), the 7th largest city in the United States- San Diego, CA. It was not too bad when i was younger - but now!! 7 years ago, I moved from my peaceful little suburb of San Diego, right straight to Downtown San Diego!! It is like living in Iraq(And I know, I am a Desert Storm Veteran). It is horrible, it is worse then only getting sex every year!! If you need a guide on your first ghetto tour, let me know. My e-mail is [email protected][/email] In the meantime, you should be counting your lucky stars, country virgin girl. Good-bye for now.
Marshall

I wouldn't trade the city life for anything. So much stuff to do and see and to be apart of. I don't know why everyone hates it, especially the gangs and stuff. Maybe it's different where you're from. I'm not afraid to drive/walk anywhere, I've never been messed with (probably because i'm 6'4 170 lbs but still).

I mean, the city is great, as long as you're confident you can go pretty much anywhere, just don't be smug, just be nice and don't fear people.

City life is the shit, but some day, when I'm older I would that quiet life in the country, preferably in the mountains not to far to drive to ski :)

Gangs don't even worry me, I only been fucked around with once and that's because I kinda asked for it.

But concerts, clubs, just being apart of the scene is why city life rules.

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

But concerts, clubs, just being apart of the scene is why city life rules.

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Hey guys quit, you're making me jealous I want a night out in the city!

I have lived in both the country and the city, and let me tell ya I got outta the city as fast as i could. Its just not my thing, not because of the crime or anything which in Detroit theres lots:eek:, but when u grow up and its always quite at night and ur used to things being a certin way and being able to walk around at time day or night and just be safe.
you dont have to worry about anything or anyone. I missed just being able to go the lake and fish when i wanted or swim when i wanted. I didnt get to go mudd runnin because theres no two tracks in the city either:(. It was so frickin nosie too!! that i just couldnt handle. I like being able to look out my windows and see the stars. I noticed in the city the bright lites kinda make them disappear.
and i dont know for some reason I can just breath better in the country air :D

i wouldnt walk anywhere alone in the city at night. its just not the best thing for a girl to do.

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At 16 you think you're grown up already, you think you know everything. Has anyone ever heard of a paradime shift? It's where all of a sudden you wake up and see the world from a totally different perspective, it all feels different and suddenly you think you understand it all now, but in most likelyhood, you will have several paradime shifts in your life. I think it's all a part of learning lessons and growing wiser. My mother just passed away in April from cancer. I believe her death has caused my paradime to shift and look at the world from a different viewpoint.

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I think I had one of these a week ago, suddenly I kinda feel differently about things and routines I go through, and I am trying to shed the image I have of being a lazy ass motherfucker that all my friends and family have of me.

I used 2 live in the city but now live in the country, but honestly I found it so much safer in the city.. like our here, I have to worry about drunk hicks tryna act tough and wild coyotes n shit that live in the forest behind my house.. tho some cities r rlly rough.. like toronto n detroit

toronto is tough? lol...detriot aint really that bad unless ur down town

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Originally Posted by lagstronaut

I think I had one of these a week ago, suddenly I kinda feel differently about things and routines I go through, and I am trying to shed the image I have of being a lazy ass motherfucker that all my friends and family have of me.

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wow...u just summarized my life...

ya torontos tough.. lots of gang shit go on in it

u should come down to baltimore or DC for a week :D