here's a book thats supposed to be good for dirty talkin
The Fine Art Of Erotic Talk, by Bonnie Gabriel
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here's a book thats supposed to be good for dirty talkin
The Fine Art Of Erotic Talk, by Bonnie Gabriel
Here's another trick....
Get her to tell you a sex fantasy while you're playing.
Encourage her to talk. "Then what happened?"
Every chick has a fantasy. What are hers?
Also try leading her.
"Do you want me to fuck you?"
Tease her clit with your cock.
She'll say "yes"
And you'll say "Yes, what...?"
Dont fuck her until she says the whole thing.
(Granted those words may not be too vulgar....customize)
You may have to do this a few times to get her retrained, but it works.
She may never be a noise maker...so accept that....but I find sex talk hot when we are doing it.
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Originally Posted by hewhispers
retrained eh? creepy!
[quote=chisme]ok i gotta ask it.
look ive been with girls and theyve screamed and shouted while doin the dirty work and i love it.
I really dont know, ever since ive started fucking ive been making noise, it just seems to quiet when theres none...plus why hold it in you get more pleasure when you express it..
So when they're scrapping away at your pecker with their molars I am sure you just smile acceptingly. :greenthumb:Quote:
Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Bah!
You're so amazing, you must be a beast in the sac.Quote:
Originally Posted by hewhispers
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Originally Posted by hewhispers
the retrained comment had to do with getting the girl to talk dirty...not giving head. so where did the 'scrapping' away at the penis comment come from?
dutch.lover
You're right. Wrong thread, but the point is still valid.
If she's not doing something because she does not know any better, providing a source of education is essential, regardless if its scrapping or being too quiet . I think if you make it look like its a bad thing, you will only make matters worse.....so sometimes we have to come up with tricks that get them past their hangups. A gentle hand can help wonders.
Sometimes a firm hand is even better :D
Any idea how many women have told me...
"I would **never** have anal sex"
to me when we start chatting about it, only to find out that they're trying it (And enjoying it) for the first time an hour or a week later.
Perhaps 'retraining' is just too harsh of a word for Stinky's sensibilities.
Shannon:
Thanks. some like it a bit freaky, some like it straight.
gotta play to your audience and leave them with a smile.
;) ;)
haha i like your point about anal, cause i was like that. now im trying to get my bf to open up to anal play but that's definitely not going as well. lol.
I admit it... I'm a quiet girl in the sack when things are most intense. I probably could make all that noise if I wanted to, but at that moment, my body is focussing on other things. Of course, there's a lot of laughing, playing, teasing, and commentary to the lead-up, but when it comes down to it, I think my body is perfectly capable of doing the talking for me. :D