Porn question...

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Originally Posted by Shy Sarah

Yeah... you're probably all right. I'm just too jealous. It just seemed like the last straw as our relationship has been in trouble for awhile, were actually on a break now and I found the porn today so I think I over-reacted. Thanks for the advice :smokin:

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I agree that it can be normal ... and actually helps sometimes ..... a guy can explore/satisfy his fantasies without technically straying outside the relationship.

Sarah, it's also normal for a woman to be upset/concerned. Most women don't get off on porn and don't understand why their guys are doing it. Women interpret it as "he wants somebody else" ....which may not be the case.

The communication level wrt sex, early in relationships, is usually low, and sexual fantasy, even in good relationships, is very complex. This is something that tends to work itself out in mature relationships, if the couple makes it that long.

It's normal. You need to worry if he stops looking at pics and starts chasing the real thing.

Well I dont watch porn that much anymore because the porn industry has died to me. They used to have attractive women but now every xxx model I see looks like a damn crack whore. But I guess it's a habit :p. Probably because I was taught right about sex. See my parents are some of those "omg I dont think I can do this" type of parents but my grandma didnt mind. She came from the times when it was rough and nothing was held back so she taught me basically the way she learned. Basically I was raised by my grandma, my parents never really did shit (seriously). By the time I found out the right way or the way I believe is the right way it was too late so I just continue to do what I already did. It's just a habit man lol.

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Originally Posted by orangeman

Well I dont watch porn that much anymore because the porn industry has died to me. They used to have attractive women but now every xxx model I see looks like a damn crack whore. But I guess it's a habit :p. Probably because I was taught right about sex. See my parents are some of those "omg I dont think I can do this" type of parents but my grandma didnt mind. She came from the times when it was rough and nothing was held back so she taught me basically the way she learned. Basically I was raised by my grandma, my parents never really did shit (seriously). By the time I found out the right way or the way I believe is the right way it was too late so I just continue to do what I already did. It's just a habit man lol.

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your grandma taught you how to masturbate?

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Originally Posted by yoda

your grandma taught you how to masturbate?

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You'd be surprised what my grandmother exposed to me :p.

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Originally Posted by orangeman

You'd be surprised what my grandmother exposed to me :p.

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ewww.....fucking EWWWW...thats going in my sig though

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Originally Posted by yoda

ewww.....fucking EWWWW...thats going in my sig though

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ROFL! That was a joke but it was kinda funny xD. But she did give me porn mags hahaha.

When I was growing up, we didn't have adults telling us about sex. We learned about it the traditional way, which was more fun: in the gutter. :thumbsup:

LMFAO! @ orangeman and yoda!

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Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat

When I was growing up, we didn't have adults telling us about sex. We learned about it the traditional way, which was more fun: in the gutter. :thumbsup:

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When I was growing up .... there was no internet, DVDs or VCRs .... Porn was played in a dark, smelly movie theater, with a bunch of other guys wearing overcoats in July.