Do girls stay if they don't orgasm.

wait are you saying that you are having trouble with both of you reaching an orgasm or are you trying to have orgasms at the same time? If you're worried about getting her off you should go down on her. A lot of women cannot orgasm from sex alone.

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Originally Posted by Storm Crow

Sex is a part of a relationship. OK, I'm not the "usual" gal- I have a killer IQ and think a bit differently than most people. When I went looking for a husband, I looked for brains and a good personality! There were a lot of dudes who were a lot more handsome than my hubby (there was Jerry the barber- shallow but killer looks, as an example), but looks don't last, while character does. My hubby has an IQ about 10-20 points lower than mine (but since I'm in the top 2%, pickings are slim). Since he's now in his mid60s, sex is a minor part of our relationship. When you are young, it seems to be the "be all and end all", but as you get older, it's nice, but WHO YOU ARE is far more important. Treat your gal as an absolute queen- open doors, give her flowers, do a lot of foreplay, ask her opinion (on ANY subject) and respect it. Do all that romantic stuff...she will love it! Then one day, if you feel you still are not doing as good in bed with her as you think you can, both of you get really stoned and you ask her "What turns you on?" If she's stoned enough, she will tell you. ;) - Granny:stoned:

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Theres some good points there I do kind of have the mentality of sex will last forever, but what about when its gone. I have kind of just been myself before and the ladys seem to like me when Im like that, but when I just get in that mode I never then make a move on them and they never make a move on me and it just get wierd. I had this one girl that I eally wanted to like and sleep with I asked her out 5 times and she was just like no no and no even though see liked to talk with me all the time. I pursued her for 2 months just always leting her know I wanted to try a little more. Finanly I got sick of it and just told her leave me alone and I wasn't interesed at all anymore. Well about 2 days later shes telling eveyone at work that she want to hook up with me, she sends her friend to ask me to ask her out for her birthday. It fucking pissed me off bad, I mean all the times I asked her directly and here the most risk she was willing to take was rejection through a friend of hers. I mean what if I sent one of my guy friends to ask her if she will go out with me on my birthday, It'd be kind of wussy that I had to send someone else to ask. Just seemed really weak after the 2 months I'd put myself on the line directly taking her rejections.

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Originally Posted by SuperTorch

I have always been paranoid that if I don't make a girl orgasm she won't be interested in me, or will lose interest very fast. Its well known that girls don't like lame sex. I have just eqauted that to mean if they don't orgasm then its lame. But the statistics show that more than 50% of girls don't orgasm(correct me if I'm wrong). So my questions is are they still enjoying sex and satisfied with it if they don't orgasm. I have made plenty orgasm but I have this mindset that I'd better make it happen along with she better see my orgasm also as proof that she's doing a godd job all of it has led to too much pressure I place on myself and that in turns make most girls nervous as hell feeling my presure to make sex incredible and fullfilling but in the end a lot of times its not because they feel my worries but that if I don't make it happen she'll just kind of fade away unable to tell me that shes not feeling anything.

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

If the guy doesn't orgasm is that a turn off for you, or a turn on that he can last and not cum but just deliver the goods with out having to orgasm himself. In other words wich turns you on more seeing a guy orgasm or Seeing him preform and him not demand that he cum. Does he seem like more of a stud if he doesn't orgasm.

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Okay here is a woman's perogative:

1. Yes, but I can organsm with any man if I try.

2. Probably not, but don't take that as an answer for your woman...I know my body and what makes it work, so if I wasn't climaxing, then something would be wrong with the relationship in general...I've never experienced this problem btw.

3. This is N/A

4. N/A

5. See advice below.

You need to read this and take it to heart. If your lady is not climaxing, it may be that she is having a problem with being comfortable with herself and her body. Does she masterbate? Can you talk about it? Can she climax alone? Many women need clitoral stimulation to achieve climax, somewhere around 50%, which is a stat you recited earlier...but read this is not ORGASM, but ORGASM WHILE WITH PARTNER. There are a few positions that can achieve clitoris stimuli or you/her can do it manually while in coitius. Let me know if you are serious and we can go more in depth with the discussion.. I feel from reading your post that you are very serious about this woman and because of this I'd like to help in any way.

Happy Tokin' :jointsmile: Bree

And no, I personally have never been turned on by someone that could not climax....that would make him a challenge though, lol. :jointsmile: Bree

I didn't mean it like that what I ment was if he didn't orgasm as showing you that he had your best interest in mind ie...hes not out to just get himself off, but if he made sure you did but he didn't is that a turn on

? I want us both to be satisfied......isn't that LOVE? I have never taken pleasure in someone sacrificing thier own needs for my own..IMHO. But I do take great appreciation to the sacrifice of letting me get to the finish line first, since I, as most women, can cross that line several times in a row, lol. :jointsmile: Bree

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Originally Posted by SuperTorch

So here are a few questions,

Girls have you ever really like a guy a lot who did not make you orgasm.

Would you marry someone if you haven't orgasmed with them.

Whats the longest time you been with a guy that you go to bed with that didn't make you orgasm. And why did you leave?

If your not orgasming try to explain what your getting out of the sexual relationship. Is it just being close to them that you like.

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So what's the size of your bank account?:pimp: Sex isn't the only thing for some women ya know.........

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

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Originally Posted by Bong30

OMG.... I can feel your stress coming through the screen.

First thing you need to do is "chill the fuckout"

How are you ever going to make a girl orgasm if you are shaking in your boots...

You need to get a girlfriend that will love you for YOU.

When you are exploring each others bodies you will ask her "do you like that" she will ask the same....

have your girlfriend show you how she masterbates, and then do it for her..


Rule # 1 if you want to be a stud....

Boys drop there pants and start humping right away......

A man will drop "her" pants and make her come, and then drop his pants.....

If you can get her to orgasm and then start doing it... she could have multiple orgasms.....

Just remember, If you start giving a girl multiple orgasms (young one, im sure from how old you sound) you will never be able to get rid of her.......LOL

You will be fine......Relax


someday ill tell you about the hat trick.....LOL

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Oh shit not "the hat trick" that is for pros only. ;)

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Originally Posted by OpJ

No. lol get good at felatio.:D

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Cute. But he's going after the ladies actually. Not that I'm judging you or anything. I think its beautiful that you can choose to have that sort of lifestyle if you wish.

Just trying to help out supertorch and all...

Toys,,,buy lots of toys...