How many orgasms?

anyway... i know there were few posts, but it seems for me younger women can have, in general, more orgasms. Ive read not all women can have orgasms, but i start to think if it is more a social/educational than a biological barrier... like... some time ago we have not the same access of information of today... nowadays 12yrs old girls can know much more about sex (in theory, hopefully) than many married women... so i think some women dont have orgasms just because dont know what is or how achieve one.
of course, i may be talking nonsense, so what do you women think about it?

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Originally Posted by Coelho

nowadays 12yrs old girls can know much more about sex (in theory, hopefully) than many married women...

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Man, something about that sentence, perhaps its just the expression of hope, strikes me as remarkably sleazy.

It might not have been what you meant but... shudder. I also like how you essentially blame women for their failure to orgasm.

You ladies just don't know what you're doing, that's the problem.

Sounds like misdirected frustration. But you must seriously have a pair to make a post like that. IMO.

Good points, Polymirize. I suspect some of the problems you saw with the thread account for why he's had very little response.

Coelho, ladies do know what they're doing--in all cases far better than men do, at least when it comes to our own bodies and our own responses. And if you'll read a bit more, you'll see that the older we are, the more familiar and comfortable we are with our own bodies and sexual response, hence the more orgasmic. Young girls may get tibits of biology and anatomy in their health-ed classes, but they're frequently vastly under-informed on matters of sexuality, physiology and anatomy. Parents, teachers and health educators have pretty well come to terms with the fact that boys are overtly sexual creatures, but there are still a lot of conflicted feelings among those same groups about girls being the same way. I am conviced that's why girls aren't getting sexual information and facts to the same extent. God forbid we acknowledge the fact that they're sexually active and give them the information they need to protect their health and their reproductive choices.

first of all, i wish to apologize if i wrote anything offensive or bad. i didnt meant any harm, and didnt wish blame women for anything, so please forgive me.

birdgirl, thanks for your reply. now i know only the last line of my post is actually right... :(

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Originally Posted by Coelho

of course, i may be talking nonsense

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my girlfriend was never able to have an orgasm before me. well she could do it but no guy ever had. she told me before we ever had sex that she couldnt. it took sometime but i finally figured it out. she just has to be relaxed mentally. the first time was when she ate some ganja brownies, she isnt a pothead only smokes with me every once in a while.

^^^ I love it when guys come in to brag about their sexual conquests and achievements :P

What's the deal with the ladies forum tho, is it a faux pas for guys to discuss things with you ladies, or is it indifferent or encouraged?

Not a faux pas at all, Hardcore Newbie. We welcome male interaction, too. It's certainly not a girls' only club. It's just that ladies are the minority on these boards as a whole and found that sometimes when asking or discussing girl-related topics in other areas they'd get derogatory comments or silly interjections. This is a forum in which it's safe to address female-related issues without fear of ridicule or negative comments. At least that's what we hope.

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Originally Posted by Hardcore Newbie

^^^ I love it when guys come in to brag about their sexual conquests and achievements :P

What's the deal with the ladies forum tho, is it a faux pas for guys to discuss things with you ladies, or is it indifferent or encouraged?

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Hey im sorry if it seemed like i was trying to brag. it was a big problem at the begining of our "sexual" relationship. The point i was trying to get across was that the girl being comfortable with the guy really helps. its easier for a girl when she is relaxed. so the moral of the story is that sex is alot better (my own personal opinion) when you care about the person and can be comfortable with them.

^^awwwwwww

haha anyways, i only have an orgasm during sex about 25% of the time, maybe even less than that. the only way i can come for sure is masturbating, and runner up to that is oral sex (i can usually come from that, but sometimes i get him to stop cause i take forever).

I agree with that sentiment tho Jizzle, definitely better when you care about them, and you care more about her pleasure in that case.