my girl was the same way...we have had some hardcore arguments over herb....but she now knows she must respect the way i live my life or she wont be apart of it...so what im saying is you need to tell her how it is or be on your way
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my girl was the same way...we have had some hardcore arguments over herb....but she now knows she must respect the way i live my life or she wont be apart of it...so what im saying is you need to tell her how it is or be on your way
she knew you smoked before...If she's already trying to change you this early into the relationship, imagine what you'll be like in 5 years...run..run..run
It's a shame, but sometimes people are TOO ignorant for their own good, and think their opinions are common fact, and that no matter what people say, they are right cos they said it.Quote:
Originally Posted by welshkillabee
Just have a quiet talk with her, and tell her why you do it, and that would she rather to be a nice gentle stoner, or a chain saw wielding alcoholic cutter her body up in the garden...
I think she'll choose to let you smoke weed...
If not, then maybe she has issues... It seems shes trying to control you, which would be havock in later years.
Good luck buddy.
yeah...forget her. seriously. She went behind your back and talked to your mom. She won't even listen to what YOU have to say. Eff that, stay true. Don't change for anyone. I don't wanna say there are plenty of fish in the sea....but there are. Theres plenty of pot smoking laid back fish in the sea too. Nab one of them.
yea good luck for real. Never had to deal with that problem but i know people who have and they allways end up breaking up. Sucks.
pot head + non-pot head = unhappy pothead
dont get this equation wrong. i only did once, never again...Quote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
ahhh shit....tell her that if she ever drinks an alcoholic drink she is going to die from it....
then tell her that the drug you are using has less negative effects than the drug she is (may possibly be!!) using....
lmao thats why I spend most of my time with guys ;)
after reading the rest of your post.....
would you not change the way you live your life for the person you love??
no?....nor me......take me as i am, or leave me...
Hon, it's not gonna get any better as time goes on. She is already in the mindset that all drugs are bad. She's 25 and isn't gonna change for you. She expects YOU to change for HER.
That is not a good relationship.
My husband doesn't smoke and only occasionally drinks. I smoke and I smoked long before he met me. If he wanted me, he took me the way I am. That was almost 15 years ago. Right now he's 5 feet away from me and my smoke and he's just fine with it.
I'd say since its only been 6 months, to cut ties now before she starts getting mean about the smoking and all the big fighting starts. Just cut it now. Do yourself a favor.