oh to be 15 and in love. I haven't been either in quite awhile.
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oh to be 15 and in love. I haven't been either in quite awhile.
Birdgirl's response owns.
Although it seems more fun to kind of find out for yourself how far shes willing to go once you two have already started fooling around, I think it would be a better idea to talk about it first. If shes already turned on and you add a little pressure to have oral sex she might do it but wish she hadn't when you guys are done.
works for me every timeQuote:
Originally Posted by smoking habit
wow that cracked me up for like 30 seconds readin that smoke it, dont know really why.
shit son i dont even remember being 15.all i gotta say is wear a dome, ya dont wanna have little ones running around do ya...
and my advice to u on giving it to your girfriend. just ask her dude or when your getting "physical" go exploring see how she takes it.:D
slapping her in the face with it might work for a few years...wait untl
1. its long enough to swing
2. she's old enough NOT to run screaming out the room like her hair is on fire.
at this age it would be best that you respect her and talk about it.
which reminds me of a quick story...
we're smoking, this girl and I, and I've made the bedroom look real nice....candles all over the room, rose petals on the bed...the whole 9 yards.
I am laying on my back, in the candle lit room, looking up at the ceiling as she is busy doing the oral thing. suddenly a bad smell fills the room...and I am like "what the f....."
I look down at her and she does not yet know that her hair has come too close to one of the candles and caught fire. :eek:
WHOOOSH!!!!
too much hair spray i suspect.
I had to beat out the fire with a pillow.
Poor girl.
Communication is the key to great sex. That and having a wang worth sucking.
When you have sex at 15, you don't discuss it like normal people. You don't have the capacity to discuss it. Yeah im in my early 20s and can discuss it before I nail me a hussy....but thats different. Do you really think they are going to sit across from each other and discuss their sexual future intimacy....as virgins?
Maybe that reflects some brady bunch episode, but that hardly represents real life.
Its pretty basic....find her limit. Keep going, keep taking off clothes, and when an objection is made (or not).....respond accordingly. Yall both already know what you want. All talking will do is fuck that up and make it awkward.
Communication.
Gentleness.
Respect.
Ground Rules.
Protection.
Above all, don't be a dick. Think with the head on your shoulders before you act with your body.
Then if your so 'mature' about you, you should know that your suggestion of finding her limit is way out of line.Quote:
Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
Not only might that pressure her into going further than she intended, but she may not know HOW to say no. Your assuming she's talked to a parent or another 'parent figure' and has decided what she will and won't do, and how to protect herself. She may be completely unprepared for 'finding her limit'.
Think twice before you do this yourself. I know plenty of 20somethings who are still quite naieve about sex and relationships and have regretted many things because of that kind of action.