Cheating and lying

Thats a good way of thinking about it :thumbsup:

sometimes they dont feel bad though, they dont give a shit and they dont even notice they do it.

and i hate it when girls think its ok to do certain things but then get jelous at you when you do it like hugging a friend or texting or something like that.

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Originally Posted by MaryJaneintheCloset

Oh man... I am so sorry, HiddenBeauty. :(

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Thank you MaryJane,you really are a sweetheart :)

I just want people to know that cheating can cause alot more harm then a broken heart.

i know one of my x's cheated but I didn't care at all cuz I never really loved him

hell no! let me say this....every man(except my hubby{i know}) i have ever known has been a cheater and one point or another, dad, brothers, grandpa's, friends, coworkers, boyfriends. so, this i ask...how can my hubby be so special? what makes me so special
i just have to give up control, and realize ppl will cheat. i think its less a fear of being cheated on, and more about being dooped. i hate the feeling of knowing someone got over on me...

did you ever hear the song "Make an ugly girl your wife"????
well I got sick of having hot looking women that can fuck any man they want because they will when it comes down to it
my present gf is overwieght and a nice person and she wont cheat :-)

Yes, I trust my partner 100% and he trusts me. We both have no problem "flirting" with other people because we are so secure in our relationship. And when I say flirting, I don't mean disrespectfully either. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop looking, flirting, or accept compliments from other people. I think it's only human to look and flirt a little. As long as they know you're just playing around and you don't string anyone along into thinking that you want to get laid.

I sense a lot of insecurity here. If your partner cheats and lies, you know she/he is not worth your time and whether you're attentive and giving your partner everything they need to be faithful, it doesn't matter because it's not you. It's the cheaters and liars that have a problem so sooner or later, they would've cheated on you or anyone else for that matter.

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Originally Posted by orangeman

Yes, I do because at the end of my last relationship this bitch was actin like she wasnt feelin me anymore and as SOON as we break up she gets another bf, like he was waitin for the breakup...fuckin bitch. But no, not even when this happened will I cheat on my mate, I'm a really loyal guy...it's fucked up how people who arent loyal all ways gets the loyal friends but never treat them right and the loyal people always gets fucked over.

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Yeah I don't get it ethier why is it the loyal people get screwed up by the disloyal its actually starting to piss me off and its making me feel like not being loyal (but I couldn't do that because I have morals)its like whats the point when you don't get it back?:confused:

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Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry

Yes, I trust my partner 100% and he trusts me. We both have no problem "flirting" with other people because we are so secure in our relationship. And when I say flirting, I don't mean disrespectfully either. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop looking, flirting, or accept compliments from other people. I think it's only human to look and flirt a little. As long as they know you're just playing around and you don't string anyone along into thinking that you want to get laid.

I sense a lot of insecurity here. If your partner cheats and lies, you know she/he is not worth your time and whether you're attentive and giving your partner everything they need to be faithful, it doesn't matter because it's not you. It's the cheaters and liars that have a problem so sooner or later, they would've cheated on you or anyone else for that matter.

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If I couldn't flirt, I'd feel dead, lol! Flirting is more or less harmless, imo. Some people can't handle it, though, due to insecurities. I can't say I've never cheated on a girlfriend before, but I can say that it's not worth it in the end.

If you 'love' someone cheating becomes an obsolete concept, but flirting remains fun...

I like your views. :thumbsup:

I have cheated, and i still do, and if my girl wants to cheat, she can, i really don't care. I like open relationships, and i ain't ready for no commitment, and i admit that to her. I talk to other girls, get their numbers and shit, and i know she does the same with men so watever.... And when i am in a serious relationship and my girl cheats on me, i won't give a fuck, cause it's her loss, she's losin me so watever...when it happens it happens....