Whats important to you.

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Originally Posted by Ganj

She agrees with me. lol DHS, I must say that you and your husband make a great looking couple. Obviously, I know what it takes to have love.

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Stop flirting, jeez.

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Originally Posted by baisez le monde.

Stop flirting, jeez.

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But I love me!

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Originally Posted by Ganj

Absorbing facts is basically all I do! I do wish sometimes I would take an idea the program introduces and run with it, you know? Peak my interest, so to speak. It would be cool but with t.v., you really have to take everything at face value, or absorb facts. Because underneath all those facts lies a tangled web of ideas and information. Things we couldn't begin to touch base on without the proper education on the subject. But, if everyone watches television, we could all engage in fruitless, seemingly intelligent conversations! lol Sorry for being cynical but I'm afraid I'm intellectually peaked at nineteen years of age.

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Count me in. Im obsessed with the search to understand absolutely every piece of experience, information, knowledge and wisdom that the vast universe has to offer. And I wont rest until I have accomplished that. I will most certainly die before then, but rest I wont.

Oh and sorry to hijack CC!! I put my vote in for personality. Of course to find a girl whose personality matches everything you want, and is the most beautiful girl you and all your friends have seen, would be quite the catch!

However, after a few minutes of understanding how a person thinks, I have found myself drawn deeper and deeper into the personalities of females I didnt think I would have originally been attracted to.

To the person that says looks draw you in, you are right, but I disagree that you cant see personality from afar. Body language, body language, body language. Imperceptible to many, priceless to all. I dont go looking for girlfriends, I dont go looking for sex. When I have a girlfriend Im obviously not looking around seeing who i want to be with, but when Im single like I am now.. its pretty much the same. Walking around all day judging all the sexy women I see, thinking "man I would love to get with her" would be a futile waste of effort. Sure I take notice of attractive ladies, but oddly enough, its in my own way.. and Im telling you right now that it is by FAR the minority in the way 99% of guys think. When somebody stumbles into my life that is so enigmatic that I cant help but notice them, thats when I start forming those opinions.

Personality 75%
Looks - not looks specifically, but physical attraction that can come from looks, demeanor, sense of style, etc- 25%.
I can think of people who I think are physically attractive, but I am personally not attracted to them even in a shallow 'he's hot' way, just because there is some element missing.

The most important is that two people have a positive communication- happy, flirty, respectful.

Communication doesn't come from looks Stinky......at least not the kind I'm thinking about.

Looks are very nice. They also don't last. Base your decision on them and you'll wonder down the road what you were thinking. Like having a beautiful car in your driveway.....but no engine.

There are loads of beautiful women out there, I prefer to go out with women who i think have attractive personalities aswell as looks.

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Originally Posted by Weedhound

Communication doesn't come from looks Stinky

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Oh I know- that's what I was trying to say, communication is most important and totally UNRELATED to looks. I started to fall for my man before I even knew what he looked like. We had a great rapport. Discovering that he's a cutie pie with a great smile was just the icing on the cake.