Advice needed

key word is overcompensate....like those assholes who got those huge ass hummers to make up for something eles...*wink wink*

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Originally Posted by Frivolous248

... your lucky you just look like a little kid and not retarded and hideously disfigured. No offense to those, but I'm saying others have way worse problems.

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No offense taken.

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Originally Posted by Inferius

Yeahhhh thats the one! I kept thinking of Alexander the Great and Nero but Napolean wouldn't come... :)
In the fields of psychology and psychoanalysis, Napoleon complex (or Napoleon syndrome) is a colloquial term used to describe a type of inferiority complex suffered by people who are short. The term is also used more generally to describe people who are driven by a perceived handicap to overcompensate in other aspects of their lives.

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Hehe nice cut and paste there einstein ;)

It probably seems cliche, but I'm going to suggest it anyway. There are several medications that help with depression and anxiety, all you have to do is get a doctors appointment and ask to see a psychiatrist. If antidepressants sound too offsetting (used to make me dream of satan), then psychotherapy could always help.

Just smoke before you meet people and it will be easier to socialize :p.

dude people develop at different rates im 16 and i still cant grow hair on my face but dude dont worry you will be fine

Hey Slowburn...there are worse things in life than looking young. I know right now, looking younger than you are may seem like it's holding you back in life but there must be a lot of positive qualities that you have that can get you ahead too. Focus on the great things about you.

Seriously, if you had a friend who was in the same situation as yourself, how would you feel about that person? Wouldn't you look at him for the great person he is? Be a friend to yourself. You deserve that, don't you think?

My friend Donny always amazed me. He was always ugly as shit yet always the most popular guy and the focus of every party. Why? Cause hes the coolest most outgoing guy youll ever meet.

Its like a bad haircut. You feel like an awkward doofus at school but since its in your head thats what you are thats how you tend to act and how people tend to percieve you. The key is believing that you are the coolest guy alive while being authentic and not being a dick.

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Originally Posted by Inferius

I would suggest Growth Hormones, but maybe you've already been down that path...
For some reason, I know quite a few people in your situation... But i'm not necessarily friends with them, mostly becuase they went the opposite direction of you, they developed a psychological complex that makes them act tough and an asshole to everyone.
Do you know if you have an actual disease, or a hormone problem, or??
You must realize, your problems are always temporary. Distress fades, confidence develops, happyness can be acheived. Never give up.
I would definately suggest you stick with your old friends however. You don't need to go to school with them to be with them.
You could try meeting new people through them, expirementing with your social interactions in the safety of their companionship. Once you overcome the self-pity, the depression, the lack of confidence or social anxiety, there won't be any more problems. It all comes from within.

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Inferius you have the ability to make sense of anything. I am still friends with my old friends from school cuz i have known them since 3rd grade. And im not a mean person mainly because i know what its like to be treated bad and i would hate myself knowing that i caused someone else trouble in their life. My dad had the same problem when he was my age, and then when he turned 18 he grew alot, i hope its like that for me. anyways thanks for the advice everyone it has really helped me out.

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Originally Posted by make it legal

dude people develop at different rates im 16 and i still cant grow hair on my face but dude dont worry you will be fine

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Yeah, I know what you mean. Theres fuckin kids younger than me with a full grown beard. I am not joking. My chin hairs are just starting to come in and I've had a slight moustache thats noticable but not full every since I was 12 but just recently it started to grow more lol.