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Im only saying lie occasionaly, but the ass grabbing works to get you out of the "friend zone" it makes her think of you as a guy not some friend, it tells her that you interested in more than just being friends, but subtlely, and its not even close to the first thing you do, you gotta work up to it. But to the lying, it keeps the conversation going to, thats an important part, your want to be interesting.
But when she asks you where in Florida you were living, and realises you don't know the place you're talking about she's not gonna think you're interesting, she's gonna think you're pretty dumb. Yeah, try to keep the conversation going, but you don't need to lie about stuff just so you can "prove" you have some things in common. Using your example of Florida, well isn't that a perfect excuse to ask her where she was living, and what it was like, and why she moved etc...Quote:
Originally Posted by BestTonicIsChronic
Oh, and a bloke doesn't need to grab my ass for me to realise he's an available guy, not a "friend".
CC, you got it right .... nothing else needs to be said.Quote:
Originally Posted by cannabis campbell
Listen to ganjasaurex, you can't just be yourself. There's many things that guys do that they would consider being themselves that are major turn offs.
Ya really being yourself is good in all, if it is attracting a girl, but if its pushing them away, you might want to change for the better, cuz you will definatly thank yourself if you a virgin, and you change and you get laid, thats for sure.
Try to just ask questions, people will talk about them selfs aslong as there is someone to listen, keep them talking, but dont ask personal questions.
Solid advice. You dont want to sit there with dead air not talking. Asking girl about herself can keep conversation going for hours.
Sadly the me too lying does work. I know a guy who just tells outragous lies of the me too variety. No matter what she says, he did it too. It works because it makes her feel fake connection, but its sleazy, can be very transparent if the female askes follow up questions or is on guard for sleazey types. Its for girls you arent planning long term thing for, dont build marriage on lies..
Alright heres an update this is about being "cool", just go with me on this. Here are a few of the Do's And Dont's to be cool. K the dont's first because I know alot of you guys are doing these.
First, dont be a smart ass, now this is differant from being cocky, a smart ass will argue to prove that they are always right, and will always fight the opposite side of an arguement to seem smart, DONT DO THIS!! Be cocky, if your right make and they realize it, then reassure them by saying something "Of course" or something else cocky, and if your wrong be cocky as well, DONT ARGUE!
Second, DON'T BE THE NICE GUY! As they say "nice guys finish last" and their right who ever said it. By doin whatever they ask, and letting them walk all over you, you are tellin them your not a man, because you are being pushed around and being a wuss.
Third, DONT BE THROWING COMPLIMENTS AROUND!! They make the girl feel like shes already won, by you just comming out and saying it, you have to make her work for that kind of affection, you gotta act like you dun giva shit for her affection, this in turn will get you ''on top'' and make her have to work for you, BTW they do like it belive it or not.
Now for the do's. First, like Ive said previous, tease them, treat them like youve know them for years and are good friends with them, be comfortable with em, and in turn they will be comfortable with you. Now you have to learn how to use this to not come off as wierd or a perv. You have to get to know them a little, and they have to get to know you a little, but not to worry all this can be done in ONE NIGHT thats right ONE NIGHT, no more having to spend quality time with em before. Once you are comfortable with them, bust their balls a little, I know that sounds bad considering Im talking about girls, but its a metaphore, make fun of em a little, THEY LOVE IT.
Second, this takes effort, practice and BALLS. Try ignoring them, like you get introduced to them, say hi, get her name, then turn away and talk to your buddies, as if she means nothing to you. Like Ive said previous in this post, act as if you dont need them, make them have to chase you.
Now women want someone who is also independant, indefferant, socialaly adjusted, and funny, but not just women but everyone. They do not want depandant, awkward, non-funny, people.
Third, now this one is a stretch too, be blunt (lol blunt), and say shit like "I dont think your my type" or "If we did have a realationship, it probably would go past the physical". Be laid back, they love it. Again act as if you dont need em, they will chase you.
Now this dosnt just work for women, it can work on friends, just you know tune it so it dosnt come off as you trying to pick your buddy up. LoL. Ppl will wanna be with you if you are laid back, casual, and fun, also havin a shit load of chicks around you all the time helps with making yourself look good.
Thats too much work..
just be clean dress good and know how to talk to a chick and its easy, no matter how ugly you are you can always find a chick 4 you..
Well do you just want a few girls, or do you wanna work for it and follow what Im saying here and live the good life, having all kinds of pussy after you.
lol, not everyone is after a different woman every night...