Well, theres good news and bad news.
Like I said, I have two plants. What I didn't say is that one of the plants is semi-retarded. It's grown very short while the other one has grown and spread very well. the retarded one was transplanted in it's peat pot while the other one was taken out of the peat pot before transplanting (I wanted to see how well these things work) - I'll never use a peat pot ever again. The Retarded plant has roots coming up out of the soil and everything - it's a real mess.
regardless of this, the retarded plant has little hairs poking out today. Definately a female (or at least a hermaphrodite, which would also be fine). The big one, which is really twice the size bigger with nice big fan leaves to suck up the light, still isn't showing other than those little buds.
I'm hoping to see something today before 7:30pm, when the darkcycle starts.