Girl help

2 years and nothing....you are stuck in the friend zone. Give her a kiss and see what happens but I think that it is too late.

yea dutchlover im with u, and i dont really think itll ruin our friendship itll just b awkward for like a 2 weeks, if i wasnt scared i would 4sure have asked her out already...it just seems like its never the right time tho

well good luck with whatever it is you decide to do, and keep me/us posted:)

deff will thanks a lot

fakeboobs...i didnt see ur post, that is a possibility, but i think its 50/50 on whether or not she likes me and i just need to ask so i can get over her if she doesnt like me back

Honestly, in my experiences, the best way to do it is to just spill your guts out...

Just ask her if she wants to go out on a 'date'. That way, your not asking her to be your girlfriend, but its the first step. If she says yes, she likes you just as much as you like her. If she makes excuses you know your just very good mates.

treat her real nice, (you probably already do) boil up some confidence, and at the right time look her straight in the eyes and ask her out... you should get an honest response...

rejection isnt so bad, lol i remember i asked some girl i really liked to go out with me on valentines day (thinking she liked me too) and she said no.. but i was glad i asked and afterwards she did become more friendly towards me... lol it took some balls too...:)

good luck man... its all on you...

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Originally Posted by 420purpHAZE420

ok, so theres this girl that i really like...like i cant stop thinking about her...but i dont know if she likes me and just the thought of her saying no scares the shit out of me, so im asking you guys what you think

shes been my best girlfriend for about 2 years now, but for like the past year ive really liked her. i always just told myself to get over it, but since the beginning of this school year i think she may have started liking me back.

basically she mite be the hottest girl in my grade, so guys are always hitting on her in my school and shes very flirtatious back, but i know that she really would never touch any of them. we spend a lot of time together in school and we spend every saturday night together. a lot of ppl think like we are about to go out with eachother bc they always see us together, but im really not that sure. when we are together sometimes she will be very affectionate and hold my hand all the time and hug me all the time, but then there are other times when she wont even let me hug her. whenever someone brings up us going out she always just like laughs and says to the person your so weird. my bestfriend says he thinks she likes me, but my bestfriend isnt so close with her so he can never really know besides from what he sees. everyday after school she usually texts me at least once and calls a lot also and will always im me (i try not to text im her or call her bc i dont want to seem like i have a huge crush on her). I really like her, so what do you guys think i should do?

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I can see this ending horribly. That's what happened to me when i tried to go back out with my ex g/f, we were so close, like i've never been closer with any other girl then her. I was so certain that she would say yes that i didn't prepare myself enough for rejection. After she rejected me and i left her house i broke down in tears, that's the first time i've cried in so long. Look man, i really hope she does like you back but once you're in that friends zone it's SO hard to turn it around. My advice is to move on, find another girl, this will potentially make her jealous and then you may get what you want anyway.

you could jokingly say something like "stop sending me mixed messages haha" or something like that just to see what she says. Kind of feel her out on it.