Enough!!! We're ALL attractive in some way, what's yours?

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

I see that you also have a persecution complex. Very interesting, but not attractive.

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Cute.

Psychoanalyzing people [unsuccessfully, by the way] over the internet is about the biggest waste of time I can think of off hand.

And if you found me attractive, I'd be a touch worried.

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

Cute.

Psychoanalyzing people [unsuccessfully, by the way] over the internet is about the biggest waste of time I can think of off hand.

And if you found me attractive, I'd be a touch worried.

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You have nothing to wory about in that regard, dear.

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

Enough with the stupid 'stroke my ego because no one is stroking my cock atm' threads.

If you don't know whether you are attractive, YOU AREN'T.

Because self-confidence is the only place to start, and a physically hot person with a shit attitude, or who is too fucking insecure, FORGET IT.

So everyone has to put down something about them that they think makes them a good dating prospect.
And I don't want to see any more fucking pictures of teenage boobs. :wtf:
Seriously.
That shit only lasts for so long... it's what's inside that keeps you happy when you are old and your nice rack has turned into a pair of hangers.

I'll start-

I'm attractive because I've got a healthy attitude, a good job, a solid education, and CLASS (most of the time lol). Physically I think I'm average, in a good way, but that's fine with me! Why sweat it if ya can't change it.

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I didn't read anything that followed this, nor do I care to praticipate in this. I would like to say thank you though for saying what needed to be said. This site is getting kind of pathetic with the 15 year olds in their bras and the guys asking if they are attractive.

Thanks. :thumbsup:

I think mine is that im always in a great mood and people in a good state of mind are always more attractive to me.

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Originally Posted by JaggedEdge

I didn't read anything that followed this, nor do I care to praticipate in this. I would like to say thank you though for saying what needed to be said. This site is getting kind of pathetic with the 15 year olds in their bras and the guys asking if they are attractive.

Thanks. :thumbsup:

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When I first got here this forum was a lot worse...

I listen well I am willing to try stuff. I am decent looking, but very insecure about my wieght(for a guy). I don't take stuff to seriously but when it comes down to it I can be very serious. i also can handle diversity because I moved about 6 times.

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

Making money and being intelligent are not the same thing.

I happen to be married to someone that I consider smarter than myself in many ways, but we compliment each others' personalities perfectly. THAT is what it's all about.

The "higher standards" of "successful" women has created a glut of spinsters and neurotics in our female population.

Some of the more intelligent professional women have found that working men without fancy diplomas can be very attractive - but the feeling is not always mutual.

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You may be right that having an education and a good job does not mean that someone is attractive. However, it usually means that the person is dedicated, a hard-worker, and perseverent. These are qualities that are attractive to most people, and thus the label attached to people with higher education and a good job.

I am in college, and I am going to be very successful. However, my boyfriend is 25 and has just been working since high school, and was actually out of work completely for three years. I don't care that he isn't in college, so you are right that women do find men who don't have fancy diplomas attractive. He is back on track and is going to vocational school soon, but even if he never did that I would still love him.
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On that note, I think I am sexy cause I am a fiesty little redhead, with all the connotations that come with it! I am only 5'3", so I am pretty short, and I have a VERY VERY VERY short fuse. VERY. But I am extremely passionate and loving when I care about someone, and I do have the redhead kinkiness that I hear guys talk about.

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Originally Posted by the yeag

I am a hotty because when i walk into the room i roll up confident and dripping with manly Essenes

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

Oh! Is THAT what was all over my sheets?:wtf:

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Wow, yeag.........Premature ejaculation huh? Hope this helps!!:thumbsup:

Seriously though.....CONFIDENCE!!! I know what I got and I know what to do....if a lady walks the other way, her loss. Play it just like they do...it works.:thumbsup:
Besides that, I got a Harley and a pierced tongue...:D

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

Besides that, I got a Harley and a pierced tongue...:D

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Oh, how I love a man with that combination.... :D

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Originally Posted by stinkyattic

And I don't want to see any more fucking pictures of teenage boobs. :wtf:

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Stinky... you are blessed to can have a nice pair of boobs staring at you whenever you wish... you only need a mirror... so, for you its not a big deal. But we man have not this privilege, so we depends on the kindness of some girl to show us... so, if you dont like, just dont look. And let everybody who likes enjoy...:thumbsup:

And for your question... Im very calm, pacient, know to listen very well (women loves it), kind, intelligent... well... i really dont like to talk about myself, so its enough. I know im attractive, so i dont post my pictures here asking it.

(PS. If anybody is willing to post more boobs, it will be very welcome! ;) )

if you want to see boobs, go find em yourself. they arent like sacred jewels. you can find anything on the internet.

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Originally Posted by vileoxidation

You may be right that having an education and a good job does not mean that someone is attractive. However, it usually means that the person is dedicated, a hard-worker, and perseverent. These are qualities that are attractive to most people, and thus the label attached to people with higher education and a good job.

I am in college, and I am going to be very successful. However, my boyfriend is 25 and has just been working since high school, and was actually out of work completely for three years. I don't care that he isn't in college, so you are right that women do find men who don't have fancy diplomas attractive. He is back on track and is going to vocational school soon, but even if he never did that I would still love him.

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That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problems are that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex. Sometimes, it's several of those factors.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

if you want to see boobs, go find em yourself. they arent like sacred jewels. you can find anything on the internet.

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i know... chill out... i was only teasing her :p

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problem is that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex.

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men dont care about their partners diploma?

i couldnt be any prouder of my girlfriend for going to school for 6 years and having a psychology degree. i resent that.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

men dont care about their partners diploma?

i couldnt be any prouder of my girlfriend for going to school for 6 years and having a psychology degree. i resent that.

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That is not what I meant. It's irrelevant to the relationship. Would it have affeted you if she had NOT done the schooling?

My wife went to night school, after work, for many years to get her college diploma -and I am very proud. Would I still want her if she hadn't? You better believe it!

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is not what I meant. It's irrelevant to the relationship

My wife went to night school, after work, for many years to get her diploma -and I am very proud. Would I still want her if she hadn't? You better believe it!

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oh if thats not what you meant then you got me stumped. haha! excuse me. didnt mean to sound rude.

are you going with the love is unconditional thing? if so then i get what you mean now.

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Originally Posted by halfassedjediknight

oh if thats not what you meant then you got me stumped. haha! excuse me. didnt mean to sound rude.

are you going with the love is unconditional thing? if so then i get what you mean now.

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Yes.

It also helps to have similar views, get along, etc. If your interest is music, and hers is physics, that should make no difference.

When you have the unconditional type of love, it's forever.

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

That is very refreshing to hear. I wish you both luck.

Men do not care one iota about a female partners' diploma and income. Those are the first things that many single upwardly-mobile women look at when determining a man's desirability. I could understand a woman not wanting a guy that's dependant, chronically unemployed and not looking for work, etc., but there aren't enough single, "intelligent" (whatever that means) professional types to go around for all of the women with unreasonable, impossible-to-meet standards. They say that they won't become a man's property, but in reality they want to sell themselves to the highest bidder - and the irony is that many will fail to even get any bids at all.

Often, the problems are that they are either nasty, or are unaware of, or unwilling to learn, how to be attractive to the opposite sex. Sometimes, it's several of those factors.

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I do agree with you here. There are many awful, catty, horrible women out there who truly do only want a partner that can match and possibly exceed their salary.

I know quite a few men, however, who are the same way. Maybe this is due to the circles I travel in, but a lot of the men I am aquainted with require a woman to be college-educated and able to pull in a pretty hefty salary, even if she won't end up working when they have a family.

Again, maybe this is not common among men, but in my experience there are many people in both genders who consider fancy diplomas a requirement for attractiveness.

i'm sexy becuase i grow the best damn pot my town has ever tasted and thats not my opion. i'll literly give a stranger the shirt off my back if they need it or give homeless people money for food i donate time at homeless shelters as well have given countless thousands to normal it's only money folks can't take it with you once you have everything you need any more is just a waste with all the people in the world who have so little

hmmmm ok... i would saaaaaaaaay i'm passionate, reasonably intelligent (but not all the time :p), funny and i'm full of love :D...

theres a girl who keeps telling me i'm amazing, but then she says that to everyone she knows so i dont think it really counts lol. :rolleyes:

I love LoVE :hippy:

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

Yes.

It also helps to have similar views, get along, etc. If your interest is music, and hers is physics, that should make no difference.

When you have the unconditional type of love, it's forever.

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i think me and my girlfriend are pretty common and then again very uncommon. shes very serious as im very satirical and sarcastic.

but im a biology major and shes a psychology major.

i love kids and they bug her.

we both are firm believers in womans rights so that kinda helps out.

long story short we have plenty of pros and cons but ill love her til the end.

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Originally Posted by vileoxidation

I do agree with you here. There are many awful, catty, horrible women out there who truly do only want a partner that can match and possibly exceed their salary.

I know quite a few men, however, who are the same way. Maybe this is due to the circles I travel in, but a lot of the men I am aquainted with require a woman to be college-educated and able to pull in a pretty hefty salary, even if she won't end up working when they have a family.

Again, maybe this is not common among men, but in my experience there are many people in both genders who consider fancy diplomas a requirement for attractiveness.

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then that makes them the worlds dumbest smart people :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by vileoxidation

I do agree with you here. There are many awful, catty, horrible women out there who truly do only want a partner that can match and possibly exceed their salary.

I know quite a few men, however, who are the same way. Maybe this is due to the circles I travel in, but a lot of the men I am aquainted with require a woman to be college-educated and able to pull in a pretty hefty salary, even if she won't end up working when they have a family.

Again, maybe this is not common among men, but in my experience there are many people in both genders who consider fancy diplomas a requirement for attractiveness.

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There may be a few men like that, but I think that the percentage of them is miniscule compared to women in that mold.

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Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes

then that makes them the worlds dumbest smart people :thumbsup:

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Oh, I completely agree! These are mainly men in my academic and professional circles, so they are not people I really choose to be around, and they bug the living hell out of me. Its okay though I just load a bowl when I get home :stoned: .

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

There may be a few men like that, but I think that the percentage of them is miniscule compared to women in that mold.

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You are probably right. But then that leads to the fact that a large percentage of men don't fit that mold because they only care about physical appearance, so I don't really know which is better...

:) I'll end my little hijack now, sorry.

A partnership is not a competition...

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Originally Posted by Skink

A partnership is not a competition...

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i don't get it? :confused:

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Originally Posted by Skink

A partnership is not a competition...

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I agree completly... but many people are so competitive they forget it, and try compete with the partner, instead cooperate. Sad but true...

I've known an awful lot of men who care a lot about whether or not a woman has a college degree, although I don't see the same sort of fixation on her career success or income. Deep down, they care a lot more about her looks and the way she makes them feel, the warm-fuzzy stuff. But the educated professional men I know are looking for someone who's going to have some intellectual depth as well as good looks. More than anything, I think for them a college degree doesn't itself convey intellectual depth, although the more ideas someone has been exposed to the greater her intellect will likely be. I think they're looking for someone who's going to be a social equal, too, and have the level of sophistication that higher education helps provide. In other words, someone who'll fit in with their crowd. An educated woman will fit into an educated man's "circle" more easily than uneducated ones. Don't get me wrong. At the end of the day, they still decide with their eyes and with their emotions. But men also look at marriage as a business decision. That's where the desire for someone with a similar level of education and sophistication comes in, I think.

I don't have any statistics as to how many men are interested in a woman's diploma or job status, but the ones that are this way are NOT, as a rule, coming up with equations as to how much MORE a woman should earn than them - but this is what most upwardly-mobile single women have been doing, with regards to potential suitors, for several decades. Everybody know this is true. For example, if they (the woman) make 100k a year, they want a potential husband that earns 150-200k. It goes without saying, of course, the more the better.

Were you spurned by some upwardly mobile single women in your dating days because you didn't make enough money, Breuk?

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Were you spurned by some upwardly mobile single women in your dating days because you didn't make enough money, Breuk?

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I dated all kinds, lol. :thumbsup:

I've known about the salary/assets formula thing for decades. It hasn't changed. How can the women who have this mindset claim to want "equality" ? They CLAIM to support "equality", but they want men that make more, which is why there will be more spinsters - a point I made in an earlier post here.

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

Wow, yeag.........Premature ejaculation huh? Hope this helps!!:thumbsup:

Seriously though.....CONFIDENCE!!! I know what I got and I know what to do....if a lady walks the other way, her loss. Play it just like they do...it works.:thumbsup:
Besides that, I got a Harley and a pierced tongue...:D

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

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premature ejaculation....I think not I can go all night long. I don't need a Harley or a pierced tongue to get MY GIRL going:jointsmile: HAVE A NICE 1

dURING MY TRAVELS TOMOROW I WILL KEEP MY EYES OPEN FOR A GENE SIMMONS LOOK ALIKE RIDING A ROAD KING WITH ASSLESS CHAPS.

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Originally Posted by the yeag

premature ejaculation....I think not I can go all night long. I don't need a Harley or a pierced tongue to get MY GIRL going:jointsmile: HAVE A NICE 1

dURING MY TRAVELS TOMOROW I WILL KEEP MY EYES OPEN FOR A GENE SIMMONS LOOK ALIKE RIDING A ROAD KING WITH ASSLESS CHAPS.

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Hey dude........I hang in politics, I'm used to seeing peoples statements twisted. It's just that you and "S" made it so easy.

Road King??? Good luck........I got a Heritage myself.:thumbsup:

Have a good one!:jointsmile: ........sounds like your having many good ones now:thumbsup:

see ya in the funny papers sir psycho..i got to hit the rack. i got a long ride up north tomorow. 75n 65n 57w i70w a long ass day. goodnight

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Originally Posted by the yeag

see ya in the funny papers sir psycho..i got to hit the rack. i got a long ride up north tomorow. 75n 65n 57w i70w a long ass day. goodnight

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YA! Like Stinky is going to let ya sleep........or is that where your heading?

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

I think that when you really break it down, there is something more to a relationship than simalaritys and common opinions. I think that that would kill the whole idea of Love at First Sight, and I don't mean based on looks. I mean looking at them in the eyes and sensing their presence. Again, it could be a false emotion/reaction caused by the compiling of common interests. But why let it be such a controled substance, if you know what I mean. . .;)

This thread rocks my white cotton crew socks! I am soooo getting my giggle on right now.

I am dead fucking sexy. How can I count the ways? For one thing, if I actually showed you my boobs, y'all would blow up my e-mail inbox. I'm almost 38 years old, and club owners are still calling me wanting me to work at their joints. Yes, I am THAT hot.

But to me, that's not what makes me hot. That bullshit fades. And what's considered hot changes from one moment to the next.

I am funny. And you can't be funny without being smart. I take that back...some people are funny because they aren't smart, but that's pretty hit and miss. I am consistently funny. How's that? That make more sense?

I am an awesome parent. My kids think I am the pure schnizzle. Even my stepkids love me. And I'm not their "friend". I'm mean as fuck. I kick my cat. Sometimes. When I'm not kissing him on the lips.

I've done everything. Sometimes twice. Including marrying Republican.

I shamefully love porn. I'm getting ready to watch a really nasty movie right now, with spitting, anal, forced oral, and fisting. Then I'm going to wake Papi up and let him have it.

I am glam as hell, and sloppy as fuck. You could come to my house twice in a row, and never see the same person.

Sid Vicious and I have the exact same birthday. 'Nuff said.

you just made my night hahahaha

Reading back over my post, crazy is sexy.

I am what I've sought. No wonder I masturbate so much.

edited to say: dammit! I hate not being able to rep you! Maybe it keeps me from internetally stalking you. Yes, I make words up.