Lady Troubles....

I would have to know what "things" you did or didnt do that she is upset about.

The needy thing is common (for both guys and girls) but is something that you need to work through, because if you're really gonna have a lifetime relationship, then both of you will need to trust each other to spend time away.

A good approach would be to say "Have a great time with your girlfriends", then follow up with "I really hope our plans for the weekend are still on".

well, she's kinda funny like this, i dunno if its normal or what. but today she was herself, and she seemed not to mean the thing about not seeing me today. we hung out at lunch, and whe weekend is definitely still on. well, thanks for the advice. although, looking back, im not sure it was advice i was looking for, so much as just a place to get it out. way too often, something happens between us, and i keep it inside, when it feels much better just to get it out.

thanks anyways, but everything's gonna be fine:)