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but you're still PREVENTING something from having a life.. imagine 20 years from now that thing will have a life, friends, would of gone to school, maybe even go to college. Man, i dunno how you can talk about abortion like its nothing. If you're parents aborted you then you wouldnt even fuckin be here dudeQuote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
Preventing isn't a crime . .
Morally, however, that might be another story.
It's just science. ~
listen to this guy's advice :rolleyes: (not rolling my eyes, trying to indicate to look above)Quote:
Originally Posted by someuser
i my mom told me my dad wanted me aborted and she was thinking about it seriously but didnt go through with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by b0Ng h!tz 4 mE
i can understand why my dad wouldnt have wanted me, because my mom tells me im a lot like him.
no offense, but your going on what can be, but it hasnt happened.
twenty years from now i could be president of the united states, but that is just a possibility and so it doesnt have any effect on my life right now, none, zilch.
this is just my opinion, but i would much rather prevent a life and keep mine.
that thing doesnt have a life yet, i still got mine. if it was born and i had to take care of it, there goes my life so that that this thing can have one.
eat the baby when its born... Nothing like a good baby leg for dinner :D
I hate to be the one to say this but there's a good she'll miscarry being that young, her body is hardly deleloped enough to properly create a baby.
Sorry about the news, Lil Josh. What MastaC, our resident intellectual and king of sensitivity, was telling you about it not being a life till the third trimester is not true. It's a life from the moment it's conceived. Whether or not it's a viable life capable of living outside the womb is another matter entirely. That generally happens sometime after 25 weeks of gestation (a full-term pregnancy is 40 weeks).
Definitely talk to your girlfriend. Sure, you two made that baby together, but she's the one who has to carry it in her body and bear the greatest part of the burden of raising it through infancy. I hope you'll both give very serious consideration to adoption. There are so many couples who'd love to adopt a baby, and if you two decide to pursue that route, you'll be doing a very courageous, generous thing.
You two are still kids yourselves. Even under the best of circumstances when you're married, educated, and have well-paying jobs, child-rearing is a huge responsibility. It turns your life upside down, even when you're ready for it and plan the pregnancy. That's why I hope you'll consider giving that baby to a couple who desires that responsibility. Because it's a huge one. And it goes on for more than 20 years if you do right by the child.
Get to the doctor so she can get evaluated and begin disucssing her options. If adoption is a good option for you, in England, just like in America, there are private solicitors (attorneys) who handle adoptions, and that's a way you can make sure her medical expenses are covered, or she can go to an adoption facility for unwed mothers to wait out her pregnancy. Please at least give serious consideration to this option.
yes we have both read about this and this is one of the main factors that is causing us to concider abortion.Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
i would really like to have a bbay with this girl just not at this age, if she was to keep the child i would be there for it 24/7 when it cries i would be there to wipe its tears when it is scared i would be there to turn on a light, this baby could be the best thing to ever hapen to me but im at such a crossroads right now.
man to be saying that shit at 15, i know it must be hard to accept somethin like that. It'd be ALOT of work, sleepless nights, ull have no money, they'll be sarcastic with you, mean, hyper, restless.. and this will be going on for years and years.. but im sure it'd be all worth while when in years to come you can see something you made grow up and stand on they're own 2 feet and go into the world with what you taught them..Quote:
Originally Posted by lil josh
But yeah, you need to go see a doctor, and i mean both of you together, not just her..
btw, do you're parents know yet? they're gonna be spending alot of time with this baby too.. thats if you don't get rid of it or have a miscarage of course
well basically adoption isnt a option as neither of us could bear to bring a baby in2 this world and have it grow up thinking that its parents didnt want/love it when it was born, so its either raise it together of have an abortion.
both of our parents are awear of the situation neither of them are happy but they have said they will stick by us no matter what our desision is they have also said that there not going to make it for us.
lol its good to know im not fiering blanks so to speak lol
all jokes aside ty ppl your are being verry helpfull right now.
she is going to the hospital tomorow to find out a little bit more like how far she is ect..im going with her of corse :) i think due to my age and everyone expecting me to not supprt my gf its making me want to support her and be there for her even more.