im not a homophobe, do whatever makes you happy man, dont woory about what other people think,as long as your happy and your not hurting anyone BE HAPPY :D
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im not a homophobe, do whatever makes you happy man, dont woory about what other people think,as long as your happy and your not hurting anyone BE HAPPY :D
If it feels right, then go with it. Love is blind...there's no one specific gender that delivers happiness and love. I know! ;)
I'm curious... whats the age difference?
OK, I'm 59, female, straight and I don't even claim to understand being gay. But it seems to me that WHO the person you love IS, as a person, is far more important than what their plumbing is like. Male or female is just the "wrapping on the box"- what's important is what is inside the box. Just remember there is a big difference between love and lust. Love has very little to do with sex... really! If it is love, go for it! If it is just lust on the rebound, it's still OK to go for it, but go a bit slower. Keep your sex safe, no matter who you're with. They may be a sweetie, but you are "going to bed" with every partner that they had that didn't wear a condom. I wouldn't play the odds- STDs are nastier than when I was a kid. Until both of you get tested, use a condom! Sexual preference is a bell curve with 'prefers opposite sex" as the midline "norm" and "prefers males" and "prefers females" as the ends of the curve. If people are honest, most will admit to being attracted at some time in their life to someone of the same sex. Whether they act on it or not, is totally another story. ;) You're young, follow your heart, just be careful! OK?
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Originally Posted by GollyWog420
What are you, a parrot?
"rrawk!!!! adam and steve!!! rrawk!!!"
Just becuase some right-winger took the time to come up with a little 'cute' rhyming phrase for it doesn't make it right.
Jesus Christ.
You'd better not be having sex except to procreate, either!
Hey, loving another person and getting that love back is the best thing you can do in this life. Love of friends, love of family, or romantic love...
Sex doesn't have to enter into it, but when you feel comfortable, then of course!!
Just be SOOO careful.... internet romance is a minefield.
Don't mistake a good friendship for romance. When you see a good looking woman are you attracted to her sexually? What about when you see a good looking guy? If you don't get physically attracted to members of the same sex you're probably not gay. There are a couple of guys that I have been friends with for close to 20 years now. Yeah, getting together with them makes me happy, and I can honestly say I love them. But I'm 100% hetero.
Your girlfriend left you and it's a tough time, this other guy might just be filling a void. It's a new relationship and since it's the first since your girlfriend left you might just be assuming it's romantic when it isn't. Not saying that's the case, or that there is anything wrong with being gay or bi, just something to think about. In either case, THCbongman had the best advice.
as touching as all the above posts are... I mean, they really help a person believe in love, you know? Anyway, all that aside, maybe you can clarify one thing Sabron...
This is an online relationship? You've never actually met?
Love is a beautiful thing man, but considering the fact that the story seems be something along the lines of boy gets dumped, boy tries to step up relationship with online gaming friend, I'd tend to believe you're just confused as opposed to in love right now.
Very well said Storm Crow!!!
Ok meeting a guy who you met online, who doesn't even know your age is not coming out of the closet...Tell you friends and family your going on a date with a guy and then you can consider yourself "out".
If your attracted to men then consider yourself gay (call it Bi... whatever it's still being attracted to men, I consider myself bi)
To be honest dude I wouldn't even consider anything longterm before I met the guy in person...get him to put his cam on or somthing, just so he can prove he is who he says he is (if he hasn't already ;))
Go on a date (if your 100% sure you want to) even just for a drink or a walk.
Don't do anything you don't want to do, everyone has the right to say no if they are uncomfortable.
And be safe.
(Edit! Be honest!! don't give away too much personal info untill your sure you can trust him...but saying your someone your not is really not on...lying is the worst thing to do if you want to meet someone...once they found out you have lied to them (even online, which is almost completly annoymous) they will be put off...
HAHA sorry for the long post...I was extremely confused about this not so long ago...bit of a muddled post aswell...lol
Take Care
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Originally Posted by Sabron
Wow, wow, WOOOWWW...this is pretty flashbacky for me....listen I feel for you, and I know exactly where you're coming from because there's nothing better than someone really special that makes you feel good. But I have to ask you Sabron, how old are you (don't answer that for me but only for you), and how old is this person that you're talking to online? Do you REALLY know them? I don't want to get all parental on you (I'm only 22), but you know where I'm going with this. I think it's so sweet that you've found someone that makes you feel good and makes you laugh, because nothing is better than that in this life, but PLEASE, for my sake and for your own, PLEASE be careful whom you talk to online, that's what happens to guys who get their hearts broken with online relationships....PLEASE know who you are talking to buddy, and know that there's nothing wrong with ANYONE helping you feel good but DO NOT let ANYONE exploit you just because you need that...you may not see it but it's easy to do that...take it from a pro if nobody else...please be careful out there...I and everyone else here love you and hope for the best for you. Make sure "he" loves you in THAT way. You're vulnerable, please do not be offended by that statement, and realize it yourself...and do something to change the vicious cycle for once...love a man, but make sure it's love and not something that's totally fucking wrong and bad for you and your morale....
MUCH LURVE ~n~ bee goode
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Originally Posted by GollyWog420